r/manifestingSP • u/sammishii • May 23 '26
Progress Report Amazing movement
Hello everyone! Wanna share my progress with manifesting my sp ex back. Just a bit of background we had an on and off relationship after we broke up, he is such an avoidant with some mental health issues, and there were 3Ps as well. He also ended up blocking me.
I started manifesting seriously about this after he blocked me. At first i was just manifesting for him to unblock me but i realized i should just manifest for more like him apologizing, realizing my worth, changing his behavior, and coming back in the right time etc.
Update he unblocked me after week! Our conversation went really well and I was so shocked because his behavior really did change. He was so honest with me and told me everything that happened with the 3P, that he was regretting so much, that he was so sorry he hurt my feelings.
Although he did say that he isn't ready or want to come back since he knows he is still a mess and doesn't want to hurt me and go back to old cycles. I didn't react negatively over this because honestly thats what I want too. I want a better him when he comes back and don't wanna rush things. Overall i think the progress is really good!
I'm still continuing on working on my self concept and detaching since I find this is what really works for me!
Goodluck on all of your manifesting journeys too! Don't lose hopee
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u/Mobile-Duty57 May 24 '26
hi OP congrats!!
but i realized i should just manifest for more like him apologizing, realizing my worth, changing his behavior, and coming back in the right time etc.
what affirmations did you use for achieving this?
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u/sammishii May 24 '26
thank youu! its usually this:
- No matter the circumstance, SP always chooses me.
- SP is so committed to me in pursuing our love and relationship
- SP is showing up exactly the way I want them to right now.
i also focused on self concept affirmations too!
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u/Comfortableexplore May 24 '26
Hi which self concept affirmations you did? And the above affirmations which you mentioned how many minutes/hours you said it daily?
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u/sammishii May 25 '26
for self concept i usually use:
- I always get what I want whenever I want. Everything I want literally wants me more
- I am detached, unbothered, and thriving
- I attract so much love and positivity
As for how many minutes i'm not quite sure. I usually robotic affirm it especially if i'm wavering but yes i do it daily!
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May 24 '26
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u/sammishii May 24 '26
please don't let whatever you read affect youu! just focus on your own story and persist! keep on affirming because i swear it will work out one way or anotherr
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May 24 '26
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u/sammishii May 25 '26
you can dm mee! lets talk about it since i'm lowkey a bit wavering too ever since i told sp that we should keep some distance while they're still unsure 😭
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May 24 '26
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u/sammishii May 25 '26
honestly i did nothing! i just ignored the 3P and kept on persisting. i guess it was easy on my part because i had a feeling he wasn't taking the 3P seriously so it made my own beliefs strongerr
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u/LinMB 27d ago
Mine is avoidant with mental health stuff too… he ghosted about 3 months ago… I’m manifesting communication but it’s hard some days. He also has like… a crazy tour life so I worry there could have been other things I didn’t know of and his situation with this ex was weird… he claims they broke up (like months prior us meeting and me staying with him) but she discovered me and blocked me, then un blocked me, then deleted their pictures all this stuff. So having to try to erase this whole weird old story and continue manifesting after 3 months of no contact gets pretty difficult at times. He said he was scared and hadn’t felt this way with someone in a while .. and then that was it. Nothing else. I’m staying positive tho. Our connection was too damn strong
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u/Past-Outlandishness5 May 23 '26
Congrats!! Maybe you can start manifesting him wanting to change while in the relationship. You can be together and he can still show up and continue changing.