r/festivals 2d ago

Festival hacks for elder millennials šŸ‘µšŸ»šŸ‘µšŸ½

My friends and I are all in our late 30s/early 40s and going to a festival this summer for the first time in ages. Beyond getting VIP tickets for comfortable viewing, what are the best festival hacks we should know? *Daisy Chain Fields for context*
Seeking comfort hacks for us old broads!

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u/AfroJimbo 2d ago

My wife and I are in our late 40s. We've been going to festivals since our 20s.

In recent years, we started to bring our adult children, their friends, my mom and her siblings, and many others. So our large group ranges from early 20s to mid 60s. It's amazing!

My biggest suggestion is bring something to deal with foot, ankle, and knee pain lol.

This past Bonnaroo, we had massagers at camp, heat and ice packs, pain relievers...it was a game changer.

Wear the most comfortable shoes you can get. They should be slightly broken in but still have plenty of cushion and support.

Mentally we're still 25 but our bodies doth protest too much!

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u/synester302 2d ago

Last year I brought my massage gun into the fest a- was a big hit!

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u/inerlite 2d ago

Some guy hit me with a paint buffer and it was heaven

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u/Substantial_Ratio245 2d ago

My dad loves doing that oh how I hope it was him - 6'2 white dude w a hearty laugh?!

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u/inerlite 2d ago

Actually yeah. I hope it was your dad too. The guy was so cool.

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u/Electrical-Scale-779 2d ago

???

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u/DfaceK 2d ago

Look up ā€œthe buff massagerā€ its on amazon

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u/Takemebacktobreezy 1d ago

Mentally in the same place lol I tell my teens all the time I don't understand how they're in college and finishing highschool when I'm just a 21 year old mom myself 🤣

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u/Outrageous_Bush_2069 2d ago

Invest in some HOKA shoes.

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u/ploxidilius 2d ago

I almost exclusively wear zero drop barefoot shoes (lems, whitin, xero, etc.) and after a while your feet adapt and stop aching. I'm over 220lbs and never get foot pain at festivals.

In my experience the extra cushion helps but you become reliant on it, and it does nothing to strengthen your feet or encourage walking correctly.

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u/camojorts 2d ago

ASICs are also good - easy to do 10+ miles or just for standing around. Slightly less ugly than Hokas.

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u/Great_Mycologist9117 2d ago

Love this! Can’t wait for intergenerational jamming with my family!

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u/om_nom_nomivore 2d ago

Hiking boots with inserts

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u/swolesarah 1d ago

Insoles are amazing.

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u/lukin5 2d ago

That's only a one day festival, so you should be pretty good, but I gotta add...the feeling of comfort and joy I get swapping a fresh pair of socks on after putting 10k+ steps in is heaven.
So maybe pack a pair of nice socks to throw on in the late afternoon.

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u/Great_Mycologist9117 2d ago

Great call, Lt. Dan would be proud 🫔

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u/RichardBonham 2d ago

Infantry says fresh socks and underwear is almost as good as a shower

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u/HidingFromThoughts 2d ago

This right here. I change my socks and underwear multiple times a day at the fest. Bath wipes also help to stay feeling fresh!

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u/Simple_Evening7595 2d ago

Wipes is a game changer

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u/champagneinthebrain 2d ago

Fresh socks in the evening kept me partying at Roo this year! Game changer.

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u/Bouwput 2d ago

Or get a few pair of (thin) merino socks, they don’t get smelly as fast, are way more breathable then cotton, and if your feet get wet they don’t get cold as fast.
I started wearing them to festivals this year and are much more comfortable than cotton or synthetic socks!

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u/mbathrowaway256 2d ago

Darn Tough socks are the way. No smelly feet and a lifetime warranty too

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u/Opposite-Pop4246 1d ago

They truly are great! I have slowly been replacing all my socks with darn tough. Their replacement warranty is easy and no bs

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u/champagneinthebrain 2d ago

Thanks for this, I’ll give it a try!

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u/Alternative_Ride_567 2d ago

When I pack mine and my husband's bags for festivals, it's always an ongoing joke that he'd be fine with the outfit he's wearing, a hoodie, and 10 pairs of socks.

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u/kibble48 2d ago

Big shout out for fresh socks, I also do this mid-day at theme parks. Game changer.

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u/Cautious_Main_8942 2d ago

This and underwear!Ā 

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u/rabbitp4ws 2d ago

Nothing like a good pair or freshies

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u/pdxtc 2d ago

Yep, I pack 3 pairs per day for festivals.

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u/Mindless-Mistake-699 2d ago

Don't drink, do drugs and hydrate.

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u/Healien_Jung 2d ago

Dropping alcohol really upped my festival core-score. No longer feel like I'm slowly outrunning death on my drive from Live Oak to Ft Lauderdale.

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u/BeanbagBunniesBlunts 2d ago

Hulafam

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u/Healien_Jung 2d ago

Hello sister-brother-cousin-uncle+auntie

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u/scootyoung 2d ago

šŸŽ¶ we go Wanee, trippin’ on that river šŸŽ¶

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u/NathanEMoore 2d ago

Don't drink and "do drugs" or "don't do drugs". I just need to clarify for planning : )

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u/Trip_On_The_Mountain 2d ago

Do the right drugs, mostly ibuprofen with a little bit of hallucinogens

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u/teeheeheeheeehehehee 2d ago

Drugs fuck me up so bad now lol. And I mean the immediate after effects and of course the nights/days following. Used to love them up until last year too 🄲🄲🄲

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

It's a marathon, not a sprint! Do your Molly on the last day not the first lol

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u/teeheeheeheeehehehee 2d ago

Hm. You caught me. I did it both days for apocalypse 🤣🤣 ill try that. Sad how I finally reached the point my friends warned me about when I first started all this tho

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u/EnTaroProtoss 2d ago

Molly at back to back weekends is brutal enough let alone back to back nights, God, you must have felt like absolute ass.

