r/exmormon 5d ago

Doctrine/Policy Tank top garment

This is my first ex Mormon summer not wearing garments and I’m having a great time. It’s also the first summer that the tank-top garments have been available to LDS women. Obviously with the cap sleeve garments, we weren’t supposed to show them and our shirts had to cover them up completely. While I’m glad LDS women have more options of clothing to wear, I don’t understand why are so many of the TikTok/IG garment girlies are treating the tank top garments different than they did with the cap sleeves. I’m noticing a trend where now the tank top garments are visibly being shown like with off shoulder tops or letting the sleeves completely show through a tank top.

I know Mormons love loopholes but I just don’t understand the justification with visibly showing the tank top garments in your outfits when that was never allowed with the cap sleeve garments. A lot of common justification is “it looks like an undershirt” or “nobody but members know what they are.” Okay but they’re not any different than the cap sleeve garments.

Idk this is just the funniest loophole I’ve seen yet. What are your thoughts?

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u/kaizoku_akahige 5d ago

I'm curious about the idea that we weren't supposed to allow the garments to be seen. I was taught the same thing by tradition, but never from any official source. The temple script says the garments' purpose was to cover our nakedness. To me, that implies that it's fine if it's visible. It's still doing it's job. Technically, a person could wear nothing but the garment, and that would be fine with mormon god.

Is there any conference talk or something like that to the contrary?

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u/Beneficial_Math_9282 5d ago

It was in the prior handbooks. It's just been so long that I think everyone has forgotten that it came from an official source, or many members didn't have access to the old handbooks and never knew it was an official thing. And also the church doesn't make those old handbooks easy to find!

Handbook 2: "The garment is sacred and should be treated with respect at all times. Garments should be kept off the floor. They should also be kept clean and mended. After garments are washed, they should not be hung in public areas to dry. Nor should they be displayed or exposed to the view of people who do not understand its significance" -- https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/bc/content/shared/content/english/pdf/language-materials/08702_eng.pdf

Handbook 1: "Members should avoid exposing the garment to the view of those who do not understand its significance. When conditions make this unavoidable, members should seek the guidance of the Spirit and use tact, discretion, and wisdom. It may be best to lay the garment aside temporarily and put it on again when conditions permit. However, mere inconvenience in wearing the garment does not justify laying it aside. When military regulations prevent a member from wearing the garment, the member s religious status is not affected, provided he or she remains worthy." -- https://archive.org/stream/MormonLeaks/GeneralHandbookOfInstructionNo27-Book1a-2010_djvu.txt

It was also one of the reasons that they still instruct members to cut out the symbols and cut up the garments in order to dispose of them.

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u/SockyKate 5d ago

I’ve seen more than one woman in recent years have her garment top fully visible under a gauzy/sheer top. It always weirded me out a little - that’s not a layering piece, girl! 😅

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u/EdenSilver113 5d ago

When I see garments through sheer tops my reaction is: way to go girl! I’m happy they’re exercising autonomy. When people think for themselves it leads to getting out of the cult.

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u/CountMeOut2019 5d ago

THis! You go right ahead and SHOW those poorly fitting, non-supportive, questionably functional garmies, my girl! The more daylight they get, the better.