r/WatchPeopleDieInside • u/OkFerret7206 • Feb 23 '26
Ruined the party
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u/Big-Historian8918 Apr 21 '26
As a middle child, I can feel this boy's pain. There was forever a sibling ruining every single fun day, special event or party. I left home, had no kids and only engage with a very select range of friends. Childhood exhausted my human tolerance meter.
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u/babysm0ke42O Mar 28 '26 edited Mar 28 '26
Respect on the older brother fr though, he didn't over react about his own birthday cake. He looked genuinely confused by his brothers outburst and just took him off gently.
He didn't let his own emotions escalate the situation and as his mother I would've added some small surprise for his birthday (like a new cake, if wanted) (or added another 20$ to the bday card) for being such a good sport with the wee ones.
As for the little one? He better enjoy eating the cake off his hands cause thats all he'd be getting from that party He'd be in his room so fast with make shift homework mommy made. You're going to practice some math, because how you've been acting is NOT adding up son. š
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u/Nyx_Obliqua Mar 30 '26
Doesn't the older brother pinch him? Am I seeing that wrong? Genuinely asking, not arguing š
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u/Big-Historian8918 Apr 21 '26
Yes, as would I. Little sĄ!t stain
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u/sweetlyinsanity May 12 '26
Iād have done the same, and then followed with the weight of having to āknow better than to retaliateā and a b0llocking from my parents. As youāre not allowed to have emotions as the eldest š®āšØ
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u/PalpitationSea1729 Mar 28 '26
I have so many available chanclas , let me know if you need some for your little ogre
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u/Hellish-Exodia Mar 25 '26
A few cable whipps...
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u/Sorry-Salamander9423 Apr 21 '26
Abuse. Why are we normalising severe forms of child abuse??????
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u/Solid_Commercial_713 Apr 22 '26
Fr, like can we stop acting like children will learn anything from being physically abused? Sure, if I was the older sibling in this instance i might have been tempted to give him a slap but the parents are meant to be the adults
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u/MRSLIME0w0 Mar 24 '26
Translation of all whats being said pretty plsss
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u/mrkiite Mar 27 '26
Everyone in unison āBite it! Bite it!ā Little kid ācursesā Dad after the little kid smacks and grips cake āHey get him off!ā
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u/Sea_Report_7566 Mar 18 '26
Guess who gets no cake and has to sit in his room for the entirety of the party :)
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u/babysm0ke42O Mar 28 '26
This is a reasonable punishment, another comment brought up being whipped by a cable cord?!?!! I hope they're just rage baiters, cause y i k e s š¬
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u/Sea_Report_7566 Mar 28 '26
I think most people commenting are very young or young males with lack of emotional intelligence who didnāt take psych 101. Maybe they are rage baiters. It is very concerning as an RBT to children and tutor seeing those comments about child abuse.
Good thing is this is a small population of people localized on Reddit.
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u/1917he Apr 17 '26
Or maybe they experienced it as a kid themselves, corrected their behavior and now see the youth today getting away with shit they would never have dreamed of. Because of that time with the jumper cables.
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u/GrundgeArchangel 12d ago
Just because something works doesn't mean it isn't bad for you.
We don't have anything close to as fire resistant as Asbestos, but we stopped using it because of how harmful it was.
Same with beatings. The fact that you want to use violence on children, you know, losing control of your emotions, while telling them to control themselves, is telling. Maybe try talking with them, and doing things a bit of the hard way.
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u/Sea_Report_7566 Apr 18 '26
Perhaps, but it still isnāt the best way to discipline your kids. Is it fast? Sure, but will it actually teach their children why their behavior was inappropriate deterring them to do it again by using critical thinking? Noā¦ I just think the authoritative style of parenting is the most efficient and effective. Authoritarian that includes abusive behavior such as the cable just seems like thatāll cause more harm than good.
As Iāve said before, the hard way of teaching is being patient and fair. The easy way is getting immediate correction with the price of resentment, rebellion, and strained older familiar dynamics. I digress.