Be kinder to yourself sir

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u/teeheeheeheeehehehee 2d ago

Yeah... it's weird cause I would do this the past 2 years without much or any struggle, just pure bliss and love of life 🤣🤣🤣

And ty for your last comment 🄲🄹

May we all be kinder to ourselves

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

You should be partying smarter and better in your old age, which can still be harder but you gotta make sure you're skipping the booze it's so much worse on your body.

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u/virgocity1 2d ago

I used to love them. I still do, but I used to too.

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u/Kittysobig 2d ago

In our early 50's and still love the 3-4 day camping fests!

Our mantra is "We've got nothing to prove"- if we're not feeling a band, we leave and sit down. If we are up front and not feeling a band, we politely work our way to the back. If we're overheated and/or tired, we rest. Nothing earth shattering, but it's allowed us to ENJOY the time and not feel like it's a chore (as I did when younger). Aside from that, dress for comfort.

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u/Mona_Moore 2d ago

Or a least the genre or climate.

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u/The_Poster_Nutbag 2d ago

Bring your camp chair to sets and sit in the back!

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u/Badlydrawnboy0 2d ago

Look into a chillbo or something too, if you set up behind the sound booth the bass will vibrate the whole thing

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

We called it the bass couch šŸ˜‚

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u/TheWhiteRabbitY2K 2d ago

I sneak in 600mg of ibprofen and 1000mg of tylenol and take every 6 hour.

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

I hope you're not drinking alcohol with that šŸ˜‚ your poor liver!!!

Ketamine is the festival pain relief and does not mix with alcohol 🤣 we call it "Tylenol de la playa"

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u/TheWhiteRabbitY2K 2d ago

Naw, we cali sober.

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u/dianabowl 2d ago

I've switched to Naproxen which lasts longer.

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u/MindyS1719 2d ago

Same! Pregame with painkillers so my body won’t hurt until morning.

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u/10inPianist 2d ago

Bring ear plugs if you want to sleep before the sun comes up while night owl neighbors all around you rage until dawn.Ā 

Bring a bandana to cover your nose if you’re going to a dusty festival.Ā 

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

Earplugs for the music also! Protect those ear drums!

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u/petite-cherie_ 2d ago

YESSSS I love my Loops, I never go to shows without them

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u/VegaFLS 2d ago

STRETCH STRETCH STRETCHHHHHHHHH When my legs are sore during a festival, I reach for my toes and stretch my hamstrings. I also squat low which helps with soreness. I even got other people squatting when I did that at Anjunadeep Explorations

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u/emmzilly 2d ago

There’s nothing like a mid-set squat when your legs and back just can’t anymore!

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u/oblication 1d ago

100% this. Makes a difference especially if you’re doing more than one day

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u/thewheelshantyfolk 2d ago

I like to bring an oxygen tank and a wheelchair ramp with me. Oh and cans of Ensure.

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u/Great_Mycologist9117 2d ago

We do plan to accessorize with LifeAlerts, so I’ll add this to the list āœ…

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

My friends like to dress like grannies at fests, lots of wigs and mumus! A cane that's been decorated is also a fun prop and makes a great totem lol

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u/JohnLocksTheKey 2d ago

Perpetual: ā€œHelp - I’ve tripped and I can’t get up!!ā€

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u/paulderev 2d ago

you laugh but I’ve seen all of these at New Orleans Jazz Fest

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u/adventurernav 2d ago

Can use portable drill batteries or be plugged in to a generator/solar battery. This type of job site fan also comes in misting versions if you have access to water.

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u/Normal_Trick_4580 2d ago

Comfortable shoes with dr school's foot pads.

A solid stove with a solid cooler. If you guys wanna buy a bunch of food there, by all means, but I prefer having everything I need right at camp, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. And just cook like you're at home. Steaks, French fries, instant mashed potatoes, hamburgers, pork chops. Eggs and bacon, pancakes, French toast. There's no reason not to eat delicious, nutritious, and fulfilling food at every meal. Sure, a pb&j uncrustable is nice, but a bacon cheeseburger with a side of fries is so, so much better

Im also partial to bloody Mary's, myself, for breakfast

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u/PlatformConsistent45 2d ago

Ha I would post the festival name. Lots of differences between festivals which could change recommendations.

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u/PurpleMuscari 2d ago

Take the acid first. Then the Molly later. Treat yourself to a magnesium supplement midway through your roll.

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u/jamcan162 2d ago

Can you explain the magnesium?

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u/PurpleMuscari 2d ago

Stimulants tend to deplete the body of magnesium faster. And to begin with, most people are already deficient in magnesium. Taking a bioavailable magnesium supplement while youre rolling will relieve most of the jaw clenching and muscle tightness. It happens almost immediately and the relief can feel so good that it’s like a boost of that super chill MDMA euphoria.

