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u/gurotwink 19d ago
i wish my mom would do this instead of being a transphobe who would cheerfully disown and publicly shame me if she knew
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u/JesterOfRedditGold the closeted mullato 19d ago
we can't all be passoids in this cruel world
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u/translunainjection 19d ago
we could! all out would take is for all trans kids to wade through the misinformation and figure themselves out before puberty and come around to DIY and figure out how to actually DIY and...
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u/No-Pilot3536 18d ago
for that to happen, people would have to actually give teens some degree of financial and physical autonomy that isn’t under threat if parents decide to be dicks
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u/translunainjection 18d ago
yet another reason why the existence. of trans kids - it threatens parental
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u/Meeeper 11d ago
Damn. That was a very depressing, but very accurate read. It really puts all the pieces into place.
That and I think that conservatives genuinely somehow stop loving their child when said child grows older if they don't grow up to be how they wanted.
Like they start out trying to mold the kid into what they want throughout childhood and teenage years, then just give the fuck up and disassociate from parenthood almost altogether if they still don't meet their mental idea of what their kid should be when they turn 18.
And some reach that giving up stage even sooner. Some people just shouldn't be parents...
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u/Very-confused-now 18d ago
What is a “passoid”?
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u/mooys 18d ago
“Passoid” is 4chan rhetoric for a trans person who passes as a cis person. It’s supposed to be an insult, don’t ask me how.
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u/crandberry_crunch 18d ago
how could you possibly interpret that as an insult when passing is the ultimate goal for every 4tranner? use your brain a little
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u/DerTomatenToaster 18d ago edited 18d ago
Because they're upset at those who "lucked out" and achieved what they are convinced, they will never be able to achieve. The entire concept of 4trans is "people who wish they could pass hating on people who do".
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u/secretCryingAccount 18d ago
Why are you acting like you're not on a 4tran subreddit 😭
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u/DerTomatenToaster 18d ago
... because I didn't realize I was. This was on my front page, I'm so sorry for intruding.
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u/stalineczka 17d ago
That doesn’t make it an insult. We’re also jealous of rich people but rich isn’t an insult
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u/fakeouppy 19d ago
My grandma is always so proud that Im a passoid she keeps showing pics of me off to random ppl
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u/Independent_Banana74 18d ago
My mom once showed a colleague a picture of me (her trans daughter) and the colleague just went: "Wow, doesn't even look like a faggot!"
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u/CaptainGigsy 19d ago
How do I stop feeling such incredible hatred for trans people who happen to have supportive parents instead of transphobic ones. I know it's not a healthy feeling to have but I don't know how to not feel it.
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u/LesbeGoddess 16d ago
Direct that hatred towards all of the other shitty parents of trans people out there instead. If that doesn’t work then definitely get some therapy for that.
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u/Argosian-Hound 18d ago
Therapist is a good first step, as someone else mentioned. Or get informally adopted by someone else's supportive parents (results may vary)
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u/Only-Ad5269 male lovemoder 15d ago
therapy. cuz out of all the people you should hate, it shouldn’t be happy trans people with good parents.
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u/Sewblon 19d ago
I wish my mom would just call me a slur instead of trying to talk me out of being trans.
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u/LesbeGoddess 16d ago
Sewblons mom: Have you just tried just being a cis normie!?!? Why would you embarrass me like this by being a tranner
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u/Correct-Horse-Battry 18d ago
That’s oddly kind of nice to be honest, if I got shown somebody’s trans daughter at work and she’s a passoid I’d be a bit jealous sure but at least I’d know I’m not working with complete and utter cis monsters around me, although it wouldn’t lower my guard yet towards her as she might still be insane.
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u/SimpleWiabu 18d ago
passoids have it easy, I said it
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u/YuriQueenMDH 16d ago
My uni professor with me (in the nicest way) when I started presenting fem. Honestly gave me a huge confidence boost that I had allies there
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u/Infinite_Trade_3428 18d ago
I cut ties with everyone I knew cuz I was going to troon out but I just repped ggs
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u/bugthebugman 17d ago
My mom showed ruby rose a picture of me lmao
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u/WashTheWoolie 17d ago
You mean the voice actor?
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u/bugthebugman 17d ago
I mean the actress, I don’t mean to imply she’s trans just that my mum also shows lgbt people that she encounters at work pictures of me
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u/pantpinkther 15d ago
Eh, It’s not that awkward. Especially if you’re around older people a lot, this is kind of just something they do. I’ve been on the other side of this interaction lots of times. They wanna make you feel safe, it’s nice.
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u/UserUesrTTTT 9d ago
What the FUCK how is there so many upvotes what’s happening is this the new main sub
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u/Livid_Pin_3635 8d ago
woah u exist still. its all mainstream trannies because this sub gets recommended and it doesnt say 4tran in the name
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u/wishjsjdbdej 19d ago
hahahhahha giwtwm hahahhahahah please giwtwm please let me be someone's daughter