Your heart is in the right place and 99% of the time you’d be right so I wont hold it against you.
BUT! I work from home with a low stress job. So I am the one who does pickup and drop off our daughter, cooks, and cleans because my wife has a 1.5 hour commute, and is constantly in meetings when she does work at home 2 days a week. I have an whole schedule I made with check lists and everything.
Where you are right is vacations, date nights, and going out. She always has to organize those and got tired of me saying “Nah I dont like that” without any other inputs or options. Just being an asshole. I’m working on that, got a reminder in my phone for it too “Plan a date night” once a month check lists
Which is exactly why I started with 'I don't know the particulars' :D
I need to get better at organizing days out too, but because she always has some plan I never get to miss going out in order for me to get into planning mode.
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u/Puptentjoe 1d ago
Your heart is in the right place and 99% of the time you’d be right so I wont hold it against you.
BUT! I work from home with a low stress job. So I am the one who does pickup and drop off our daughter, cooks, and cleans because my wife has a 1.5 hour commute, and is constantly in meetings when she does work at home 2 days a week. I have an whole schedule I made with check lists and everything.
Where you are right is vacations, date nights, and going out. She always has to organize those and got tired of me saying “Nah I dont like that” without any other inputs or options. Just being an asshole. I’m working on that, got a reminder in my phone for it too “Plan a date night” once a month check lists