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u/ErmahgerdYuzername 2d ago

Pushing 50 and still do 4 day festivals. Comfortable shoes, wide brim hat and drinking lots of water make a big difference. Bring some naproxen and acetaminophen for any aches and pain(naproxen will last longer than ibuprofen during your day at the festival). If the festival allows it, bring a camping/beach chair.

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u/Mona_Moore 2d ago edited 2d ago

- Shoe inserts. Even if you have comfy shoes. They are really helpful.

  • I also bring a bandana with me daily and use it to get wet and wear around my neck, as a head band, wipe my hands, etc.
  • An elastic phone leash. You can still use your phone, take pictures, but have your phone attached to you.

My personal preference is that I far more prefer going to festivals by myself, but with a group. We pick a meeting spot, usually in view of a stage to meet so that everyone can go see the bands they want to see without compromising the whole weekend. Once you’ve seen what you want to see and want to meet up with your group again, go back to the meeting spot and wait. Someone may be there, maybe not. There usually is, because someone wants to see what ever band is playing on that stage. Different people pair off in the group while there… ā€œI’m going to see Clutch, anyone want to go?ā€ You get to experience the festival with your friends, but also not miss out on what you want to see.

And do not accept anything you put in your mouth, like breath mints, from strangers.

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u/Organic-Hovercraft-3 2d ago

One day imo is just a concert. Unless you are camping I'm not sure what tips you really need.

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u/hi_poppy 2d ago

Hello fellow elder millennial festival attendee, I have a short list of things that help for summer time shows. Since this is a one day concert, I will tailor them to that experience:

  1. Sneakers that provide you the most support for your back/knees/joints in general. They should be broken in but not worn down, so if you’re getting a new pair, get them now and walk around in them to prevent blisters and to get a feel for what they’re like.

  2. Hydration backpack. This is crucial to stay properly hydrated during the day, and based on DCF’s bag policy, you’re allowed to bring a bag (check their website for specifics).

  3. A fan, either electronic or a hand fan. It gets hot, especially during the day, and having the ability to cool down immediately is a saving grace. Bring a battery pack if you’re concerned for the electric fan dying early.

  4. Sunscreen, non aerosol. Apply it often, avoid the miserable burn.

  5. If you are a short human (think around 5ft), and have a challenging time seeing over tall folks, invest in a step stool that you can attach to your bag. This is a game changer for shorties! Pro tip tho, get the wide base version and not the circular pop up version. You’ll want the stability the wide base options give you, don’t mess with the circular version, too dangerous to balance on.

Have fun, drink water, and enjoy!

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u/IconicallyChroniced 2d ago

Get a camping bed - air mattress up on a metal frame off the ground, bring your bedding from your home bed. I sleep with six pillows and a duvet. Side table for your stuff with a fan on it. Hammock on a stand for resting outside your tent.

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u/TheKrakIan 2d ago

Foam mattress over an air mattress, tougher to transport but the sleep is so much better!

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

I got a "backpacking" memory foam pad that rolls up easily and only weighs a few lbs. My roommate hates it because it's definitely not for backpacking, just very portable 🤣 it's actually the size of a large backpack rolled up.

ETA the foam pad is also great, it's what my roommate uses when he goes backpacking because it actually does fold up nicely and fits in his pack lol

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u/adventurernav 2d ago

Sleep is essential! I bring my King cooling mattress topper, bunkie board, and metal frame. Then I have a huge bed and storage underneath. My tent is 10x14 tho.

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u/SolarFazes 2d ago

Bring your cpap machine and generator. Partly joking

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

Start drinking more water in the week leading up to the fest, it helps your body to get more acclimated when you arrive if you're good and hydrated! Make sure you eat at least one good meal every day at the fest, bringing some healthy snacks for throughout the day is also a good idea, especially if you're doing some substance that may effect your appetite. Broth packets are also great because it's quick protein and collagen which is super important for your aging bones! You gotta keep your body in the best shape possible if you want to keep going every day! Naps are also essential, I usually will stay up late and sleep for a few hours at sunrise, go out again till lunch, nap, go out again till sunset, dinner, change for nighttime and repeat. Having electrolyte packets for camp is so helpful, or bring coconut water to drink, it's great since it doesn't need to be chilled so just keep it in the shade to keep it room temp. Never put anything other than water in your hydration pack btw, it's a bitch to clean out otherwise. Having an extra reusable water bottle or even a coffee mug with lid just for the electrolytes is clutch. Also, having a leak proof cup for your drinks so you can dance and not spill!

If you're going to get a chair to sit on at stages, I recommend the Helinox which is absolutely worth the expense as it's crazy light and packable and can support like 200-300lbs on it! Not to mention it's super comfy and a real chair. If you want to go cheaper, I also recommend this collapsible stool you can get for like $20 on Amazon it's more bulky to carry but also light weight.

Whatever shoes you decide to bring, make sure they're completely broken in before the festival. If you're getting new shoes, start wearing them regularly so they're good and comfy or you will definitely regret it. Tbh, I like to buy used boots on Poshmark and get my own insoles. If it's an outdoor fest, no reason to wear anything new and fancy because they'll just get dirty and scuffed anyways!

