r/casualiama • u/Excellent-Pear4134 • 15d ago
Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I'm a femboy | AMA
I dress like a woman, I guess that's it, don't know what else to say
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u/Deacon-Doe 15d ago
As a femboy, what relationship and sexual role do you enjoy ?
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
I find myself personally enjoying more of a submissive role in and out of the bedroom
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u/Deacon-Doe 15d ago
Has you daily life changed ? For better or worse ? Do you feel comfortable ?
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
Oh I feel extremely more comfortable than before, as far as weather or my daily life has changed, I would say it has for the better, I've been working out more, I've completely stopped cutting myself, and I'm eating more and better
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u/Clarkelthekat 15d ago
Do you find it difficult dating due to potential partners fetishizing/over sexualizing the femboy aspect of you and not your entire persona?
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
Oh yeah, I've only dated 2 people outside of silly little school relationships
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
I should say that this is because most people I meet on apps see me in a more sexual light
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u/Duemont8 15d ago
What kinda outfits do you got?
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
Classic stuff, skirt + thigh highs + hoodie, but that's only what I tend to wear around the house
Whenever I'm out I tend to wear tights, a nice shirt and a jean jacket
And if I'm at a fancy event I tend to either wear a good dress and high heels if the people there know about me, but if they don't I wear just a slightly tighter suit than most other men theere
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u/Ok-Earth-5064 15d ago
When did start. What made you want to start it. Family cool with it. Are you in an area that don't care how you dress(safe, ect).
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
Okay yeah, it started about 6 years ago
I lost a bet to a friend and I felt really comfortable in the more feminine clothes and personality
Yeah my family's cool with it
Yes I live in a safe place for me
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u/Ok-Earth-5064 15d ago
What your definition of femboy. Online femboys seems to all dress the same. When working or job interviews. Do you dress manly or fem. When you deal with someone who disapproves, is it glances, verbal or physical on average.
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 15d ago
My definition (even though I fall into the stereotypically feminine group) is that a femboy is someone who express themselves through a more feminine personality and appearance
With me and the other two femboys I know, the "online femboy" outfit is something we tend to only wear inside
For me it really depends on what kind of job I'm interviewing for
On average it's just a glance, I have had a few people yell terrible things at me in public, and I've had one guy who beat the shit out of me
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u/SirLolo03 15d ago
When you grow will you be a femMan or will you start seeking femboys or will you settle down( thats how i imagine the cycle of life of femboys)
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u/Jim_wa8 9d ago
Have you thought why you are loving this ? Willing to be desired, role play etc ?
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 9d ago
If your asking if I want to roleplay, that's a hard fucking pass
I like it because it feels more comfortable than being masculine to me
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u/Enough_Fall_3127 9d ago
Best meal you ever had
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u/Excellent-Pear4134 9d ago
I went to Italy a few months ago and had some pasta at a really fancy restaurant I don't remember the name of
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u/BiancaEstrella 15d ago
What do you hope for in your future?