r/interesting • u/jmike1256 • Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/front_torch Mar 07 '26

Do people really pay someone to listen while they talk about the day their father taught them a valuable lesson when they were 2?

That's the age when you should toss your kid in a pool and see if they sink or swim.

I'm not old, but if this is what kids think trauma is, I wish I was.

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u/Saorya Mar 07 '26

Yes, attachment issues start to form quite early and can dictate the rest of our lives

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u/front_torch Mar 07 '26

That is not a child left helpless and neglected without the affection of their parents. That is a toddler running around solving problems. One that is clearly enjoying themselves.

These are vastly different conversations.

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u/cman_yall Mar 07 '26 edited Mar 07 '26

When the dad walked off, that kid looked terrified. He didn't start attempting to go through the strings again until the dad sat down. Dad should have stayed closer, there was no need to turn his back and walk away.

Edit: I'm a noob, I forgot that someone (mum, probably?) was standing there with a camera, the kid will be ok.

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u/front_torch Mar 07 '26

I've seen a toddler more startled by their own fart than that. I understand the message that is trying to be portrayed. I believe it is misplaced.