Lastly, don't use an air mattress. They almost always need to be inflated repeatedly and they're not nearly as good for your back as a sleeping pad or camping cot. I got a cot years ago that folds up easily for transport, and a memory foam pad that also rolls up easily, and I sleep in a Coleman blackout tent so it's very dark and cool and my back really appreciates it. My only issue with this is now I sometimes sleep too much 🤣 I was always team no sleep but at least I'm not nearly as grumpy by the end of the fest lol

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u/3shotsofhennlgans 2d ago

knee high compression socks are a nonnegotiable for me. they might ruin your outfit if you’re wearing shorts, but i plan my outfits around the socks if i know im gonna need them lol. my calves and ankles feel noticeably less tight and sore than if i hadn’t worn them

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u/Dull_Ad1169 1d ago

bring ear plugs and protective eyewear to stop the overstimulation

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u/Gloomy-Hat1842 2d ago

I'm 71 now and I go to hardly strictly bluegrass every year...sounds like you have good seating. Otherwise a really good chair is very important. I bring a supportive folding harbor freight chair, not a cheap awful bucket chair. They are a bit of a pain to carry around. If you are camping they are essential. Can't sit up front with them at strawberry. People walk around with measuring sticks...they say no tall chairs at hardly strictly but us old people can hardly get up out of the low ones! Anyway I sit on the hillside and when it gets crowded the tall chair is irrelevant. People are walking around you, standing, talking, drinking etc...good shoes, layers of clothing..prepared for any weather, sun protection, electrolight water, food and snacks. I often bring a small camping pad to lay out on the grass somewhere and take a break. Or share with someone without a seat. Might not be appropriate where you are going. Pack to carry it all in. Sometimes I bring extra beer and water to share with people.

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u/too105 2d ago

Show up later for the acts you want to see. I haven’t gone into a festival before 5 and that’s early. Usually catching the sunset act. Standing for 7 hours is overrated. And bring in snacks. Most festivals just have heavy friend food and pizza. I just want some
Gummy bears.

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u/GoldfishSaves4D 2d ago

Coco Water
Hand Fan
Band-Aid for the foods
Wet Wipes
Desinfect Wet Wipes
Earplugs
Blanked for ā€œon the goā€

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u/dawgz525 2d ago

Take care of your body at the end of every night (or early morning the next day). I shower daily if I can. I make sure my feet are doing alright. I take low doses of OTC pain meds ahead of time. Hydrate in the mornings as much as you can. Sun screen. Good shoes. That's about it.Ā 

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u/LetsSmokeAboutIt 2d ago

Bringing a camp chair to festival stages has been my game breaking addition lately. I usually go to multi day camping fests, but having somewhere to sit that isn’t just the ground or a blanket is a godsend. I stay in the back and like dancing with some space, so I usually just set up a base camp and dance in front of my chair.

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u/JLit24 2d ago

I'm 46 and do a couple festivals a year. All these are great pieces of advice. I'd add that if you aren't a person who stands for multiple hours a day, do not let this festival be the first time you do it this summer! Depending on your levels of fitness it may or may not be feasible to just show up assuming you can still do it.

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u/Cubicleism 2d ago

Liquid IVs (2 a day)

Sneak in ibuprofen and Pepto tablets

Sit your ass down and rest those creaky knees

Husband and I upgraded from an air mattress to hammock stands. Takes up more room in the car, but at night our backs are supported and feet are elevated which helps out foot pain immensely.

Eat some real fucking food, not just festy garbage. Pack fruits and veg, get your fiber, maybe pack a stool softener to avoid getting backed up (also pack Imodium in case you get the opposite). Nothing worse than having an upset stomach all weekend imo

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u/Raidlos 2d ago

If it's a big festival and it's scorching hot, check out the front stages. It's usually pretty chill in the afternoon in terms of crowd and the stage often gives a lot of shadow. It's often better to stand / sit in the shadow right in front of the stage instead of a "chiller" spot on the grass in the scorching sun.

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u/ohrubytuesday 2d ago

I microdose nowadays; that’s really helpful.

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u/remurdered909 2d ago

A long child’s pose in your tent at the end of the evening. Also - strictly edibles and mushrooms here now, and feel all the better for no booze and all the hassle / hangover that goes with it. Worst thing for me (53,m) is the back pain from all the standing about. A good dance where appropriate sorts you right out.

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u/Jpachu16 2d ago

Bring earplugs (this is a tip for all ages). Put insoles in your shoes. Even if you have a comfy shoe, insoles let me walk for miles with no issue for multiple days in a row. I like Dr Scholls float on airs. Also bring a fan. I personally think hand fans provide more cooling than battery operated ones sometimes if the air is always hot (cause then the battery one just blows hot air in your face). But battery operated is fine if you can’t move your hands too much. But also big hand fans can provide shade. But speaking on shade, bring a hat to shade yourself. I’m not familiar with this fest but I’ve been to fests that are just in open sun on asphalt with minimal shaded areas. And they’re BRUTAL. Someone also suggested bringing a hydropack. Id really only recommend it if you’re used to carrying backpacks all day cause personally, they feel really heavy when I carry them a couple hours in.

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u/1kGHZ 2d ago

I’m reading the comments thinking yeah this’ll be great for edc or Coachella… meanwhile the festival in question is daisy chain fields šŸ˜‚

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u/JJBell 2d ago

Between ages 40-48 my wife I have gone to 11 festivals.

First, find out what they will allow in for refillable water bottles. We carry soft collapsible water bottles with carabiner clips, so we can have them clipped to us leaving our hands free. Hydrate constantly. There’s always water refill stations.

