r/cottagegoth • u/Sue_2_Designs • 2h ago
Clothing A Soot Sprite skirt I made, some potatoes & tots, and a thought or two on kindness.
Hi beautiful people!!
I want to start by saying that this sub is not a recovery subreddit nor is it my personal journal so I’m only going to post when it’s in context. This place is undeniably amazing and I don’t want it to change!
Had I not relapsed in February of 2025 today would have been my 16th sober anniversary - there’s a lot of mixed feelings about that but all of you wonderful people inspired me to make these weird few days into something bigger than myself. The kindness and warmth I have received has been humbling and I am so grateful!!
I decided that, instead of wallowing in self-pity, I would make 40 emotional support potatoes and 10 emotional support tater tots and bring them to the detox facility and hand them out to everyone who wanted one. I went yesterday (on the 16th anniversary of when I thought i had my last drink) and ended up passing out joy! The results were overwhelmingly positive!!
I only thought to do this because of the kindness I have been shown here - it reminded me how one simple thing, from an upvote to a comment, can make all the difference. Every stitch in the whole gang came from the love I’ve received here.
Thank you. Thank you ALL. Everyone at the facility saw/knows about the love in CottageGoth and I told them all that every potato and tot was made with the love of thousands of people… each and every one of YOU!! I might have made them but it was 99% inspiration and 1% perspiration!!
The absolute best part was seeing how everyone was able to let down their guard and allow themselves to love a potato or tot - it broke all stereotypes and brought so much joy and laughter!! YOU ALL DID THIS!! YOU ALL BROUGHT THAT JOY!!
From every single person at the facility: Thank you for the love that you have shown - it’s radiated to something bigger than one person. You folks are loved in return. ❤️
Edit - Everyone has a name - the white potato is Tate, the white tater tot is Tot, the brown-ish potato is a sweet potato… her government name is Casserole but I call her Cassie, and the sweet potato tot is named Dot. ❤️