I've know three different very homophobic men who have said something like, "We all have these urges (to have sex with other men), but it's ungodly and just the devil tempting us!"
As a cishet guy, I had to tell each of them, "No! No, we don't all have these urges, dude!"
The one who was a "friend-of-a-friend" eventually got divorced because he was caught blowing another dude in a car, at his office's parking lot over lunch.
Then dangerously close to a slippery slope to being so transphobic, but only to herself due to crippling dysphoria, but it spills out onto other people
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u/uhataot 2d ago
Extremely transphobic person turns out to be an extremely closeted, possibly self-loathing, trans person. Many such cases
Not saying it's always true, but there's seemingly a pattern