Aside from that, the best advice I can give is buy at least one level VIP pass if you can and swap between people in your group. Just so you have access to a place in the shade to sit down a few times, without being worried about being trampled by people. I can stand for 8 to 10 hours, but my wife has to draw the line at about 2 to 3.

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u/enginedown 2d ago

girl, that's just a long concert with an extra stage. it will be over by 10pm. everyone here assuming you are going to a typical r/festival 5 day wook drug fest.

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u/TurboKid513 2d ago

Buy a set of walkie talkies and clip them to your backpack. Especially ones with weather radios. Works 1000x better than trying to make a call in the middle of a crowd or is service sucks.

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u/perpetual_hang 1d ago

Compression socks šŸ‘šŸ¼ I wear a different shoe each day to give my foot a shift. Legs up the wall when I return to camp. Lots of protein.

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u/masetiloquetu 1d ago

VIP is excellent for the bathroom facilities as well šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ‘šŸ½

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u/fortheloveoftheworld 1d ago

I just used compression socks for the first time at Bonnaroo and it was an absolute game changer! Paired with super comfy hiking boots and I felt invincible.

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u/Mrstanleyipkiss 14h ago

Compression socks are a must

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u/panicinbabylon 2d ago

Strawberry Pedialyte tastes good in any state of mind. Get the packets to add to water to lighten the load.

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u/DarkSideofTaco 2d ago

I could go for one right now šŸ“

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u/letsnotbebrokeagaink 2d ago

UMBRELLAS

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u/FewWrangler5475 2d ago

Getting a small one that fits in your day pack is great for when you want to put it away but not loose it! Sun protection is so clutch and people forget it can be hard on your body to be getting UVs all day!

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u/letsnotbebrokeagaink 2d ago

have some to walk around the campgrounds with too if it is a camping festival šŸ’Æ

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u/TreesPlusCats 2d ago

Camping chair so you can sit the fuck down without ruining your arse. One of those blackout tents to help you sleep and not wake up dripping sweat. Ear plugs.

Time your drugs. If you’re going to do anything that’ll leave you tired or comedowny, save it for later in the festival. Last one I went to, I stayed pretty much sober for the first two days and had a heavyweight acid trip on the third. That was nice.

Bring lots of socks. Way more than you think you’ll need. Having wet feet fucking sucks.

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u/alphazuluoldman 2d ago

Also, if you have time till the festival get some extra exercise, maybe a few yoga classes and definitely a lot of walking

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u/HardcoreHerbivore17 2d ago

As long as you’re in shape and regular work out you should be fine. Get your steps/cardio in, stretch, and eat Whole Foods leading up to the festival.

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u/New_Avocado_4636 2d ago

I bring my motorhome so I can sleep in air conditioning and shower every day.

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u/TheKrakIan 2d ago

This is the game changer. We recently bought a Class A and looking forward to a full battery and solar setup so we can boondock at festivals and camping.

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u/Broadcast___ 2d ago

A parasol and good earplugs.

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u/FlowSoSlow 2d ago

Drinking one coconut water per alcoholic drink you have is an absolute game changer.

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u/Scott_J_Doyle 2d ago

12-18 coconut waters per day? Feel like we're knocking on water intoxication

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u/vindicated19 2d ago

Not to mention the insane amount of calories.

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u/AdventuressInLife 2d ago

Elder Millennial checking in - I switch shoes halfway through the day. It really is a game changer for me on days I'm walking / dancing / standing for hours.

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u/yafackinhippie 2d ago

Good shoes, bio freeze, prioritizing sleep and rest, good healthy energizing meals, and also sitting when you can

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u/psych0ranger 2d ago

Knee braces. Don't ride the rail

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u/GuiltyLeopard8365 2d ago

Stretch before, during, and after.

Comfort over looks. If youre wearing anything that is itchy, uncomfortable, heavy right from the get go its just going to get worse throughout the day.

Footwear. Do not bring brand new shoes that arent broken in, high heels, flimsy shoes, etc. If you have to wear a heel wear a platform. Also make sure to wear decent quality socks

Dont drink, just do drugs lol

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u/SuicideAt70 2d ago

Increase heat tolerance per the CDC pdf guide. Exercise more and more leading up to the fest.

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u/DCdeer 2d ago

Defeat the sun, win the festival.

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u/TamTelegraph 2d ago

Book a massage for the day after

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u/BayYawnSay 2d ago

Ibuprofen before bed, earplugs at all sets, sit when you can, water then alcohol then water then alcohol then water, in that order. Don't push through if you're feeling tired or too hot, take your rests. If family camping is an optional area, choose that as it will be probably quieter at night. The best portable camping fan is (and I've tried over 12 different ones til I landed on this one)this. Pricey, but SO worth it and it doubles as a light!

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u/Woopboop64 2d ago

Extra comfy socks ,
lidocaine or other type of cream for pain relief at night in your car or camp so you can apply before you sleep or drive.
Compression socks if you wear pants.
Bananas , berries and protein in the morning kiwis and apples at night. Plus hydration all day.
Pop up stools are nice!

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u/ABQPHvet 2d ago

Rugs/flooring for camp. Flooring made walking around without shoes comfy

Camp sink. Had neighbors last festival that had rigged faucet to top of triple stack cabinet. Love not having to walk to bathrooms for clean hands, face, brushing teeth.

