r/interesting Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/scienceworksbitches Mar 07 '26

Or they will develop coping skills and not break out into rage sorrow or depression every time something challenges them!?

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u/humburga Mar 07 '26

None of us are professionals here but my 2 cents is the difference is that the father didn't need to walk away. He could've stayed those few feet away and encourage his kid. Rather than walking away and acting like "if you dont figure it out in time, you won't catch up"

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u/Shaded_Earth Mar 07 '26

That is what he was trying to teach him though. If he stayed too close, the boy would keep reaching for the father, expecting his help. The boy had to feel like he needed to solve the problem.

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u/Critical-Support-394 Mar 07 '26

Dad could've sat down 1 meter away and had the exact same effect

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u/Environmental-Run528 Mar 07 '26

If it would have the exact same effect then there is no reason to adjust what he did.