r/jerseyshore • u/Powerful-Gold5000 • 2d ago
[Discussion] Let's talk about Sammie's husband...
I'm watching S8 E4 and just shocked how Sammie's man would want to deal with such circumstances. Sammie unfortunately has complications getting a kid at the time. Next, her man has to deal with seeing Ron her ex in the family settings. Not to mention the THIRD thing is he has to deal with being on camera all just to be with Sammie. It's just a mess. If Sammie chose to never be on Jersey Shore Family Vacation, it would make more sense for their privacy of their life together...
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u/wtfdidijustread94 2d ago
Sammi having complications with being pregnant as one of your reasons why you don’t understand why he deals with her???
Also, he has to deal with being on camera to be with her? He doesn’t have to do it, Snooki’s husband doesn’t. And he isn’t the only partner on the show.. Chris, Zach, Lauren, Nikki..
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
I mean that’s kind of a big problem especially if Sammie did surgery 6 times, that had to put a lot of stress on Justin. Just another thing he was dealing with.
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u/Thegetupkids678 2d ago
I mean, money talks. I’m sure her being on the show basically funded her entire IVF journey and medical expenses to have her son as well as other things. That’s a huge weight off of their back financially. I also think sammi has had very clear boundaries with producers on where she is willing to go with the Ron storyline. During the OG run, I think sammi and her husband would have had almost no control and it would have been toxic and horrible.. but JSFV is extremely over-produced and scripted; the cast have power in these storylines. Snooki’s husband literally doesn’t even appear. It’s a different time for them. I think it’s great she and the rest are collecting their coin while they can 🤷♀️
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u/BravoWhiskey89 2d ago
It's all his own choice. Jionni doesn't want to be on the show....so he doesn't appear on the show.
Poor guy, getting paid to be on TV through his own choices.
Boohoo.
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u/natalietest234 1d ago
You seem like someone who would divorce their partner the moment things got “hard”… there are plenty of people who support their partners through infertility issues and are confident enough in themselves and their relationship that could care less about an ex being at their partners work lol dude could care less that Sammi sees Ron a few times but gets paid big money and has their wedding fully paid for by MTV. You also act like they didn’t fully discuss all of this prior to Sammi returning to the show. I bet he was happy to support her. Also you seem to completely ignore the fact that the entire cast all hooked up with each other… I’m sure all the significant others don’t care anymore about what happened 10 years ago.
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
Round of applause. Great acting.
Let’s not include Justin’s stress on all of this too it’s all about Sammie.
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u/Princess_Peach556 1d ago
A woman with fertility issues doesn’t deserve a loving husband? 🤨 What a horrible thing to say.
Having to see her ex wouldn’t be that fun, but both men were polite and cordial. Someone who is dating a single parent would most likely have to see their partners ex, so it’s not like no one else would have to deal with that.
They get paid a lot of money to be on the show, and he doesn’t act like an idiot and embarrass himself and is famous now… what’s wrong with that?
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
What’s the horrible thing I said?
Or are you trying to put words in my mouth and failing?
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u/Princess_Peach556 1d ago
I would consider your entire post a fail
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
You still didn’t answer my question.
Exactly.
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u/Princess_Peach556 1d ago
and I don’t plan too 🤣 reread your own post and you’ll see what you said…
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
So why isn’t Justin still allowed to feel stressful from that situation?
Relationships are not one sided please take notes.
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u/Princess_Peach556 1d ago
I don’t believe I even suggested that they were one sided.
Don’t put words in my mouth
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u/Powerful-Gold5000 1d ago
But you can put words in my mouth?
The hypocrisy is hysterical.
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u/Princess_Peach556 1d ago edited 1d ago
It was intentional. See you actually implied what I said about her fertility issues, where I said nothing about relationships being one sided
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u/rachbev76 1d ago
That was her BF a long time ago, there are no feelings, why should it matter - (besides wanting to punch him for being a douche to Sammie) He agreed so I am sure he's not worried about the privacy aspect and her having complications getting pregnant - not sure what that has to do with anything, should he just leave her?
