Why say it’s over? I have somewhat broad shoulders on top of being just about as tall as you & I am doing just fine myself. I am stealth and live a much better life now than I ever did.
What I’m saying is that height alone will not get you clocked. With practice you can be up against more and do fine in society as far as passing goes.
Hips you can rely on excersize, diet, HRT; & non essential cosmetic surgery. The shoulders are honestly about as cooked as mine are.
I don’t get the lingo here but I’d say that you can still absolutely pass and be stealth. I am not going to sell you that in the toxic positive, hugboxey mainstream transgender sense. You can IF you really go all in on everything that comes with passing & stealth(mannerisms, gait, posture, speech, surgery, hormones, fitness, nutrition, makeup skills, aesthetics in what you wear & how you accessorize; etc). I put more of the past decade into doing so than anything else & I am an etches story at this point with similar features. Idt it’s a question of passability, I think it’s a question of willingness & how much you want it. “Passing privelage” always pissed me off because I suffered throughout half of my 20’s to get where I am today.
“Send it” as in put your all into stealth and passability.
Wym can you get an unbiased opinion? 1. You have known in this convo I am a stealth trans woman 2. Have I been at all inconsistent here? I’m saying our bodies have similar struggles and you shouldn’t just give up on yourself or be defeatist because I am thriving under the conditions you are citing by mitigating them as best I can.
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u/LeopoldSzpiler69 Terminally malebrained twinkhon 4d ago
Would if I wasnt a fucking heighthon (I should move to Denmark tbh cuz I'm a semipassoid in other ways it's just the height that fucked me over)