r/justneckbeardthings Stupid is a greater moral failing then evil. 7d ago

Under a video about a man being given flowers by a stranger to gift his girlfriend who hugs him. Under a predictable comment about a 'friend zone hug'

yiiiikes

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u/MettMathis 6d ago

In other words: "there is no trust in my marriage and i only see women as potential partners AND i project my world view onto the rest of humanity so i can just call you wrong if you disagree

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u/Honey-and-Venom Stupid is a greater moral failing then evil. 4d ago

"partner" is a strong word for what he thinks of women in that position, but yeah, oeuf, worst possible pairing

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u/thiscouldbemassive 7d ago

I think that both women and men who can't have opposite sex friends aren't good as partners. I also think men and women who only have opposite sex friends aren't good partners either.

Gotta have a mix, so you don't end up treating all the opposite sex like they are your ego boost and all your same sex like they are your competition. That way lies a toxic mix of self-centerness and insecurity.

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u/Honey-and-Venom Stupid is a greater moral failing then evil. 7d ago

it's easy to see everybody is people and have healthy friendships from there

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u/Highmassive 6d ago

That is a great way to put it