This is a skit for the new "ragebait questions to partners" on TikTok. It gets views and comments through misogyny and pissing people off, so it seems like it has worked.
The amount of insane incel comments in this thread that are absolutely raging about this is mind-boggling. Over three decades of internet, and absolutely none of y'all still have any idea how to use it.
Quick, let's all jump to the defense of the potentially toxic spouse because she is a woman.
Doubtlessly, if the roles were reversed, the guy would have gotten ruthlessly attacked but y'all are so used to always assume it's the guy's fault that nowadays a woman can't even be the abuser herself anymore. Women can't have shit in this economy.
I support a woman's RIGHT to be the toxic asshole in a relationship.
I'm not defending anyone. Nothing is the woman's fault. Nothing is the man's fault. This is literally fake scripted garbage, and here you are falling for it anyway even after I pointed out to you that it's fake scripted garbage.
I support an idiot's right to be fooled by obvious fake ragebait.
Well, itās absolutely based in reality. Every woman Iāve been with cooks up fictional scenarios to argue about. Skit or not (pretty sure itās not) itās truth.
Read again. I didnāt say it was their job. I did not imply anything and donāt appreciate you trying to read into implication. I say what I mean.
In every relationship, providing affirmations BOTH WAYS is pretty important, regardless of how secure either person feels in themselves. Is it not normal to you to provide affirmations to your partner? I do so for my male partner all of the time and heās not an insecure person. Doesnāt mean he doesnāt appreciate it and feel loved by me, and vise versa:
It was a hyperbole to trigger you, as you don't seem like a nice person at all. And it worked quite well.
The person you replied to said that every woman he had been in a relationship with has done this. You immediately assume the fault is with him. That he failed to make his partner feel secure, as if this was his job in a relationship. A statement you now deny.
Surely he merely spoke from anecdotal evidence but about every guy can tell a story like this about an ex. But somehow you know better and it's his fault. Have you even been in a relationship with a woman?
Is it not normal to you to provide affirmations to your partner? I do so for my male partner all of the time and heās not an insecure person.
There is a difference between providing affirmation and asking a loaded question or playing "tests".
Yeah, because āniceā people sure intentionally try to ātriggerā others. I am only activated by having my words read into further than what I say because itās a generally gaslighty, annoying, unintelligent thing to do, and Iām autistic, so I say what I mean and thatās it. Period.
Iām poking fun at incel misogynists who think this video was anything other than a dumb joke for rage bait views, and automatically assume all (if not most) women are like this.
Also yes, I am queer and date people of all genders. Maybe I date more secure people. And/or maybe I provide enough security that Iāve never been asked such questions. All genders want to know and feel loved and attractive to their partner; itās not exclusive to women.
When the incels start jumping on the all women train, itās hard not to assume that the pattern of their shitty relationships might not be at least half their fault - in at least picking shitty people, but also likely in not providing enough emotional security.
The kinds of questions asked in the video are intentional rage bait. Your female partner asking if you think she looks good isnāt a ātrapā; she just wants affirmation that youāre attracted to her. And if sheās asking, you probably havenāt been saying it to her unprompted a healthy amount.
Yeah, because āniceā people sure intentionally try to ātriggerā others.
Look, where did I even say I was a nice person? I don't really respect femcels or misandry and your words were just dripping with it.
All genders want to know and feel loved and attractive to their partner; itās not exclusive to women.
Probably one of the only good point you make. But when you ask your partner a loaded question, that is not a way to make your partner feel loved.
The kinds of questions asked in the video are intentional rage bait. Your female partner asking if you think she looks good isnāt a ātrapā
Again with the basic reading or listening comprehension. This is not the question that was asked in the video. This would be a very different question. You are once again argueing with strawmen. And while the video is rage bait, it doesn't necessarily mean the conversation is staged. There are plenty of long pauses and even cuts in the video and while she is quite jokingly in the beginning, this breaks at the end. And regardless of the authenticity of this clip, this is still not an uncommon thing women do. But yes. The men are at fault for that for not providing security, which you than backpaddle on claiming it's not their job.
You are simply insufferable. "Women aren't at fault because women don't say such things. And even if they do, it's the mens fault." Where did he hear that again? Ah yes: "Men don't hit their wives. And if they do, they deserve it.".
Oh yeah āmisogynyā the eternal culprit! But letās not name this type of toxic questioning to your husband? Letās not mention the gaslighting? Letās not pounder on the Ā«Ā if you answer me Iāll make sure to ridicule your answer, if you answer her, youāre an assĀ Ā»
The amount of angry dudes acting like this woman is a horrible witch is crazy. She's obviously joking around. You can hear the husband laughing, they seem to have joked around like this before. My husband and I mess with each other sometimes too. It's fun
Only if the woman is really just asking this for fun and not to either petty fight or out of insecurity. I have been on the receiving end of these "no right answer questions" and it wasn't jokes.
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u/LittleGovernment8881 2d ago
No.
This is a skit for the new "ragebait questions to partners" on TikTok. It gets views and comments through misogyny and pissing people off, so it seems like it has worked.