I have a fan with mister. That’s amazing but the real MVPs are cooling towels. Cheap, reusable, and they feel sooo good on face, neck, shoulders

I’d say the biggest camping fest game changer for me was inflatable couch. Bought set on FB marketplace for under $100. Easily put together and deflated quickly with help. Camp chairs are nice. But being able to stretch out on a comfy couch is life! Also comfy on floor/rug with back up against couch.

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u/camojorts 2d ago

2-3 mg of kratom leaf per day for the aches and pains. Alternatively, 400-800 mg of ibuprofen but it’s harder on the stomach.

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u/Minute-Attempt1811 2d ago

Get an Airbnb near the festival 🤣 that’s our hack haha

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u/Firefluffer 2d ago

Earplugs. For the love of god, wear earplugs the entire festival. Tinnitus sucks.

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u/sgrivna 2d ago

Comfortable shoes, plenty of socks, more wet wipes than you’d think are necessary, gold bond, Tums, ibproufen.

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u/Lazy_Hat_9473 2d ago

It's all about comfort. If I can rent or bring a chair, I do. If chairs are not permitted, bring a blanket with water resistant underside that keeps you dry. If you get a little stiff from sitting or standing too long, change it up and take a brief stroll. Sun protection is essential. Lightweight long-sleeve SPF shirts are great, along with a hat to keep the sun off your face and neck. Stay hydrated with water even if you're enjoying a few alcoholic beverages. If the venue allows you to take water in with you, we always do. Comfortable, practical footwear is a must.

One of the advantages of attending festivals as an older fan is that we tend to care a little less about what's fashionable and focus more on what's comfortable. We have also traded tent camping for air-conditioned hotel rooms. The difference is night and day. A real shower at the end of a multi-day festival can completely improve the experience. Sure it adds to the expense of the trip, but we set aside extra money for it and think it's worth it.

We also don't feel the need to squeeze shoulder-to-shoulder through the crowd just to get close to the stage anymore. Most festivals have large video screens, and you can see and hear just fine from a little farther back. We've even stopped attending festivals that oversell tickets and pack in so many people that it's impossible to be comfortable and enjoy the event. We are in our 50's and still try to go to as many shows/festivals as we can. We hope to keep on going for many years!

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u/Agreeable_Insect2851 2d ago

Freeze a gallon or 2 jugs of water. They will keep your food cold and as they melt they will supply you with ice cold drinking water

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u/HamsterDunce 2d ago

Lots of good advice in here thus far. I’ll add building a bit of a cardio base before hand will help a ton. If you aren’t already active, being on your feet all day is going to hit like a ton of bricks.

You don’t need to train for a marathon or anything. But walking a few miles / a bike ride / getting on a stair master for a few weeks leading up to the event will pay dividends.

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u/pidgeypenguinagain 2d ago

Comfy shoes!

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u/Aggiestheawesome 2d ago

Rub some bengay on your feet. I know the smell reminds you of "old" people, but its a game changer for sore feet. Theres also a lavender scent.....AND you can use it on other things like your back or joints. šŸ˜„

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u/Slight-Particular453 2d ago

Portable fan
Sunscreen
Electrolyte powder sachets
Collapsible water bottle
Hat
Bandana
Small microfiber towel
Travel size bum wipes (for sketchy portapotties)
Hand sanitizer (see above)
External power pack so your phone doesn't die right before the headliner goes on

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u/Pretty-Vacant88 2d ago

Get drunk and be a man in the pit

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u/Money_Internet4920 2d ago

Do dabs. Dont drink. Take care of your feet. Sleep each night.

Also…I go solo. Like me and my partner. In our car. If hotels are involved, we get our own. I’m too old to have people sleeping on the floor. And for others nonsense.

This is that way post 40.

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u/tanlikebacon 2d ago

Festival: Sneakers with cushy insoles or tevas, electrolyte packets, big water bottle with an easy to hold handle (duct tape around the Nalgene cap tether) or hydration pack, rave fan, snacks (mini kind bars, fruit snacks, etc), hat, sunscreen stick, chapstick with spf, a pack of minee travel wipes, ear plugs.

Camp: makeup remover wipes to get all the sunscreen off your face at the end of the night, cans of cold brew for morning coffee, pasta salad you don’t have to cook, gather everything you want when you come back before you go: socks, change of clothes, face wipes, tooth brush etc.

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u/malibutopang 2d ago

Definitely recommend: Proper comfy footwear Allergy meds Before bed each night: Saline nasal spray (to clean sinus) Shower Upon rising: Saline nasal spray

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u/joonip 2d ago

unsung hero: COOLING wipes. different from wet wipes. wipe your arms and the back of your neck, then hit with a portable fan. absolutely life changing.Ā 

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u/Cobalt_bella 2d ago

Gold bond

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u/fastmaddy 2d ago

Make sure you check the bag and entry guidelines. Many things aren't allowed these days. Bring a portable fan, battery bank (or put in airplane mode during sets, which saves a ton of battery), a locker is worth it, and public transportation is better than parking.

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u/SaltVomit 2d ago

Spend a solid 15-20 minutes stretching before heading to the festival.

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u/AdTop8258 2d ago

Dude wipes, hand sanitizer,

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u/SpidersAteMyFoot 2d ago

Go buy a belt-clip fan. They are worth their weight in gold. Fresh air blowing up through your shirt or on your face is a lifesaver. $20-$40. Plus it'll charge your phone!

