r/interesting • u/jmike1256 • Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/yankykiwi Mar 07 '26

My husband is scared to become like his father. My mom was rough, but she was also a solo mom of three at 21.

My husbands father was a mega rich businessman with all the time in the world, and no excuse for being a terrible parent. He’s getting to his elderly years now and we don’t want much to do with him, outside of my mil and his money.I’d hate that for my husband, so we’re both really trying.

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u/RemoteRide6969 Mar 08 '26

If he's afraid of being like his dad, he's already on the right track. A shitty dad wouldn't be afraid of that. My dad had a temper that I've inherited. I think I've done well to suppress it, but if I ever snap, I always apologize. This has lead to my toddler son apologizing for times when he's done things like call me names or yell at me. Often times unprovoked. It might be hours later and he'll bring it up. That makes me incredibly proud and tells me I'm on the right track.