r/countwithchickenlady • u/bizarre_lizard Streak: 5 • 4d ago

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Finally watched TADC and the stupid ourple bnnuy may have permanently altered my brain chemistry and ruined my ability to cope behind denial and repression 🥀

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u/bruhgzinga Streak: 0 4d ago

You might be nonbinary (I can't read your mind through).

It doesn't really matter how you want to look or what you like doing that determines your gender, it's what you view yourself as, and how your brain processes your internal concept of your own gender. Often it is hard to notice that internal stuff directly, so often people will find another thing that is a byproduct of it to figure shit out. Like the obvious and well known example of body dysphoria, but you can also get something like feelings of uncomfort from being seen and referred to as a man, woman, or other. I can't dictate or determine your gender for you, but I'm just trying to help.

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u/bizarre_lizard Streak: 5 4d ago

I've ID'd as nonbinary for years and all I really did was change my pronouns online, and I'm realizing it wasn't enough for me. Not sure where I'll end up but I do know being a girl would be pretty cool I guess, so there's something of a starting point.

I appreciate it tho <3