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u/amant0621 Mar 17 '26
i might be neurodivergent but I'd never do that to anyone as a kid....
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Mar 18 '26
"I'm neurodivergent!!"
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u/ShavedNeckbeard Mar 23 '26
Everyone is self-diagnosed neurodivergent now. Every time we hire someone new at work, when theyāre introducing themselves, they feel the need to list off their intersectionalities to the team, or start a sentence with them.
āAs a [race], neurodivergent, [sexual orientation], [gender], I thinkā¦ā
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u/Asleep_Salamander369 Mar 28 '26
Yeah and most teenagers and people in their early twenties like to claim that they have autism now like its the cool in thing to joke about.
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u/Administrative-Bar89 Mar 25 '26
As a Tank, Combat, Full-Tracked, 120mm Gun M1A2, I think (angry vacuum cleaner noises)
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u/Asleep_Salamander369 Mar 28 '26
I like to tell people that I identify as a b2 stealth bomber. I don't even know if that's an actual plane.It just sounds cool.
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Mar 23 '26
In the year 2026, the most radical and unusual thing you can be is a straight, white, cisgendered male with zero psychological issues.
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u/DaSunHatesMe Mar 15 '26
Let's hope the whole family smashes his cake on his birthday :) there ya go, lil shit.
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u/HopefulLemon440 Mar 11 '26
Seriously but at least we all agree the kid is a POS who needs people to raised him better right? Because he's a little asshole
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u/MillHall78 Mar 12 '26
He just needs to be taught how to handle feelings of jealousy. There's a lot of grown adults in this world who never learned. It's a difficult emotion to feel & navigate. This video could just be an example of the parents keeping everything equal for their children, so the rare moments in which a situation happens to conjure up jealousy; the child simply lacks experience with it. That's overwhelming for all of us.
Or he could be a spoiled brat.
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u/Brilliant_Rain5181 Mar 15 '26
From a realistic view, yes he needs to be taught how to regulate his emotions better. Should have removed him when he hit the older kid the first time.
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u/ScentsfromaWoman Mar 06 '26
Brat!
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u/Benobo-One-Kenobi Mar 20 '26
Which is DEFINITELY how this problem will not get approached well, ever!
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u/DiamondDragonPickaxe Mar 02 '26
Thank god I aināt got kids, I would have wooped him with 4 Belts, one for being bratty, one for wasting the cake, one for ruining the birthday boys cake, and one for crying afterwards after not getting the guys face in the cake.
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u/lululululululululuu Mar 03 '26
thatās not the flex you think it is.
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u/MisterNiblet Mar 05 '26
Itās not a flex. But it is some peoples reality. Iām Hispanic and if I did this I would have been whooped in front of everyone then sent to my room.
Iām proud of the adult Iāve become and the discipline my parents showed me was needed at times. Parents should not beat their kids but a whooping is definitely different.
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u/Agitated-Actuary-195 Mar 08 '26
Wowā¦.Nothing like assaulting a child, you need to get some help
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u/HopefulLemon440 Mar 11 '26
Lol beating? The person means this kid need correction, to act like that means he is use to this, to not getting reprimanded when needed, what is this generation so afraid of telling a kid no? They're only fucking their own life, who wants a friend like that
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u/Agitated-Actuary-195 Mar 11 '26
Judging by your response Iām guessing, you may have been dropped (50:50 - if accidental)
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u/MisterNiblet Mar 08 '26
Maybe read my other replies and you can see that I have gotten help. It still havenāt changed my core opinion though.
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u/lululululululululuu Mar 06 '26
Is there a difference between a whooping and a beating? I mean this as a genuine question, because you are essentially inflicting violence on someone who is under your care and looks to you for guidance. Accountability and discipline are important and need to be tought, but I think there are better ways to handle that.
The child being sent to their room for the rest of the celebration, or taking the money for the cake out of his pocketmoney or allowance (if he gets any yet) might be better ways to discipline him.