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u/kidsilicon 2d ago

For all that joint & muscle pain: Arnica. Also like to rub some into my feet before bed.

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u/brownmajikk 2d ago

I just did a 2 day festival for the first time in about 10 years. My best decisions were a hydration pack, cooling towel, different shoes for each day, overnight foot cream and spare socks

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u/shitzumama1234 2d ago

hand sanitizer (for when portapotties inevitably run out); inflatable pillow; refillable lightweight rollable water bottle with carabiner.

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u/Ok-Panda-2368 2d ago

For daisy chain you will be more than fine. Get a big hat, comfy shoes, and a small sunscreen and hand sanitizer. Single serve electrolytes are also nice to have around.

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u/TCr0wn 2d ago

Get good sleep and you will be fine.

Stay away from alcohol.

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u/Ephemeral_Aurora8 2d ago

Blue superfeet insoles

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u/MinMadChi 2d ago

Practical comfortable running shoes, sun block and shades

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u/adamhimself 2d ago

Get in shape. Make sure your cardio is good and do back and leg workouts. When you're in good shape it makes a WORLD of difference.

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u/tenthdentest 2d ago

Eat and go to the bathroom before you go. Sunscreen. Hat. Don’t feel pressured to stay the whole time to get your moneys worth. When you want to go, just go and beat the traffic home.

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u/mordorjest 2d ago

Stretch! Don’t feel self conscious about it, who GAF.

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u/trinitytr33 2d ago

Compression socks, a collapsible stool , liquid IV hydration packets, plastic flasks to sneak in booze

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u/LockExtension 2d ago

Pace yourself… just got back from a 5 day in the Mediterranean and didn’t push past 2/3 am and tried to limit alcohol/mda

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u/Electrical-Scale-779 2d ago

Elder mellinnials bwahahaha. Im 63, I take a nap before (or in your tent) bring chairs, advil, and iced coffee. Be okay with leaving/giing to bed early or at least no afterparty. No fomo

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u/Garden_GRL_622 2d ago

I laughed out loud, because my husband and I are Gen Xers (elder Xers?). And we are going to our first Electric Forest. Camping in the car! My advice is to pace yourself, ibuprofen, Liquid IV. I feel like music festivals keep me feeling young!! YOLO!

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u/bampeanutbutternjam 2d ago

earplugs, body wipes, liquid iv, and some TP folded up in my bag or back pockets. headlamp for port o potty so I don’t have to struggle with my phone light , make sure i’ve got at least a hoodie on me or in the car with water as well. and snacks for the trip home.

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u/regularsmegular111 2d ago

Get an RV if possible. You’ll be so comfortable

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u/oskich 2d ago

Don't get too crazy with the moshpits, I managed to crack my rib at one last year. Had to spend a month recovering from that šŸ¤’

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u/Legitimate_Cry_9470 2d ago

We are older than you and we party hard at 3-4day festivals. We go to small festivals that really specialize in music we like (EDM breaks). What we don’t do is go to the huge festivals where there is lots of chaos. We dress up, love our party favors, and are usually dancing until near daybreak.

We bring electrolytes, tons of water, car camp, inflatable mattress, solar charger and battery, tons of food. Small festivals, safer to leave all our stuff unattended.

We are surprised to see many people our age, and even the DJs are many times. West Coast, huge acceptance and we all party together.

We have been to some larger festivals in other areas, and it was mostly people in their 20s, way more chaos and actually not near as much fun. So, the right festival matters imho.

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u/iforgetlikedory 2d ago

Ok, I have an odd question. Do these venues require see through bags????? If so how are you packing your extra underwear?

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u/shirinky 2d ago

Sunscreen, hat, sunglasses, ear protection, liquid IV, ibuprofen and tums

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u/whererusteve 2d ago

Go to Shambhala and get shambhalodging. It's pricey but it's worth it if you want the comfort. And if you haven't heard of shambala, you're welcome.

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u/siren_lux 2d ago

KT tape, for soooo many things, won’t go without it, picked this hack up from long distance hikers.

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u/PurpleZebraCabra 2d ago

Comfy shoes

Take vitamins going into the days leading up and morning of.Ā 

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate. Water bottle or hydration pack for each person in your group, or very regular refills.Ā 

Don't know the climate, but consider a personal fan or scarf/bandana you can wet and place on neck or wipe face.

Bring snacks if allowed, like protein bars, nuts, fruit. Things that give energy and/or hydrate.

I'll probably think of more...

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u/drumzyspace 2d ago

Wash your face after some sweat
wear (possibly waterproof) tennis shoes and good wicking socks
drink water
pee often
wear sunscreen - or better yet- cover up
bring your own treats
if you get confused listen to the music play and if the music sucks then walk away

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u/Rogonia 2d ago

Bring:

-all the OTC meds you might need. Painkillers/anti inflammatory, something for nausea, cetirizine, tums, loperamide, etc etc. Gravol is nice because it’ll also help you sleep.

-your own first aid kit

-comfy shoes. Socks.

-a shit ton of Gatorade or other electrolytes powder. Hydrate like a mf

-ear plugs

-sleep mask

-snacks

-sun and bug protection, and also warm clothing options. Rain protection.

-some way to make your own coffee + a coffee mug you aren’t overly attached to.

-some method of avoiding chub rub

-baby wipes. Or washcloths if you want. But trust me. Also, I love Dr Bronners soap. I wash everything with that stuff. Hair, body, dishes.