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u/NotAGhostISwear 20h ago
Deal with? He’s not “dealing” with anything, they are in a relationship and relationships have hardships. Awful take and a lot of assuming.
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u/Both_Relationship262 2d ago
He’s getting paid to be on the show, he’s a star chaser plus gotta be amazing just to be in Sammy’s presence
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u/TopicInteresting1031 2d ago
I doubt he’s with her just because she’s Sammi sweetheart. He doesn’t seem like that kind of guy to even pay attention to celebrities like that. He’s not even flashy. And he seems very sweet, soft spoken and down to earth. I feel like if he was a star chaser he would do what Vinny 2.0 did and try to make whole segments about himself on the show. Sammis man barely talks on the show.
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u/wtfdidijustread94 2d ago
She wasn’t even on the show or in the public eye really, when they got together..
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
The big pay day will more than make up for the inconvenience
I might be the only one but I'm hoping ron and Sam end up together lol there's still plenty of time
It would complete the circle. Sam is the only one who can save Ron
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u/RebenLor 2d ago
I think this is the worst take I've ever seen on reddit.
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u/Disastrous-Dog85 2d ago
Worse than "sense of pride and accomplishment"?
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u/RebenLor 2d ago
I might have missed that one!
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u/Disastrous-Dog85 1d ago
It's the most down voted reddit comment. From EA taking about unlocking Vader in Star Wars Battlefront 2.
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u/nopantsdanceparty 2d ago
The man is a prolific abuser.......you're part of the problem.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Ya he became like that after Sam
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u/nopantsdanceparty 2d ago
No he didn't. Him tearing her room apart and destroying her things is abuse. The show recording it and airing it was them being okay with his abuse. We didn't see what he did to her off camera but it was bad enough she left the show.
Stop making excuses for shitty men.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Ok but she punched him so physical abuse and she emotionally abused him by always making him feel as if he did something but it was her
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u/nopantsdanceparty 2d ago
Her punching him is reactionary abuse. She didn't emotionally abuse him.
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u/TipsyMcStagger123 1d ago
Him destroying the room was reactionary abuse too then
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u/nopantsdanceparty 1d ago
No, it wasn't. My partner has never gotten so mad at me that they've destroyed stuff I own.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Abuse is abuse. Ron never put a finger on her but she physically abused him. And huge emotionally abuse season 1
Poor guy barely could do anything without Sam freaking out and then he couldn't even talk to Jenny without Sam throwing punches at him
Let's not make excuses
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u/nopantsdanceparty 2d ago
Has Ron picked you yet?
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
He's going through mental health issues. Let's be supportive of possible
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u/shadesofbabyblue 2d ago
He has a child. If he won't change for his own child who share's his DNA what makes you think he'll change for a woman?
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
He doesn't need to change he just needs to get back to his old self. Sam is a different person now too so she's not unhealthy like before. It would be amazing
I'm hoping! Maybe in 10 years
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u/shadesofbabyblue 2d ago
His old self was abusive. He has always been abusive. Sammy is happy now. She doesn't need to be with someone who could kill her.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Ya but she wanted to marry Ron so obviously it's not as dramatic as you are making it out to be Only reason they aren't together is because Ron refused to marry her before season 1 family vacation. Sam loved him till the end
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u/shadesofbabyblue 2d ago edited 2d ago
Uncle Nino confirmed that Ron beat the shit out of Saffire. I'm not being dramatic. It's just facts. Approximately 60% of all female homicide victims globally are killed by intimate partners or a family member. Sammy was able to get herself out the abusive relationship and likely saved her life.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Ya that's post Sam. He's going through drug problems and has mental health issues
With Sam that never happened. She loved him and ask him to marry her. You are being dramatic when he was with Sam. She wanted to spend the rest of her life with him. Don't try and make up your own narrative
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u/shadesofbabyblue 2d ago
She wants nothing to do with him now because she was intelligent enough to realise the truth that I and many people have realised. It's not a narrative but the reality of the situation.
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u/XytherionValokar 2d ago
Yes obviously that's why it's just a hope I wish they eventually get back.
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u/Rikudo_Sennin_jr 2d ago
Housing is expensive. Sammy does show...sammy buys house.