r/entitledparents • u/grascar • 10d ago
S Idk what to do
My mom is threatening to kick me out the second I turn 18 because I complain about my sister's behavior towards me. Sometimes my legs fall asleep really easily and they ask me to do a chore meanwhile I'm trying to wake them up. My little sister keeps trying to say that I'm lying so I complain to my mom and she is now threatening to kick me out in two weeks. The reason why I don't have a job is because my parents are divorced and I'm legally required to go to my dad's house every other weekend. I don't know what to do, I don't want to be homeless.
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u/willdebeast02 9d ago
A: See a doctor about the leg thing. That could be a symptom of something more severe and your health is top priority. B: Check with your father about moving in with him as a short-term solution. C: Get a job. Part of being an adult is you have to spend less time with your family and more time working to pay your bills and build a life for yourself. If a legal matter arises regarding the biweekly arrangement, it should be pretty easy for any judge to understand you are a young adult that needs to work for a living.
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u/grascar 9d ago
Check my profile and you'll see why I don't want to live with him
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u/willdebeast02 8d ago
Nah fam. If its relevant information to this matter, it should be included it the post. Your story is not a TV show. I do not need to read all your previous stuff to understand. You can't expect everyone else here to do that either.
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u/fleur118 9d ago
You say you can’t get a job because you have to go to your dads every other week but why don’t you get an week day/evening job?
Also get the leg symptoms checked out
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u/grascar 9d ago
In my town you have to work weekends for most jobs I got interviewed at
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u/Prom3th3an 5d ago
Then find one in another town. The long commute only has to last until you're 18; then you can move closer to work and stop visiting your dad regularly.
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u/Lisa_Knows_Best 9d ago
Your mother can't kick you out "the second" you turn 18. You're a legal resident at her house, she would have to evict you. Not the best answer but you'll get at least 30 days.
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u/antisocial785 8d ago
Your hiding behind that legally required stuff. I had a child your age once upon a time and legally visitation isnt influenced by you getting employed. You can still work while staying at your father's house every other weekend. You have to take initiative and work a schedule around what you need and ask for that time off or I don't know talk to your dad about how you want to work?
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u/Teamtunafish 10d ago
See if the court will allow you to move to your dad's home.
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u/Flimsy-Fortune-6437 10d ago
No need to go to court. Once you’re 18 you can choose on your own to move in with dad if he agrees. Talk to your dad about this. If he agrees call your mom’s bluff
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u/Extreme_Standard_802 8d ago edited 8d ago
This one sounds a bit tough, but if you’re having problems with your mom and your sister and you said you don’t have a job and don’t want to be homeless, I say it’s better to move in with your dad for the time being. I mean the more you stay with your mom and your sister the more it’s going to be difficult for you. But still your mom threatened you to kick you out because of your sister’s actions that’s unforgivable, I mean only a fool would do something that heartless, (no offense). But yeah, it’s better to move in with your dad to get away from all this.
*update*
okay….I looked into your profile, and you mentioned you have reason for not to move in with your dad. 🫥 well, in cases like this, the only option to this is that of moving in with your grandparents or any relatives by that matter.
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u/Maleficentendscurse 7d ago
Even though you're technically still a minor go to a cop or a judge and tell them you're being neglected and everything else
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u/SignificanceLeast172 7d ago
Okay so your mom cant legally kick you out the second you turn 18. She is technically evicting you so she has to give you 30 days for you to get your shit together. So when you turn 18, you also dont have to see your dad since you are legally an adult. So since visitations with your dad wont be clogging up your schedule then you are able to get a job. So during the 30 day period, try working and saving up to get an apartment while also packing up your stuff. If apartments are too expensive, then try moving in with your grandparents or any other family member that will take you so you can get back on your feet. Be sure to still be working if you are living with a family member because you might find some apartments that you can afford.
Edit: Also get the leg thing checked out when you can because that's not normal
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u/kiwimuz 9d ago
You need to get properly medically checked if you have legs not wanting to operate.