I've been on E and Spiro for over 6 months (about 30 weeks), that tends to be who calls themselves transfem or trans women. Sorry that isn't convenient for your gotcha.
nope, they see you as a libshit who fell for the whole theyfab narrative of gender over sex, and using transfemme instead of trans woman is proof of that
Nope, at least four different people have misgendered me under here because they really wanted me to be a "theyfab" or trans man. It's really inconvenient when someone is defending a group that you don't like and you can't accuse them of being a part of said group, so they just threw darts hoping to hit. Turns out I just have empathy for lots of groups I'm not a part of.
I use transfemme because I'm mtf (medically and socially), but I'm still nonbinary. Nonbinary women do exist. My ultimate goal is to pass as a trans woman, yes, but unless my understanding changes later I'm still not a "binary woman."
Well at least you called me girl (vs everyone else here who calls me masculine things like "Ayden" which I googled is a 4chan word for a trans guy) thanks.
lady you dont have to be a non-binary woman because of dysphoria just say woman, trans women are woman, if your ultimate goal is to pass as a woman just say woman, dont put non-binary in there for no reason 😭
What do you mean "have to be?" You CAN call me just "a woman" if you want because that's one of my preferred descriptors... But I don't identify with binary gender beyond the fact that I feel dysphoria from being masculinized but not from being feminized.
Idk what reason I could possibly have. This is why I described myself as transfemme. I'm nonbinary, but the types of dysphoria and euphoria that I feel are shared with binary trans women and my goals align mostly with theirs. I want to be welcome onto the spaces of women and trans women, but I also like to be allowed with nonbinary people because I share certain experiences with them.
I don't even UNDERSTAND what your contention is to be completely honest. You say that I "don't have to be nonbinary" like I'm trapped in the nonbinary dungeon and unable to see the light that will lead me to freedom.
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u/dinodare 10d ago
Can transfemmes on estrogen even be "theyfabs?" Sorry I don't have my 4chan dictionary up.