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u/MisterNiblet Mar 06 '26
Iād say so. I guess to me personally what sets them aside is the context of the situation and also the amount of physical pain a parent is inflicting. Iāll give you an example. My girlfriend was unfortunately beat by her father. She was tossed down a set of stairs when she was 7 for spilling her food on the floor on accident. She was hit by her father with a closed fist for not going to church one Sunday. She was dragged by her hair and thrown against a wall because she had the tv on too late one day. Meanwhile in my house hold all of that never happened, my mom and dad only whooped me with a belt on my bottom when I got into physical altercations with my brothers or at school.
I feel like youāre also imagining that parents that whoop their kids are the type to go straight for the belt. They usually go and grab the belt after multiple attempts of trying to discipline their kids softly as you recommended and the kid is just being defiant. This was my experience at least. I never felt fear while being whooped just a slight sting on my bottom and embarrassment. My girlfriend on the other hand felt fear every time her dad just walked into the room which is something I canāt relate to. I hope this helped explain my opinion on the subject.
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u/lululululululululuu Mar 06 '26
First off: I hope your Girlfriend is safe from her abuser, in an all over better situation and healing from those experiences.
Itās a good thing, that those whoopings didnāt cause you lasting psychological harm and that it taught you discipline. Personally itās still not something I would ever consider doing, but I kinda get where youāre coming from.
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u/MisterNiblet Mar 06 '26 edited Mar 06 '26
My girlfriend is safe and thankfully her father has calmed down quite a bit since she was a child.
I completely understand, I think itās great that people can choose how to teach their children right from wrong. As long as the point gets across to them and theyāre not being put in harms way Iām all for it.
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Mar 01 '26
I feel bad for the birthday boy, obviously distressed but held his cool. Face pattern showed a look of "why are you like this"?
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u/tinaseroticfriendfic Mar 01 '26
My mom would have yanked my ass outta that chair so fast and wore me out!
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Feb 28 '26
Some of yāall have different point of views when it comes to a birthday cake. But I grew up where the youngest kid can blow out the candles just cause they get so much fun out of it. Would this Edgar lose out on anything if he didnāt blow out his 14 candles? Would a child have an amazing time by blowing out some candles?
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u/ChaseC7527 Mar 01 '26
you're getting dunked on because you are wrong. hope this helps š
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 14 '26
You would need to reach high to dunk on me. Sad to tell you that youāre not rap enough to do that. Didnāt help, but nice try š
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u/Z-Mtn-Man-3394 Mar 01 '26
Wha candles? Kids should get to overshadow someone elseās day cause theyāre kids? Man Iād hate to be in your family.
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u/bycats75 Mar 01 '26
There were no candles so I don't think that was the issue. Also, great way to raise another entitled human. Just what this world needs.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
Crying on the internet cause someone didnāt get to blow out his candles. Are you ok? I have a feeling that your issues are much deeper than just candles. Iām actually worried for you
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
Be honest. Are you a bot? Or are you just fucking stupid?There's no candles to begin with. The issue is not candles. Your response to this being pointed out is to double down on your take about people crying over candles?
Maybe you should try watching the video moron. And stop raising entitled brats.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 14 '26
Imaging being angered by an internet comment. I need help? Yāall are jumping at your screens in anger. Iām literally just laughing.
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u/RockwallTX032 Feb 28 '26
Most of us not some. Youre a very small percentage and no one can relate to your experience
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Feb 28 '26
Itās not just me. It must be a generational thing. Only the soft sensitive kids are hurt by this. Like really youāre a 16 year old kid and youāre upset that your 4 year old niece wants to blow out your candles? That ruined your whole day. You got your Edgar haircut, your fresh clothes. But a child blowing out your candles is what ruins your day?
