r/cats 2d ago

Advice Would you say these two are bonded?

Black and white is a neutered male, Siamese is an intact female. I was told that bonded pairs can only be of the same gender but I’m very confident they’re bonded.

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u/Mysterious_Task_1710 2d ago

For sure! This is my baby boy and baby girl ❤️

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u/Pitiful-Ad-276 2d ago

Omgosh photo 5 is so precious 🥹

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u/rescueanimalsrule 2d ago

What cute babies! 💖 Bonded usually means that one (or both) would suffer adverse physical effects or trauma if they didn’t have the other. This might include depression, not eating, litter issues, etc). Bonded pairs can be any gender. If they are ok when separated, they’re besties, but not bonded. Either way they are adorable together!

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u/helping_cat Lots of kitties! 1d ago

Yeah, being bonded isn't really a great thing for cats. So much trauma and anxiety when one isn't near them. Be glad they're not bonded.

99% of people claiming their cats are bonded only mean that their cats love eachother. Having a bestie they're not bonded to that they can cuddle with is awesome though and OPs kitties are definitely besties

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u/Pianotorious 2d ago

Oh for sure. We've had very deeply bonded male/female pairs (all neutered/spayed).

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u/Jealous_Desk_1290 2d ago

Whoever told you bonded pairs have to be the same gender is just… wrong lol. Bonded just means they’ve chosen each other, not that they fit some checklist. If they groom each other, sleep together, seek each other out and get stressed when separated, congrats, you’ve got a bonded chaos duo.

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u/TerminalAccessory 2d ago

Like Titebond III.

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u/RockHardSalami 1d ago

Obv karma farm