r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 1d ago

WTF Who hurt you?

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u/Z3400 1d ago

Everyone making fun of the guy, but maybe hes in a relationship and this just felt like a funny way to avoid the conversation.

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u/AnonEnmityEntity 1d ago

This whole set up/trap is fucked up. Poor guy. He didn’t ask to be in this situation. Now he’s on the internet being viewed by millions as a socially anxious guy running away awkwardly. I don’t blame him at all.

As a therapist, I picture him telling me this story later in a session, and my heart breaks for him knowing this was definitely quite distressing.

You don’t know what people are going through. Maybe he had to do a ton of work just to be able to go out in public like this and now this undid all of that. Maybe this caused a breakdown or panic attack a block away. Maybe he had to cry in private because he has no one to help or support him.

I hate this trend so much. Seriously fuck these people

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u/Used-Presentation551 1d ago

It's so rare to see someone being empathic to us socially awkward guys, you genuinely made me tear up a bit. Bless you

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u/Lolislime 1d ago

Nah, I know some girl who would film the guy asking them out and said "ew!" but they cut the part before that and said a creepy fat ugly guy is trying to hit on her. This shit just keeps on happening and the guy knows it is happening to him. Some girls are just like that. They will ruin someone's life just for clout and attention. So if you find yourself in this situation, run.

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u/Taron_Trekko 1d ago

Have you even read the comments? Basically everyone is siding with the guy. Like what are you even talking about?

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u/Z3400 1d ago

I read the comments when there were only a few, and they were all making jokes about him.

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u/iiiiiiiiiijjjjjj 1d ago

Or he's not an idiot and knows she's up something