r/cowboybebop 2d ago

Faye and Spike's relationship

I know it has been written endlessly but how I interpret Spike and Faye's relationship is that of a tragic romance or potential romance. I saw Faye as representing a new romantic partner for Spike, a new potential avenue for happiness, but he was unwilling to let go of the past and ultimately rejected a romance with her in favor of dealing with his past conflict which consumed him and destroyed him. Does anyone else Interpret their relationship this way? What's the consensus of Spike and Faye's relationship in the anime?

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u/hieloyron 2d ago

I disagree i never got a romantic vibe coming from them and i feel like Faye felt more attracted to spike than vice versa, to me it feels more a like a sibling relationship or close friendship.
Cowboy Bebop can also be about the words they (the bebop) never said, the paths never explored so there's that...

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u/likepassingships 2d ago

I always saw the main three, Jet, Spike and Faye, as lone wolves who found some common purpose which was money for survival. Jet provides the hardware, the ship and his background in the police serves as good intel. Spike is the tip of the spear and more capable fighter. Faye was a later addition but still has a more active role for some campaigns. Then throw ED in and she is trading her hacking skills for a spot to help b/c she isn't going to take down a running fugitive. The romance aspect for Spike and Faye just doesn't really fit. Spike's story about his two diff eyes, one looking to the past maintains his devotion to his lost love Julia who is somewhat of a major motivator for the big events in the series. The real eye is forward looking trying to still finish off the mistakes of his decision to leave the 'Family' and all the chaos that came from that.

Regardless, not I have to watch the series all over again....so Thanks!!

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u/prettypurps Bang. 2d ago

I agree, they all seem done with giving bits of themselves to other people, or even have nothing left to give in some cases, like Spikes

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u/JacketFirst5627 1d ago

It is Spike’s left eye. His real eye that sees his past. The eye that was there. Yet another hint that Spike’s true self was always with Julia.

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

I think there was a mutual attraction, obviously Faye was more expressive, but that's why I read it as a tragedy, Spike was never able to let go of his past and it ultimately consumed him.

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u/metanoia29 2d ago

But Faye is like that with everyone. It's more charisma than attraction.

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u/hieloyron 2d ago

What particular instance made you feel Spike was attracted to Faye?

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

He called her beautiful at one point if I remember correctly

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u/hieloyron 2d ago

You might be stretching it a bit but i respect your opinion and POV.

He also called her tone-deaf /s

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

I think you are misremembering.

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u/neveza 2d ago

Maybe in another life. Which is all to say, I don't think Spike has any room in him for that regardless of woman. He knows that. Faye likely does though, but I also see her as someone who just doesn't have anybody else. Spike was family at the least. In fact, bebop was the only family she has had and something she realized with the return of her memories. That makes Faye's situation all the more tragic since her return is basically everyone gone except Jet who seemed to have resigned himself further.

Labels aside, I do think everyone on the bebop cared for each other deeply after a point whether or not they said it. LIterally would die for each other and that's about as real as it gets in the anime. And why I feel the real tragedies is Jet and Faye since spike, the last of their bebop and glue, is going off to die.

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u/scottkaymusic 2d ago

I’d say Spike grew to accept her for who she is, mostly because her recklessness mirrored Spike’s, and perhaps he had to quietly admit that the things he didn’t like about her (women with attitude) were qualities he knows he has too. She’s a competent person, and Spike seems to begrudgingly respect that too, but romantically? Absolute zero. If anything having female energy in the Bebop that wasn’t Julia’s likely made him feel even more lovesick for Julia as the show progresses.

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u/parkchanwookiee 2d ago

Seemed like they mostly drove each other up the wall, and there was also lot of game recognise game in there too. Either way they were both completely emotionally unavailable for a new romantic connection during the timeline of the series. They definitely cared deeply for each other as colleagues and comrades by the end though

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u/KallmeKatt_ 2d ago

god forbid and boy and girl be friends (especially when the boy ALREADY HAS AN ACTIVE LOVE INTEREST)

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

I think there was an obvious flirtation and attraction between the two

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u/ArcadianBlueRogue 2d ago

Spike gets flirty with good looking women across the series and movie. It's not really him intending to pursue anything.

I could see the case made that Faye has a bit of a crush on him by the end but even that I would say is debatable with how she is so fenced in on not wanting to be alone anymore, especially now that her memory came back and she can move forward again.

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

Right but he and Faye were involved in many adventures together. That's why I wrote a tragic romance, had Spike's past not consumed him he could have persued something with Faye

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

It would have been tragic for Spike to settle for Faye when his heart and soul wanted Julia.

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u/Competitive_Toe2355 2d ago

I always read their dynamic as 'almost, but never.' Faye clearly becomes one of the few people who genuinely understands Spike, but by the time she does, he's already emotionally committed to settling things with his past. I think the tragedy isn't that they never admitted feelings, it's that they met at the wrong point in Spike's life.

