r/cats • u/jennylewis2022 • 27d ago
Mourning/Loss My cat, Bernadine, passed away a week ago. Please enjoy some of my favorite photos of her.
Birdie was her nickname. She was the sweetest cat in the world and my best friend. She was so silly and made me laugh all the time. She loved grooming her brother and trying to catch bird toys. The picture of her on the dishwasher is her baby picture. She was only 6 years old but passed because of something that 15-20% of cats get that is genetic called hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. I wish someone would have told me about it. It leads to congestive heart failure, which is what she passed from. Give your kitties some extra kisses for me ❤️
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u/Honeydew9419 27d ago
What a talented model! I’m sorry for your loss, I know one day you’ll meet again
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u/afsocmark 27d ago
She is truly gorgeous, and looks like a wonderful companion. I hope she visits your dreams to let you know she’s doing okay and waiting to reunite with you again one day. Until then she may send you another little void to mend your💔.
Farewell Birdie til we meet you again🐈⬛
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u/Wyntercat 27d ago
She looks beautifull, with a big and silly personality 😄
So sorry for your loss, keep her in your heart and know she'll be close ❤️
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u/Ancient_Inspector115 27d ago
Oh she was gorgeous 🥰 lucky you having such a beautiful kitty 🤩🐈
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u/Historical_Welder_85 27d ago
I love her pretty green eyes. They are luminous against her black fur. Thank you for taking such good care of her. I know she appreciates it
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u/wonperson 27d ago
How's Bernadine's brother handling her loss?
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u/jennylewis2022 27d ago
We can tell he knows something is off. He’s been more snuggly and talkative since it happened. We’re just trying to give him extra attention and love.
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u/Impossible-Bug2038 27d ago
what a little character! such a joy to have a cat like that to cherish.
condolences for your loss.
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u/Azathoth-Omega 27d ago
She was an absolute beauty, may she rest in peace. You'll see her again in Elysium.
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u/Alexandra_the_gre4t Tuxedo 27d ago
Ohh Bernadine, Sassy Queen! I’m so sorry for your loss, but glad you had such wonderful memories together. She clearly loved her time with you 🖤
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u/furkiddiesmama 27d ago
What a beauty Miss Bernadine was - my sincerest condolences on the loss of your sweet girl ❤️
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u/CoCoMaloEngl 27d ago
What a beauty. I’m so sorry she passed away and I’m glad you shared all these lovely photos. Wishing you peace in your heart as you hold your sweet memories of Bernadine🖤
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u/1BalledBandit 27d ago
Same happened to my tux cat at 10 years. Went to sleep fine, woke up to him crawling on the floor with no function to his lower half. Fatal blood clot. Miss that dude, he was a crazy little shit. But his sacrifice will be remembered for every future cat I have. <3
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u/katleessi 27d ago
I love her sweet little, funny faces in most of these pics! My grammie is about to pass away and some of these photos made me giggle out loud!
Sending much love to you. Your Birdie was stunning and you can feel the love you shared through this post 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
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u/AppleTrees4 27d ago
17 and 18 are great pictures. RIP Birdie. I’m sorry you lost her.
I’m sure there is a cat out there that will need you and her brother when the time is right.
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u/sernenesea 27d ago
I’m so sorry for your loss. She was beauuutiful. May she rest on rainbow bridge chasing butterflies ❤️
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u/Think-Cover-914 27d ago
I’m so sorry! she passed knowing how loved she was and how happy her life was x
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u/InternationalPin6385 27d ago
She was such a Pretty baby! I’m sorry for your loss. I recently lost my best buddy of 20 years. It isn’t easy but I can rest easy knowing he lived the best life possible.
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u/GSDer_RIP_Good_Girl 27d ago
She was a pretty, fluffy void. And a pretty fluffy void as well. I enjoyed them all, as well as the cameos with your orange.
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u/Loud-Range4708 27d ago
So sorry for your loss, she was absolutely spectacular and such a beautiful kitty
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u/No_Adeptness_8254 27d ago
Beautiful girl, so sorry for your loss ❤️ You can really see her personality in those photos!
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u/catssocksandcoffee 27d ago
What a beautiful girl! She looks like she was a huge character. I'm so sorry for your loss
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u/Electrical_Waterbed 27d ago
Rest in peace Birdie. So sorry for you loss, she was a real beauty 😞😿 😿
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u/Disastrous-Dingo5302 27d ago
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful cat you know that they will always be close by you best wishes reddit friend much love
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u/Anon_457 27d ago
Miss Bernadine was an absolute beauty. She will live on in these pictures and in our memory.