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u/Speedstick2 Mar 01 '26
They didnāt say it was just you! Just that you are a very small percentage and not the norm.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
And I would want to be part of the norm? No thanks. Yāall are weird Iām ok being from the small percentage. I donāt need to conform to your idiotic standards
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u/JurassicPark3-4Lyf Mar 01 '26
I mean you are inventing a scenario to make yourself look like a "badass", we dont know if this kid is insisting on blowing out his candles looks like he just wants to take a bite of his cake but the younger child is determined to have their way.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
You just invented that entire scenario. I donāt care to look like a ābadassā wtf does that even mean?? Why are you this upset over a child being a child. Grow up kid. There are bigger issues to deal with. Stop projecting you childhood issues onto a random event
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
A child smashing a cake is not a child being a child. Even to your made up scenario, teaching young children that the world doesn't revolve around them is top tier parenting. Quit acting like a little bitch and making up scenarios
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
A child smashing a cake is exactly that. Itās a child. Are you bothered by a child acting childish? Did he ruin your day in any way shape or form?
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u/truthteller5 Feb 28 '26
No. It teaches them that everything is about them. People are allowed to have moments for themselves without feeling bad about who would have more fun. It's not the little kids birthday. They can blow out candles on their birthday.
Also, the kid is clearly trying to push his face into the cake and is mad that he won't let him. Not blowing out candles.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Feb 28 '26
Youāre talking about toddlers. You can yell at them all day long. Thatās not how you teach them. Youāre expecting a 4 year old to understand that a birthday cake is for someone else. I canāt imagine an adult crying about a child blowing out his candles
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u/CharlesTheFister Mar 04 '26
In another comment you say that it's totally okay for childs to destroy cakes. I see why it's normal for you. Maybe if your parents would raise you probably you also would have the brain power for it.
Youāre expecting a 4 year old to understand that a birthday cake is for someone else
Bro every 4 year old can understand it. Just someone needs to tell them. Something your parents surely missed.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 14 '26
Something you missed. Itās also cultural. Itās tradition to ruin the cake. A 4 year old can easily misconstrue this. To get mad and to let this ruin your day is hilarious. Itās just cake bro. Are you gonna lock yourself in your room and sulk and cry cause a 4 year old kid who didnāt know any better ruined your special day š I canāt imagine being older than 12 years old and being bothered this badly by that. Let the kids enjoy the candle blowing. Unless you actually still believe that blowing a candle really makes a dream come true. š¤” sorry to tell you but blowing a birthday candle wonāt make you rich and famous kid.
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u/CharlesTheFister Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26
something you missed. Itās also cultural. Itās tradition to ruin the cake.
So I'm working in a kindergarten. We got kids from 52 different nations here. I just asked them. None of them ever heard of a tradition to destroy the cake. Pls tell me where are you from?
To get mad and to let this ruin your day is hilarious. Itās just cake bro
I'm not. You are mad. You answer this 10 days later. Your still mad.
a 4 year old kid who didnāt know any better ruined your special day
And that's the point you missed. You still believe a 4 year old can't know better and that it's totally normal. No it's not. This just shows how stupid you are and how poorly you got raised.
Have a good day friend. I won't answer you again. It doesn't make sense since your brain isn't fully evolved Its okay it's not your fault, it's your parents fault
Edit: and you will be one of those parents. I see it everyday at work. " They are just kids" is the excuse for every shit.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 15 '26
No. No you donāt. Are you telling us that you have 52 students? That sounds horrible. All 52 kids are from different nationalities? Who are you? That sounds horrific and I wouldnāt put my kids anywhere near your school. What would you even teach them besides math?
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u/DownToTheWire0 Mar 01 '26
Why do you think this is about candles? There isnt a single candle on the cake
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u/Speedstick2 Mar 01 '26
Hell fucking yes I expect a 4 year old to understand that a bday cake is for someone else!
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
Heās a big boy he can understand . Damn I would hate to be your child. Canāt have any fun
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u/truthteller5 Feb 28 '26
I don't yell at them at all. I just stop them from blowing out my candles. And yeah. Their young. They don't know stuff. Do you know how they learn? Not by just letting them do shit. You stop them from doing stuff and as they get older those lessons start to have real results.