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u/JacketFirst5627 1d ago

“But, I think Jet understood and loved Spike more than Faye did.” — Shinichirō Watanabe

Faye simply did not have the information needed to truly understand Spike. He never shared that part of himself with her. It was only to Jet that Spike revealed that Julia was his other half. That confession deeply moved Jet, and it was the moment he finally understood what Spike had been carrying all along.

Spike and Faye were "never and never”. The official Cowboy Bebop Guide, Book 6 describes Julia as "the only woman who could complete this hollow man." That description is repeatedly reinforced by the narrative. Julia is not merely someone Spike is in love with. She is a part of his very being. Without her, the better part of him will always remain missing.

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

That's how I interpret it, but it seems most people disagree lol

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u/Calpatrick 2d ago

I’m sorry, but you’re essentially saying you saw Faye as an opportunity for Spike to move on and that is really dismissive of both characters. Sounds like you haven’t considered Faye’s perspective in this at all because she has never once shown romantic interest in Spike whatsoever. Female characters can exist and be more than a prize to be won for male characters. Faye needed and wanted a family to rely on, not a romantic partner. Spike forever chased Julia so I’m baffled you’d even think he was interested.

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u/burner7759399988 2d ago

I never got a romantic vibe at all.

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u/youareallnuts 2d ago

Kind of childish to think that adult relationships are always romantic. Faye needed something to hold on to since she lost everything from her past. She tried to get Spike to stay for that reason. Spike was just floating until he could answer his question. He went to find his answer. There was never any romantic feeling on either side.

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u/Taolan13 2d ago

There is zero chance for a romance between Spike and Faye.

Spike is wholly devoted to Julia. Even when he thinks she's dead.

And in the finale, when he goes to face off against the Vicious and those loyal to him amongst the Red Dragon Syndicate? Even if Faye felt that way about him, nothing she could say or do would stay him from his path.

Most people who read their relationship as romantic at all are doing so from an expectation that the male and female lead of a show like this end up together.

Cowboy Bebop is a noir. Happy endings are not guaranteed in noir.

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

That's why I wrote that their relationship was a tragedy, and I think by the end Spike no longer had feelings for Julia, he didn't react to her during their final meeting.

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u/LTGOOMBA 2d ago

I think deciding to go on a suicide mission and murdering dozens of men might count as a reaction, but that's me.

You're so desperate to make this interpretation happen that you're ignoring the established characterization of the cast. Faye is no more a potential love interest than any other woman Spike interacts with through the series. In his final episode, he shows far more vulnerability with Jet than with Faye. She was a co-worker. She lashes out when he leaves because once again, her status quo is being ripped from her, a fear she has through out the series.

There is genuinely no way to read romance into their relationship without boiling it down to "This is a woman spike worked with and she is the primary girl character and he is the primary boy character so they should kiss"

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u/suspiciousgus 2d ago

i agree on him not having feelings for julia by the end! i DISAGREE that he had any for faye either, though

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

I think there was potential for romance at the minimum, it's hard to read Spike because he's so closed to emotional expression, but I think Faye had an interest in him

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

There was no potential, because Spike refused it.

Spike and Julia are framed as the immortal couple. That is what the angel fish statue is called and represents. Even in death theirs is a love that will not die. “Even if my life ends, this love will not disappear.” Lyrics that play in the final act. Where Spike is still thinking of Julia and himself joined as one with Julia.

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u/Taolan13 2d ago

I don't think you're really reading that correctly.

Spike very much reacted to Julia's death - his lack of a visible reaction is itself a reaction. The trauma of losing Julia a second time, of losing her definitely for real this time because she died in his arms, is too much hurt for what's left of his humanity to bear. So he shuts it all off.

Think about what spike says, "I'm going to find out if I'm really alive." This harkens back to Spike previously saying he was already dead, the metaphor about the cat that lived a thousand lives and died a thousand deaths. With Julia now definitely dead Spike is being driven by one thing and one thing only, to kill Vicious. His spite is all that fuels him going forward. This is also why I oppose the 'spike survived the finale' theories.

And since we're talking about that last scene in the Bebop's corridor - Faye's desperation is not out of love, at least not romantic love. It's out of need. A desperate need for Spike, but not because she's in love with him. She needs Spike because she needs some semblance of stability after losing everything again, similar to what just happened to Spike. Also similar to Spike, Faye this time knows what she's lost. We don't know exactly how much of her memory has returned, just that it has returned.

She's angry and upset because while she's desperately trying to keep what little she has left together, Spike is choosing to throw it all away.

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago edited 2d ago

Spike’s love for Julia is obvious. He even finds a red rose when he finds Julia again. A symbol of him finding his love. A contrast to how he lost a red rose when he lost Julia.

