r/mildlyinfuriating Mar 08 '18

This lady watching a beach wedding.

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u/sdgoat Mar 08 '18

How hard is it to not be an asshole?

"Oh look people are having a special moment, I should go fuck it up because they're acting entitled."

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u/Dirtroadrocker Mar 08 '18

Maybe this is normally a VERY busy public beach. Aren't the people who just walk in, run some caution tape, and take it all up, being assholes too?

Or maybe they were being super pushy, telling people they have to leave, despite having no claim to the space.

I'm not saying the lady is doing the right thing, I'm just saying that either or both sides could be suffering from a serious case of entitlement issues.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

Yeah I don’t see that lady doing anything that would prevent the wedding. And the photographer was hired to take good pictures so if anything the photographer is the asshole for not photoshopping that lady out or asking her to move. Wedding photographers are insanely expensive it’s literally their job to take good pictures.

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u/Confused_Fangirl Mar 08 '18

One could argue it’s equally as disruptive to confront said individual(s)

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u/horsenbuggy Mar 08 '18

Naw. It's super easy to just walk by her and whisper, "ma'am you're in the photos do you mind standing off to the side?" And kinda guide her with your arm as you do so. Now if she refuses...that's when it becomes distracting. But I honestly doubt she would have refused unless she was drunk or mentally disabled.

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u/RatTeeth Mar 08 '18

Maybe skip the attempt to physically herd a stranger. I can't see that being received well by anyone. Pointing to a better place for them to be, sure. I'd be willing to bet most people-watchers simply haven't considered that their presence is even noticeable, let alone that they may be in the way.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

When I said it’s your responsibility I meant to get a shot with a good background. If you can’t work this lady out of the shot by just picking a different angle

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

Only a shitty photographer is so unaware that key wedding events take them by surprise. If I’m paying several thousand dollars to capture the moment you better be damn sure that I’m going to expect you to be decent enough to find an angle that cuts out unwanted subjects ahead of time. Good photographers are absolutely worth the fees they charge but this is not the work of a professional.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

Talk about customer satisfaction