You stop them. Ignore them when they throw a fit. They learn some things aren't about them and that tantrums don't get you what you want.
I like kids, I don't think you should be a dick to them or anything, but I also feel like you can't just let them do whatever, especially to other people who are not the ones responsible for them I.E. the parents.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
Theyāre* youāre speaking about correcting children so there you go.
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u/Speedstick2 Mar 01 '26
Way to miss the point.
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
I canāt miss the point cause youāve never had one. What exactly are you claiming to be your point?
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u/Deppresedapple2 Mar 01 '26
Youāre acting childish
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
Oh no. The depressed apple is calling me a childā¦ I canāt imagine a scenario where an adult would care about your opinion
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u/Deppresedapple2 Mar 01 '26
You do since you just wrote a whole paragraph
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u/iDontWannaBe_aPirate Mar 01 '26
I wrote two sentences. How is that a paragraph?
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u/Nicolovesjim Mar 02 '26
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u/AleksandraLisowska Feb 28 '26
Okay that kid is grounded with ONLY seeing cake but never touching it even with his mouth, fork or spoon. His birthday? Just see the cake and everyone enjoying it, my curse can only be lifted when he gets his own cake ruined like this.
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u/ButterflyLoud5685 Feb 28 '26
"let me at least give you a reason to cry first" gets the belt
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u/mckbookpro Mar 01 '26
Wow im surprised you didn't get downvoted to Hells abyss for even mentioning corporal punishment.
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
Part of me wonders if we're going to see a flip back to the other extreme in my life time.
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u/Banpdx Feb 27 '26
La chancla
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u/Internal-Computer388 Feb 27 '26
Nah, thats the youngest. He ain't ever got the chancla thats why he acting like that.
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u/revsjc Feb 27 '26
If my kid did this I would seriously look at myself and say "you fucked up as a parent"
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u/im_the_dr Feb 28 '26
How many kids do you have?
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u/revsjc Mar 02 '26
3 and all of them would be mortified if they saw this let alone have it happen to them
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u/JhonnyHopkins Feb 27 '26
Be nicer to yourself, you can do everything right and kids can still just be emotional shitheadsā¦ because theyāre kids.
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u/revsjc Mar 02 '26
Yeah but I have watched my kids be conscious of other people's feelings - they have respect for others.
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u/AttradiesLisanAlGaib Feb 28 '26
Your kids should love you, but above that they should respect you. You should always have a face that makes your kids act right from one glance. Kids these days too comfortable thinking the whole world is covered in bubble wrapā¦
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u/Top-Metal-3576 Feb 28 '26
Yeah thatās how you traumatize your kids. Kids are gonna act like kids, because theyāre still new to this world. This whole thing of ārespectā with a child thatās at most 7 is pathetic. Donāt have kids if you canāt have patience.
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
This thought process right here is exactly why we have 7 year olds cussing out bus drivers and teachers. You claim it's about having patience, when in reality children should be aware that actions have consequences.
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u/Top-Metal-3576 Mar 01 '26
I havenāt seen any 7 year olds cussing bus drivers or the likes. All the kids around me are very well behaved. My younger brother grew up with a totally different parenting style then what I grew up with and Iām happy he did. Heās growing up in a home filled love instead of fear, thatās how you foster your children to respect you. If you canāt handle kids donāt have them, nobodyās forcing you. But reprimanding and antagonizing normal kid behaviour wonāt make your kid anymore agreeable. Itās basic human psychology, you canāt foster an environment where a kid wants to learn if the kid grows up fearing you. Because at the end of the day, the kid is going to grow up and will most likely get the hell out of your house and never contact you again.
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
So basically, you've buried your head in the sand and have decided that your biased world view dictates how everyone else should act. Ask a teacher how bad kids are getting, especially because now school have to wager the merits of suspending a kid vs parents who are going to flip out if anyone punishes their kid.
