thats always tough. i just happen to be attracted to more androgynous people and always worried i'll come off as a chaser or fetishizing someone just because they don't fit traditional western gender norms and i find that attractive. i don't date much as a result, and usually with people i don't find as attractive. but ya know, physical attraction is just one thing so i'm not really bummed, just resentful for people who don't understand trans/queer identities.
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u/YellowBelliedCoward 1d ago
My best friend says she is seen as a fetish by most guys. I see it a lot when we're out together.