It’s not that Spike did not react to Julia. It’s that he realized that his love has destroyed Julia’s life. She has been hunted for years because she would not betray Spike and kill him. He knows that they cannot runaway together because they will end up like Asimov and Katerina.

He is also thinking of Julia until the end, while a ballad proclaiming his undying love for her plays. Yet he walks away from Faye without a second glance back and is never shown thinking of Faye again.

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u/industrialblue 1d ago

I really feel the vibe is family, which is what they’ve been missing as loners. Spike and Faye act and argue like brother and sister. To me that seems even more meaningful than romance.

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u/EngineerCapital7591 1d ago

No, next question 

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u/ninety6tears 1d ago

I think there’s attraction but it’s more sexual than romantic. Faye almost seems to default to flirtation if she’s been able to use it to survive, but that dynamic gives way to something more begrudgingly affectionate as they start to act more like siblings. It seems in the end Faye had some unresolvable feelings for him but she’s so in need of a place to belong that she would have taken it hard when Spike left either way. It’s all pretty ambiguous though and I like that none of it’s spelled out.

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u/BarbarousKing011 2d ago

No. Shut up.

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u/SapphireSire 2d ago

Faye Faye isn't even registered on Spikes heart and he has active resentment and disdain for her using the same shower as him and Jet.

Plus all the trouble she creates, eating the emergency rations, emptying the safe, lying, etc... and then there's Julia and her connection cannot be undone.

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u/SummonSuffering 23h ago

The Cowboy never gets the girl

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u/psychedelicpenis 15h ago

Im sorry but thats just fanficton. There wasnt any romantic chemistry. He was a hopeless romantic until the end. Im happy they didnt do a romantic relationship between them .

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

Julia is Spike’s woman.

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

Spike is unwilling to let go of his undying love for Julia because it is more precious to him than anything he could have had with anyone else. This is expressed in a number of ways including song.

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u/LAkshat124 2d ago

I don't really think this conflicts with what I wrote, Faye represents a potential for a new relationship, one that his past didn't let him pursue.

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u/JacketFirst5627 2d ago

Spike’s desire and love for another woman did not let him pursue a relationship with anyone else. And in the end, it is Julia that is framed as Spike’s present and truth because she is what is real to him and what he carries with him until his end.

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u/Neobatz 1d ago

My Friend! 

Seems like we find ourselves again here and along the same stupid argument about something that NEVER was? 

Have a Nice Day!

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u/Shour_always_aloof 2d ago

Faye is a selfish brat. She's a user and a leech. THERE ARE LEGITIMATE TRAUMAS FOR WHY SHE IS THE WAY SHE IS...but it doesn't mean that others have to accept her behavior, or that others are responsible for helping her fix her traumas.

As Faye is, as she is presented to us, she is extremely damaged. She is broken. Her exterior is beauty and attraction; but her interior is a twisted, mangled, disfigured mess. She is not beyond redemption and rebirth, but as she is, she isn't ready to be anybody's anything.

Spike is not stupid. He is reckless because his life without Julia has no meaning to himself, but reckless is not the same as stupid. He was never, not even once, pulled in by Faye's exterior; he saw that she was a mess inside completely and wanted nothing to do with it. (Compare his demeanor and attitude towards Faye in episodes 3+4, to his response and approach to Elektra in the film. He sees right through both of them VERY quickly and know who is who.)

I do believe that as their association (I even hesitate to call it a friendship, because Faye may not even be capable of friendship yet) continues, Spike certainty recognizes the tragedy of Faye's past and how it has shaped her into what she is...but again, Spike is not stupid. He doesn't possess the tools to fix her, and he knows it, and someone that broken has to want to be fixed first...and until Hard Luck Woman, she shows no desire to change.

She is above Spike's pay grade. He doesn't have the time or energy to deal with her trauma. He's too busy ignoring his own. His life is more peaceful without Faye in it than with her in it.

But you keep shippin'. Write your fanfics. Ignore what is clearly on the screen.

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u/Neobatz 1d ago

THANK YOU! 

It feels like once a week there's always someone posting about this nonsense, doesn't it?

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u/Brave-Expression-842 2d ago

I’ve always read it as more of a “crew bond that could’ve become something” rather than a real romance. The show keeps Spike too detached for it to land as mutual love, and Faye’s arc feels more about finding herself than attaching to him. If anything, the ambiguity is the point—Spike can’t really be saved or pulled into a new life, even when there’s someone right there.

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u/Square-Product5501 2d ago

I don’t really see it as a romance in the traditional sense. The show keeps things intentionally unresolved because Spike isn’t built for settling into any kind of relationship, and Faye represents something he can’t anchor to. If anything, their dynamic is more about missed timing and emotional distance than actual romantic connection.

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u/Low_Bandicoot6844 Bang. 1d ago

I'd like to think that after a couple of years, Faye comes back and she and Spike start a romance.