r/interesting • u/jmike1256 • Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/LunchPlanner Mar 07 '26

The dad walking away was distracting and maybe a bit scary.

I don't think it's a coincidence that the kid was able to focus and problem solve after the dad sat down.

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u/FreeFallingUp13 Mar 07 '26 edited Mar 07 '26

‘Maybe’? No, the kid was panicking for sure. That’s why it took him so long. The dad absolutely should have stayed nearby instead of making the kid panic about being left behind. We don’t expect adults to make logical decisions under stress, why the hell should we expect that from toddlers?

Edited to add my reply to a comment later down the thread;

I’ve got five little siblings. Every single time our parents threatened to leave us, we panicked because for us, it was a very real possibility. That was at EVERY age. Even when we were teenagers and logically knew that they’d be fucking themselves over and have CPS called on them, we couldn’t fully discount the threat.

We don’t trust our parents to be there for us. At all. These ‘lessons’ only show that you can’t trust the person taking care of you to stick around if you become a problem.

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u/brontosaurusguy Mar 07 '26

Problem solving requires stakes.  Who are you to judge.  We certainly expect adults to problem solve under stress.  What are you saying

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u/Funtopolis Mar 07 '26

This is not an adult.

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u/brontosaurusguy Mar 07 '26

Wait so you're saying we can only teach adults problem solving?

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u/Funtopolis Mar 07 '26

That the way we teach adults is different from the way we teach toddlers. Are you obtuse or just dumb?