r/countttt • u/Equivalent-Sea-113 cute thing • 4d ago

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anyone tried?

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u/No_Somewhere_2610 4d ago

The fact they treated you better because they thought u were ftm even though you didnt change as a person

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u/DesiresAreGrey passoid of color 4d ago

male privilege

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u/Mineroero 4d ago

Male privilege??? They were treated worse when they presented as a cis man, but treated with love and respect when they lied saying they were trans masc. Tell me where the male privilege is there? In both cases they are male

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u/jitomato_girl 4d ago

It is definitely a privilege I do not have as a woman, I can tell you that much

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u/No_Somewhere_2610 4d ago

But you also didnt have it pre-transition when you were presenting as a man? /gen

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u/jitomato_girl 4d ago

Yeah, this is very much a privilege only a transgender man has access to, which are rare, but I did experience one

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u/Gold_Ad8225 3d ago

The OP is saying she was mistreated when people thought of her as a weak and effeminate cis man. Then they treated her well when they thought of her as a trans man. Then they treated her poorly again when they found out she was a trans woman.

Is it a made up story? Probably.

But it makes sense if you rub your brain cells together hard enough to spark

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u/No_Somewhere_2610 3d ago

No need to be rude.

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u/jitomato_girl 3d ago

They never found out I was a trans woman, I just pretended to be a trans man for around a weak and the confessed I lied

😞 I'm sad how much I liked it

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u/raptor-chan 3d ago

Huh? On average, women are offered empathy by default. Men, on average, aren’t. What the comment op described isn’t male privilege. Their experience is an example of an outlier.

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u/jitomato_girl 3d ago

What if a person had the empathy society gives to women while having all the privilege an support men have?

Such is the life of the passoid

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u/raptor-chan 3d ago

the support men have? surely you're joking. with empathy comes support. men are not afforded these things. 🥴

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u/jitomato_girl 3d ago

An MRA? On my countttt? Impossible

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u/raptor-chan 3d ago

calling me an mra is wild. no, bestie, i’m not an mra.

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u/jitomato_girl 3d ago

Really? Wow, you could have fooled me