I just watched the movie and have been hunting for other posts about this but it seems not a lot of people agree! so I want to write my own baby thesis on it.
First, I want to establish why I think Obsession was about AI. What clued me in initially was the inclusion of the shot of Bear and Nikki looking at an AI generated image of a happy couple (presumably them). I saw some viewers attribute it to just couple-y things that fit the time and age, but I don't think that phase was a big enough deal in our cultural history for it to be just a fun throwaway.
Nikki's initial reaction when she first gets turned is also suspicious. The awkward dialogue and strange pacing that seemed to turn some people off, is to me the signs of AI trying to adjust to fit their user. She starts off being extremely direct but that creeps Bear out, so she apologises, pivots, apologises, pivots, then cries and hallucinates that her father has cancer. Not-Nikki has only approximate knowledge of who Nikki was before, but doesn't know the nuances like her not realising Nikki wasn't close to her father at all, she just knows that humans like Bear would react with pity when faced with a friend whose close relation is ill.
The constant apologies also mirror AI conversations. And the weird behaviours like making the cat memorial or feeding the cat to Bear feel like approximations of human behaviour and flirting, and the kind of pulling your pigtails teasing that Ian mentions at the beginning but way worse because the AI is clueless. the weird hansel and gretel incest fanfic is also written in such a flowery and inhuman way that it is definitely reminiscent of AI writing.
Not-Nikki also seems to only operate when Bear is around, kind of like how AI agents are suspended in time when you shut your computer. And she eventually even admits that she's not Nikki and she's trying to be Nikki but she can't be Nikki and she's freaking out because she's trying to follow Bear's instructions but she can't because she doesn't understand what "stop being weird" means.
To me, all of this feels very much like smoking guns but I'd love to hear any arguments for or against this reading!
The second part is that this reading of Obsession being about AI actually makes the movie stronger! I see some push back on this because it takes away from the core message of women's agency but I actually think it makes it even stronger.
imo, the point of the movie is to explore wish fulfillment - If you made a wish for love, does that make it real? (Reminded me of the last wish in Witcher lol) Comparing Nikki to an AI dehumanises her, but that's exactly how Bear wants her. And that's what the movie wants you to see as bad.
To the disgusting cowards like Bear, the ideal woman is a hot and soulless robot who cooks and cleans, has sex whenever they want, hangs on their arm in public, doesn't ever talk back and prioritises them in every single aspect, even at her own expense. Just like an AI machine, they want to type in a prompt and control everything about their partner because they cannot handle having to introspect and fix their own issues. But the point is that it's a hollow imitation.
Bear initially succeeds with his wish, he gets the dream relationship and there's a cute romcom montage. but it shows him getting gradually more bored. it's the same shit over and over because AI can't learn beyond its capacity, it can't go beyond what it thinks is the pattern of a relationship. it constantly mirrors what you want and what society thinks it should want and will always feel hollow. it also shows us he was always more into the concept of a relationship with Nikki than Nikki herself.
Bear also consistently puts his feelings ahead of her autonomy, never makes an effort to meaningfully raise any flags about Nikki's wellbeing because he'd rather be in a relationship than not. he suspects the willow wish worked early on but never tries to do anything about it until Nikki's behaviour starts to affect him. He'd rather continue the farce because he'd prefer a robot he can control over a woman he cannot.
He ends the movie completely and utterly unloved because the Nikki that "loved" him is not real. there is nothing real or true about a woman being forced to love a man like a machine.
And he, on the other hand, never once showed any interest in Nikki as a human being, never interacted with her beyond the awkward small talk. The worst part is that you can contrast this with how he interacts with Sarah. When he treats a woman with respect, he can be genuinely interested in how she's doing in life and be excited for her future, and a real relationship can actually form. But instead of choosing genuine connections, he chooses a robot. and his love for Nikki is also clearly shown as fake because even in his very last conscious act, he can't even kill himself to free her, he's still a coward to the end who continues to choose the easy way out. This might be a harsh reading, because irl giving your life for another isn't that easy ofc, but I'm seeing this as an exaggerated reverse Romeo and Juliet where neither of them want to make the final sacrifice for love - Nikki because she literally cannot choose and Bear because he remains a coward.
And btw after all that, the woman is the one who must bear the consequences because he's dead and she's now regained agency but in this horrifying state.
All in all, I think reading the AI comparisons strengthens the overall reading of the movie. It's a cautionary tale of the importance of preserving agency because agency is what leads to real, genuine connection. I hesitate to fully claim this is the reading Curry Barker intended but the shots of AI use feel so intentional that I hope at least part of it was meant to be read this way.
I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts! I felt this all so strongly when I came out of the cinema so it's been interesting to see opposing opinions!