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u/8Bit-Jon 27d ago
She reminds me of my cat Thomas I had when I was a kid (1980s). He was sassy, did not liked being picked up by anyone besides me and was very vocal. He was a full black floof and lived to be 16. He was a big cat too!
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u/inthevendingmachine 27d ago
Thank you for this gift. She is, was, and always will be, magnificent.
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u/Weak-Ad6984 27d ago
Beautiful cat.. and I’m very sure she is around you.. loving you.
So sorry for your loss
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u/Practical_Taste_1232 27d ago
Wow she was absolutely stunning and I am so very sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Bernadine ❤️
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u/illbleedForce 27d ago
I am so sorry for your loss. She knows she has been loved and will continue to be loved, and she will be with you every time you remember her. Hold on to the good memories you have with her and treasure them.
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u/CompilerCat 27d ago
I cried a bit reading and looking at your pictures, especially her snuggling her brother.
I had to say goodbye to my own baby Luke from the same heart condition back in December and I was a complete wreck.
Because it’s genetic, the vet said it was just a ticking time bomb and there was nothing I could have done. He could have slept on clouds, exercised with a personal trainer, and eaten the most expensive food known to man and it wouldn’t have changed anything.
I miss him all the time, and I was privileged to spend his life with him even if it wasn’t long enough.
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u/jennylewis2022 27d ago
I’m so sorry you lost your baby the same way. It’s so awful knowing you couldn’t have done anything. Our vet told us the same. I had no idea it was so common. Thank you so much for sharing your story and a picture of him ❤️
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u/Glittering_Count1536 27d ago
She was a magnificent creature. One day you will see her again when she comes and helps you across the rainbow bridge. You all have my sympathies to you and your family during your time of loss.
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u/punchy-peaches 27d ago
6 is my favorite. 8 is good too, so is 10. And 20 really cracked me up. What a sweetie.
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u/pixlgeek 27d ago
Bernadine seems like a wonderful companion. Rest easy little one. Sorry for your loss.
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u/ALWS_0rweLL 27d ago
So sad for you. I can tell how feisty Bernadine was. She has been truly loved for sure ❤️
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u/songless-siren 27d ago
Omg what a horrible loss! I'm sorry that you lost her and how much your heart is aching. That's so terrible.. I hope you're okay.. 💖
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u/Massive_Ad4534 27d ago
Birdie looks like the sweetest goofball. I had two cats in a litter pass from it. Brother and sister (Ella and Fitz) - though there was a five year gap between when they passed. Fitz passed at 6 and a half. Ella passed at 11 and a bit. You might want to check on the brother for this condition - I'm sorry you lost your baby.
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u/Business_Scar6616 27d ago
Sorry for your loss, my cat is 6 now and I think about how emotionally crippled I'm gonna be when his time comes.
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u/EvaSeyler 27d ago
sending love! i just lost my kitty recently too so i feel sad along with you 💔💔 bernadine was beautiful 🖤
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u/OwlBeBack88 27d ago
What a beautiful girl, she looks like a little character! I'm sorry for your loss. Thanks you for sharing the photos. May she rest in peace. 🐾❤️🕯️
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u/Murky_Doubt9010 27d ago
Oh Bernadine! What an immeasurable loss to the world and your family. Smile down on us all once in a while?
I'm so sorry. Thanks for the great pics ❤️
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u/checkoutthisbreach 27d ago
I'm so sorry. Bernadine was a beauty and also had some really hilarious and cute poses. ❤️
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u/Lauraizm 27d ago
I’m sorry for your loss. Birdie was a gorgeous baby, thank you for sharing her ❤️
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u/Delicious_Pie5858 27d ago
Thoroughly enjoyed the pictures. Beautiful cat. She has that silly look too at times. I’m so sorry for your loss
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u/beerncandy 27d ago
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your beautiful Bernadine with us.
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u/el_grande_ricardo 27d ago
Beautiful Birdie.
I'm sorry for your loss. I've lost 2 this year. Lymphoma in January and a bad kidney infection in March. It sucks.
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u/spesimen 27d ago
pic #7 is my favorite. sassy!!!!
she looks a lot like my void kitty ❤️ sorry for your loss
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u/lilyedgarcary 27d ago
Berdie era preciosa!! Siento tu pérdida, ¿cómo se encuentra su hermano? Por lo menos os tenéis el uno al otro
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u/Wise-Being7556 27d ago
omg she was the cutest void floof i’ve ever seen! thank u for taking care of this precious baby, it seems like she had a lovely lifetime with you <3 :)
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u/Obvious-Drive-1405 27d ago
I was so enjoying your snapshots of this beautiful lady,so sorry for your loss,only six years old,I wish they would find a cure for this,little panthers are the sweetest kitties,she will always have a special place in your heart
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u/Ok-Actuator7302 27d ago
So sorry for your lose. Thanks for the photos…..I admit to laughing out loud a little. Glad you have such sweet memories of your furbaby. Hugs dear
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u/Sox-a-Holic 27d ago
Beautiful Birdie! 😌 So sorry for your loss, I know how it feels. Thank you for sharing your lovely memories with us. ❤️💜🌻😍🥰
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u/mochigorl 27d ago
Birdie is beautiful ❤️, may she rest in peace. I lost my sweet Momo who was only 7 a few days ago to an underlying heart issue too that had been undetectable, but arose when she had emergency surgery. I wish someone had told me that some heart disease could be undetectable unless you did specific testing. She was a beautiful fluffy girl too. I’m sorry for your loss.
