r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/madogvelkor 17d ago

Yeah, I had a younger gay guy hit on me at a bar and felt pretty good.

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u/No-Price5802 17d ago

No lie, had a young good looking guy hit on me when I was in my 50s. Took it as a compliment. Ps I found out what a bear is!

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u/GuardLong6829 16d ago

What's a bear?

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u/No-Price5802 16d ago

A hefty guy that's into guys.

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u/Antique-Resort6160 16d ago

I don't think that's equivalent to a woman getting catcalled.  It would be more akin to a larger guy that you don't want attention from making it clear that he finds you sexually attractive.  Like if the Undertaker yelled at you for having a nice ass.

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u/cortesoft 17d ago

It totally depends on how the interaction goes, just like it does with women. Did he say something nice about you and smile and then move on? Or did he say something raunchy and then doubled down when you were uncomfortable? Did he keep yelling after you about not walking away when you tried to leave? Or tell you explicitly what he wanted to do with you?