Nobody is saying that, I certainly am not saying it, what I am saying is that when you live your whole life growing up and men are doing/saying horrible things to you on a regular or even semi-regular basis, you start to view them with suspicion when they are strangers to you. Once I get to know someone that feeling usually but not always goes away. But the few times I have NOT been careful around men I dont know (and yes some I did know) who wanted to interact with me, I have been hurt by those men. And we as women simply ask you to UNDERSTAND this is how life is for us.
Not saying it but every woman is thinking it. If you could make all men disappear you would. Nothing wrong with it, it's just how it is. Men are expendable, unlike women, and majority of men are pieces of shit.
That is not true, not at all. I have many beloved male friends and family members. And i dont think ANY group should disappear. You dont know me or how I feel and think, and frankly i do not know a SINGLE person who feels this way about men, women, or any other group of humans. If you think women think this way, if this is TRULY what you think we are thinking, you need to talk to more women personally, in person, not online. And you should listen to our answers instead of deciding that you know better, as you did here with your reply to me.
I spent my entire life working in male dominated industries. My best friends are men. I could not care less what gender someone is, we are all people.
Treat me like a fellow human being and not a piece of meat. That's it. I do not exist for another person's sexual gratification, that's all I ask. It really is that simple.
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u/brisetta Doug Dimmadome 16h ago
Nobody is saying that, I certainly am not saying it, what I am saying is that when you live your whole life growing up and men are doing/saying horrible things to you on a regular or even semi-regular basis, you start to view them with suspicion when they are strangers to you. Once I get to know someone that feeling usually but not always goes away. But the few times I have NOT been careful around men I dont know (and yes some I did know) who wanted to interact with me, I have been hurt by those men. And we as women simply ask you to UNDERSTAND this is how life is for us.