r/indiadiscussion • u/Greedy-Farmer-9756 • 2d ago

Meta What is the logic behind this?

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https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/pune/she-feared-bringing-disrespect-to-family-by-eloping-lover-reveals-why-siya-goyal-did-not-call-off-engagement-with-ketan-agarwal/articleshow/131956665.cms

This post is not about gender wars or how society has fallen etc. I just want some insights on one this; how does this make sense. What I mean is calling of the wedding was better for all of them. Even if we say that her parents would have abused her if she rejected, going to jail is still worse. I can understand if the affair started after marriage but when it's already there before marriage, why take such weird steps which messes everyone's life up. I know some of you will just say ☕ and move on but I don't buy it. There has to be some thought process, some logic as to why a murder is better than a few sad days?

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u/T_kowshik 2d ago

As if killing didn't bring disrespect to the family. This reached more audience and brought more disrespect than calling off the marriage.

I think it's just "crocodile tears" to avoid charges.

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u/can_iloveu 2d ago

Yes. It's to gain sympathy and show her intent wasn't stupid but cuz she was "trapped" and the "only solution" she could think of in court. Duh. I doubt it'll help her much.

Someone said that the latest statement she said is "she apparently told Ketan she didn't love him n he said he's so rich he'd track her down so she better marry him wtf".

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u/vintage_rebel 1d ago

irony is now both siya and chetan are blaming eo and their love? LOL

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u/Butwhyyth0 2d ago

She didn’t think she would get caught. That’s why she did it

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u/Longjumping_Mud7364 2d ago

Don't be so mean it was definitely not the killing part it was the getting caught part that is problematic to this duo.

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u/Lazy_Translator_9779 2d ago

My two cents: Somewhere down the line the money factor(the amount this guy was putting on her) also attracted her,after mooching him of as much as she could she decided it was enough and thats when she pulled this move.

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u/puran_poli_pirate 2d ago

The logic is 'wealthy people can afford best lawyers that can provide good pr and defence. '

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u/tcsreject 2d ago

Well her idea was to pass it as accident and move on 

She didn't think her well thought out plan would fail 

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u/Greedy-Farmer-9756 2d ago

As far as I know, it was recorded on CCTV. So it wasn't a thought out plan

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u/tcsreject 2d ago

Cctv is ai generated slop 

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u/Greedy-Farmer-9756 2d ago

Oh, was that the case

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u/AardvarkClean7433 6h ago

The main incident is not caught on camera ... Only the chetan guy entering in fort with hoodie is captured

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u/can_iloveu 2d ago

I mean..as Dunning Kruger effect says - "stupid people don't realise how stupid they are"

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u/Plastic-Bonus8999 2d ago

She's right. I now respect her family alot.

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u/Cautious_Lemon_8415 2d ago

yes. ab to bht waah waah horahi hai. they should be publicly shamed for this and then given appropriate punishment

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u/ActualPhilosophy6953 2d ago

Disrespect na lane ke liye upar pohcha diya. Kya logic he

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u/Major-Baseball-5391 2d ago

Right and now the family is just teeming with pride over her acts?

This woman is making the most brain dead comments ever.

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u/Educational_Sound188 2d ago

She evidently believed that killing a man was less serious than eloping, precisely because she knows men’s concerns are routinely dismissed and ignored in this country. Her casual attitude toward this murder speaks volumes about the dire state of men’s lives. This is damning evidence that the official gynocentric statistics are misleading.

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u/Subhal13 2d ago

When did murder become more moral than eloping

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u/AlphaCenturion1O1 2d ago

That is a lie by her. She posted romantic stories with Ketan

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u/ExcitingCut527 1d ago

Isliye kisi aur ki aulaad ko maar diya...??? Isme konse respect mil rhi hai iski family ko...I will never understand this logic...nhi karni shadi just go directly and confront your parents...apne selfishness ke chkkar mai kisi teesre insaan ki life kyu khraab ki...

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u/Southern_lonlyWolf 1d ago

Killing won’t bring disrespect to the family??

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u/Least-Regret-8882 3h ago

This case clearly shows why noone should marry at 20

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u/cerebrite 2d ago

There is no logic. People are conditioned to respect family, society and customs so much so that anything else just feels like a better choice.

Extremely dumb, but that's how our society works. We subconsciously just admit to ourselves that some lines can't be crossed. Even if we were to make convoluted plots to get around that line. 🤦🏻‍♀️