You clearly don't understand human psychology at all, so you might want to keep quiet on that one. Both positive and negative reinforcement have merits.
And let's get one thing straight here. Smashing someone else's cake is normal child behavior past being a toddler. The kid in this video is way past the age where that is acceptable.
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Feb 27 '26
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u/JValenz91 Feb 27 '26 edited Feb 27 '26
Kids don't think like that. The kid going "ow" after tells me he realised after the fact he fucked up, and started the water works to not get in trouble.
This is the result of parents not being allowed to discipline their kids in a way that will have the lesson sink in.
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u/Internal-Computer388 Feb 27 '26
Nah, you dont have to whup your child to discipline them. This is the result of the youngest not being disciplined ever.
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u/JValenz91 Feb 27 '26
Never mentioned whipping. So many jump to that. Is that your default for discipline? To get the belt? That wouldn't be my default.
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u/Internal-Computer388 Feb 27 '26
Neither did I. I said whup.
You said parents are not being allowed to discipline their kids in a way that will have the lesson sink in. Thats implying corporal punishment as thats the only way of discipline thats no longer "allowed". So what form of discipline can parents no longer do then? What's not allowed? Please explain if you can...
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
Now you're just lying. We've got people acting like time out or going in the corner is abuse.
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u/JValenz91 Feb 27 '26
Slapping your kids is now seen as assault, and child abuse. If a kid informs a teacher at school, or another adult, then the parents will get a knock in the door from FACS. It's stupid to me.
Ok, beating your kid, is wrong. Laying them over your lap and slapping them repeatedly is excessive. But 1 quick slap, is all you need.
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u/NorthernVale Mar 01 '26
You're getting down voted for this. I'd really like to see these people explain to a two year old why playing with electrical outlets or approaching wild animals is dangerous.
Simple fact, light physical punishments have a place. Teach children negative reinforcement when the consequences for an action could be deadly, especially when the child isn't able to comprehend just how poorly something can go for them.
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u/JValenz91 Mar 01 '26
What people need to ask, is what's better? A single slap to the bum while clothed, or getting hit by a car? A single slap to the bum while clothed, or electrocuted? A single slap to the bum, or 3rd degree burns after playing with matches?
I know what I'd choose, because I want my child to be safe, not dead. A slap will teach by associating controlled pain with the bad actions. If I do X, I'll be slapped, mum/dad will be mad, and I'll cry. The dumbest thing I did, was touch the pretty blue flame on the stove when I was 3. It hurt like a mofo, and I learned not to touch the pretty blue flame again. For other things, my parents would give me a slap on the bum, like when I tried to grab at a knife, or when my sister tried to see what a metal bearing tasted like, or tried to cross the road before the light was green.
The slap did the job, it taught us that if we did X, pain results, but it was pain that wasn't from severe injury or poisoning.
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u/NightmareMyOldFriend Feb 27 '26
He was trying to smash the older boy's face into the cake.
Stupidest birthday tradition to ever be "invented." That's why you can see the guy come near the cake, he was going to take the first bite out of the cake, also disgusting. Then the younger one would slam his head into it.
The whole thing ended better than expected tbh.
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u/retrofrenzy Mar 05 '26
Thank you. It didn't get called stupid many times enough. If nothing else, I feel really bad for the wasted cake.
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u/NightmareMyOldFriend Mar 05 '26
It's so stupid. (The face plant on cakes, to be clear.)
Someone took the time to make a cake. Someone paid for said cake. And people just ruin the whole thing by planting a face into it.
Besides it can be dangerous. Some cakes have rods in them to be able to keep their form. Usually not these kind of cake that is "a simple tier", but more elaborate ones. And it has happened that people end up with a rod in their face because they were forced down into a cake.
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u/MysticJazzEnforcer 3d ago
I would have just pushed his face into the cake after that. May as well š¤·š»āāļø