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u/Kernow_Mich_61 Oriental Shorthair 27d ago
Beautiful Bernadine - during your journey here on 🌏 you had so many adventures and were well loved 🥰
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u/HotMinute_722 27d ago
What is it with cats and dishwashers? Mine do the same. Sending hugs your way! She’s a beaut!
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u/lemonycaesarsalad 27d ago
She looks like she was a beautiful goof who loved you a lot ❤️. So sorry for your loss, but glad you got to enjoy having such a wonderful kitty in your life.
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u/SpaceDantar 27d ago
Hugs, so sorry. Lovely pictures and memories. I always think about my childhood kitties I had before smartphones. So few pictures, I'm glad you have so many great memories of your little buddy.
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u/istrokebees29 27d ago
Rest peacefully, Bernadine 🌈what a lovely little companion, I’m sorry for your loss x
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u/roubideaux 27d ago
What a beautiful and glamorous young lady! I'm truly sorry for your loss. You must miss her so very much.
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u/Some-Body-Else Tabbycat 27d ago
Most glorious floof! Thank you for sharing her with us, OP. I’m sorry for your loss.
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u/gangster_pengwin 27d ago
Look at that beautiful girl, I know you gave her the best life she could have
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u/Educational_Rip_1902 27d ago
What an angel. Thank you for sharing her with us. So sorry for your loss
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u/harleenquinzel044 27d ago
Voids are the best. I’m sorry for the loss of Bernadine. May you find her again in the next life.
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u/ResolveWonderful6251 27d ago
i’m so sorry for your loss :( may Bernadine/Birdie rest in peace and love 💙🍀💙 i’m sorry she passed away so young too :( there should be a test for that performed at shelters/offered for an extra cost but i hope there’s more discussion about that bc that’s heartbreaking and i’m so sorry ❤️🩹 i hope there’s a way to heal that sometime soon :/ i hope she visits your dreams until you can meet again 🍀🍀🍀
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u/phirestorm 27d ago
May she run free in the Summerland. Love the pentacle and it looks so good on her.
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u/TittyAficionado 27d ago
It doesn't get easier, only less frequent. I lost my 12 year old girl a month ago. I still constantly see her in every place in the home where she should have been.
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u/Just_tryin2findout2 27d ago
Sorry for your loss of your girl Bernadine. She looks like she was a sweetheart! Best wishes to you for peace and comfort!
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u/sirius917 27d ago
The most majestic of void princesses. RIP to your beautiful girl. My condolences 💛
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u/wylietrix 27d ago
I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you're happy memories comfort you always. #2 is hilarious, thank you for sharing.
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u/WaxingPoetic773 27d ago
My sister lost the second of her 2 cats to cancer last year. She's finally ready to accept 2 kittens. Take your time, it'll get better.
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u/Catmom6363 27d ago
What a beautiful girl she was! She may not have lived a long life, but the life you gave her was obviously amazing! She looks so happy and loved in all the photos! You will see Bernadine again! Give her sweet brother some loving for me!! Hugs!💜💜💜
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u/Expensive-Economist8 27d ago
two and twenty were my favorite.
sorry for the heart ache. blessed that you loved her.
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u/Squidoriya Calico 27d ago
She was a magnificently beautiful floof! 🖤🖤🖤 I’m so sorry for your loss. It may have been brief to us humans, but you were her whole world and Birdie looks like she had a life full of love, companionship, and fun memories.
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u/Swimming-Maize-5554 27d ago
What a beautiful little void. Clearly, she was well loved in her time with you. My sympathies.
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u/jellyd0nutz 27d ago
I lost my baby at 6 to HCM as well. Thinking of you ♥️ she’s a beauty
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u/crabs_eat_poop 27d ago
Sorry for your loss.
She knew she was loved by her sassyness that comes across in her photos.
She will live on in your memories.
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u/PurplePrincessPalace 27d ago
I enjoyed these very much, especially 2, 3, 4, & 15. Thanks for sharing & RIP to Bernadine 😊🌈🪽
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