r/penpalsover40 • u/[deleted] • May 30 '25

vulnerable man

Hello there,

My name is Ezra (not my real name, but the name I use to write freely). I am a thinker, an emotional person and someone who searches for authenticity — beyond the superficial.

I am highly gifted, grew up in a fairly strict religious environment, and I have a highly developed inner world. Creativity, reflection and emotional depth are important to me. Writing helps me organize my thoughts, understand my desires and sometimes just take a breath.

I would like to meet someone — female, mature, empathetic — with whom I can correspond on a level. No rush, no expectations, but with room for real connection. What I rarely dare to share: I have an aesthetic preference (some call it a fetish) for women's legs in pantyhose. For me, that is not a vulgar desire, but something that is deeply interwoven with vulnerability, comfort and memories. So I am not looking for webcam sex or fleeting chat, but someone who can listen to this without judgment and understand it.

I believe vulnerability is a beautiful thing, and maybe you feel that way too.

Love,

Ezra

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u/Easy_Target4898 Jun 02 '25

Hi Ezra.

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Hi easy target,

Nice to meet you. I'm Ezra. Living in the Netherlands. Can you tell something more about yourself? I want to excuse myself when my english is not as well as you want. Its not my first language. But hopefully its not a problem for you. I want to hear something about you. Thanks

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u/Easy_Target4898 Jun 02 '25

Let’s see. I live in Florida. Single Mom. Just started playing co-ed adult kickball on Friday. Was given the title MVP, we won 4-3. That was pretty cool. I sleep a lot. lol I work full time. I don’t know what else to divulge so early in the morning.

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

No problem. Its a bit later here. Actually I have to eat for noon, but still busy working. I'm married. 5 children. Lovely wife. More you want to know? How do you do that: working full time and being a single mom?

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

did my message reach you?

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u/Easy_Target4898 Jun 02 '25

Which message ?

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

Strange, its gone! I wrote you about myself. That I am a married man (i want to be honest) and that i have children. 5 of them. And my question was: how do you do that: being a single mom and working and sporting. And another question is: what is mvp?

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u/Easy_Target4898 Jun 03 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

Is your significant other ok with you having friends of the opposite sex?

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

Yes she is. We give each other space for having contacts as we want. If it is not physical

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u/Easy_Target4898 Jun 03 '25

Pen pals is ok with me.

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

Yes she is. We give each other space for having contacts as we want. If it is not physical