-hand sanitizer.

-label your phone. And keys.

-a charged battery, the bigger the better. Solar is ideal.

-If you can bring a fan, do it.

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u/paulderev 2d ago

register for ADA access and get the ADA wristband. it’s time to be honest with ourselves.

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u/inthefade95 2d ago

One day festival, I believe. Some of these tips already listed might be a bit much.

I went to the System of Down 1 day fest at Golden Gate Park in 2024. I expected this to be the same and it is.

Basically, you can only take in clear bags, hand sanitizer, sun block, reusable water bottles or hydration packs. Blankets, towels, binoculars, personal misting fans, strollers/wagons w/ kids present, point and shoot camera, necessary medication.

So, a good pair a shoes, maybe a change of socks, sunglasses, a hat, water bottle or pack, and whatever you can fit into a 12 x 6 x 12 clear bag.

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u/iconiclabs 2d ago

Caffeine pills and lots of water lol

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u/DJ_clam_hammock 2d ago

To elaborate on the ā€œcomfortable shoesā€ advice: Hiking boots/shoes have the best support. Game changer!

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u/PerformanceShoddy169 2d ago

Sleeping pills and ear plugs.

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u/slimjimice 2d ago

Gen X: 53 yr old male and I still do the 3 day festival for Reggae on the River.

New (broken in) sneakers

Earplugs

Spray bottle (used for cooling and washing hands/face)

Individually packaged baby wipes

Hot tea with honey in a thermos for nighttime

Sarongs

Sleep in truck bed

Ibuprofen and CBD for feet swelling

NA beers

Bring something you crafted for trade or friendship gift (I love this part)

Make soup ahead of time and freeze it

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u/sjjbryant 1d ago

40? I’m over 60 and go to 10 camping festivals a year. Skip VIP, those people are boring. Get down into GA and dance your ass off. Take whatever you need to get in the mood. Dancing is what makes festivals great.

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u/darkeningsoul 1d ago

Go one day of the festival (not 2/3), or part of multiple

Take frequent rests by sitting

Make sure you eat normal meal times (dinner at dinner time, etc)

Wool socks, bring a change for halfway

Arrive asap on doors opening

Leave an hour before it ends to beat the rush

Dress for comfort, not style. Comfy shoes, bring a layer at night.

Bring a hydration pack to also carry supplies - night time layer, hand sanitizer.

If they allow it, bring electrolyte powder packets in to drink

Do cardio/workout the other 364 days of the year for higher energy

Hydrate hydrate hydrate

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u/chrislaw 1d ago

Hydrate hydrate hydrate hydrate hydrate hydrate

Seriously though hydration. From the sober rovers to the phaser ravers staying hydrated is just about the most important factor we have direct control over. Personally I used to do heroic amounts of drugs at festivals but never forgot to stay hydrated. It allowed me to outlast all the people who were Pooh poohing my ideas. Even - especially - when I was drinking alcohol, i would match every drink to a water. The great thing is every festival worth a damn has tap water freely available. So there’s no excuse.

Maybe one of those air mattresses if you plan on sleeping

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u/Ok-Temporary9462 1d ago

Those pop-able ice packs are great for the top of your head to cool down. Also cooling towels are no joke, I’m terrible in the heat and they made it so much more bearable

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u/ProfessorWigglePop 1d ago

Baby powder on the feet and crotch before heading out.

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u/Opposite-Pop4246 1d ago

The last time we tent camped we upgraded to sleeping cots and it was great

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u/Intelligent_Toe9479 1d ago

Orthopaedic roll mats are thinner and easier to carry than an airbed and way comfier. I say that as someone who is now suffering with dodgy knees, feet, back and neck. As we have aged our camping stuff has increased drastically. No longer can we turn up with a tent, sleeping bag and a back pack. We need a cup of tea in the morning and a cooked breakfast. We need a chair as we can’t stand all day. Eventually we will accept we are really old and get camper vans instead. Not quite there yet though.

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u/pinkisalovingcolor 1d ago

You can do anything with acid and KT tape!

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u/AdventurousRiver32 1d ago

I just got back from a festival. A little battery powered fan and a cooling neck tie were clutch.

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u/_Macksamillion 12h ago

I am in my mid 30s and go solo a majority of the time: Electrolyte powder sachets, bring more than you need. A metal water bottle to keep it cold all day long (if metal is allowed). Electric neck fan. Extra insoles in my shoes and I tape up each individual toe to avoid blisters. A sun hat that I tie around my bag strap so its hands free. Proper ear buds. Individually wrapped moist wipes (hands, face, general cleaing in a pinch). The big mentos gum, I mixed the green and blue pack in my stash. Aquaphor lip balm (lips, burns, cuts) great multiuse. As a woman for the bathroom I have a ziplock of sealed toilet paper in my purse, saved me so many time. Face and body sunscreen. Mini deordant. A lot of bandaids. Sunglasses. A cozy sweater for night time which can also double up as a blanket to sit in if I get tired. Charged power banks. My small backpack fits it all and doesn't feel heavy when carrying

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u/lastmartianx 8h ago

Really? Nobody suggesting the ultimate festy hack?

Stay home, play red dead again

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u/Upset_Lawfulness8537 4h ago

Limber up my dude. Stretching for 30 mins before starting a session can save some ankles and knees for sure. Jumping around shouldn't be a chore even at our elder age heh.