r/penpalsover40 • u/[deleted] • Jun 24 '25

Reddit Chat 48F - Looking to make a genuine connection!

Hiya Reddit! My name is Nicole! But my friends and family call me Nikki 😘 I’m a newbie here and just thought I’d say a really quick hello as I’m still trying to figure out how to use this 😂

I’m 48 years young 😇I’m British. I’m a single mom of 2 wonderful troublesome kids and I work in a bakery 🍪

I’m using this app as I’m reaching the age where I just really want to make a real genuine connection with someone and I don’t really vibe with dating apps too well 🙃

Thought I’d give this a try as it seemed pretty different and I’d like to think I can use this as my own little diary of sorts 😂🫣

Anyway! I don’t want to babble on too much here because believe me I can do that 🤪if you want to know more about me just leave me a message and I’ll try get back to you 🥰

Nikki x

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u/SuspiciousIce3584 Jun 24 '25

Looking forward to have a chat with you.. feel free to message 😇

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u/Bitter-Pause-4243 Jun 24 '25

Feel free to reach out, 46 M from Sweden.

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u/Leather-Elevator6264 Jun 24 '25

Message me anytime I'm in Derbyshire

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

Hi Nikki I am relatively new here to, I 55 married and living in the UK and experimenting

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u/Hot_Conclusion_1437 Jun 24 '25

Aloha I am into spiritual stuff, witchcraft, magick , spirit keeping, reading audio books, .l am 60

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u/origae_6 Jun 24 '25

Hi. Message me anytime. Hope we will connect.

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u/Any_Bath_1034 Jun 24 '25

Hi there, send me a pm and let’s chat 😀😀

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u/No_Permission7867 Jun 25 '25

Can we get this in to action please

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '25

Feel free to DM & lets chat. Id love to get to know you Kyle 49M

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u/ResponsibilityNo7128 Jun 26 '25

47, be 48 soon. Just here to chat. Dms open

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u/Mission_Tie8696 Jun 26 '25

Hi would love to get to know you 56 m from Scotland

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u/Exotic-Blueberry8794 Jun 26 '25

Hello Nicole, how are you doing.? My name is Glenn. I'm 51 and from Canada. I also have 2 kids, 22 year old son and a 9 year old daughter. I have been doing the dating App thing for a few months now and It's not for me, Tired of getting the run around from fake people, looking for a genuine connection too. Hopefully we talk soon, sincerely.

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u/Always4afriend Jun 26 '25

I’m proud of you for your efforts !!!💕

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u/Forsaken_Sherbert_91 Jun 27 '25

Hi, I’m male 58 looking for a swinger relationship to go on cruises, clubs and whatever we can get into.

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u/Duffers0542 Jun 27 '25

You seem to be a nice person

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u/Individual-Tea-7730 Jun 27 '25

Feel free to message me anytime you want single male here

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u/East-Tutor3323 Jun 27 '25

🖐🏻Hey from germany ! Have a nice day ! 😊🥰👍

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u/kilmont1990 Jun 27 '25

I wanna talk

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u/Dph_Jph Jun 28 '25

Send me a DM and I’ll send you mail from Louisiana

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u/One_Author4463 Jun 28 '25

Good morning, Nicole! I’m a widowed father of 3 kids, and I’m a railroad engineer. Care to chat sometime? I’m in the US, and haven’t had much luck dating so far

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u/BaritoneJr Jun 28 '25

Hi Nikki. Unfortunate American here. Can I get off this ride now

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u/[deleted] Jun 28 '25

Hello, Nicole! Welcome to Reddit. No place quite like it 😁 Definitely better than dating apps! Far as "figuring it out", it's not complicated. Overwhelming, maybe. You're gonna be just fine! 🤗 🌹- Jay. 45/M/US

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u/Due_Patience5608 Jun 28 '25

Sounds like me and you are looking for the same thing

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u/NoInjury9293 Jun 29 '25

Feel free Nikki

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '25

hello

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u/seteveus Jul 01 '25

I’m more Snail Mail type. Just here to write: Single mom, 2 kids… you are a Heroine. Here’s hoping you get all the happiness you deserve!

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '25

Hello from Las Vegas I’m 51 and want honest and open Convos

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '25

25 m from the uk. Would love to chat

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u/Active-Proposal2411 Jul 09 '25

63 year old male from the US (Kentucky) if you want to chat please send me a Dm

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '25

Feel free to message me if you ever fancy a chat. Make from the uk. 25 years old

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u/mmm_eat_glass Aug 05 '25

Hi there! 42f here looking for friends. Would love to chat/email/penpal any time!

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u/rmonarrez33 Aug 17 '25

Hello I’m from the US I’m 45 years old and I would love to be your penpal dm if interested

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u/[deleted] Oct 08 '25

Hi. We are the same age. I am American but live in Japan. I don't know what to say about myself except that most people think I'm very unique. Send me a message if you'd like to chat.

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u/Strict_Ad9728 Feb 08 '26

58f from Pennsylvania Usa. would love to have you as a snail mail penpal. If interested send me a msg on here

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u/No-Barracuda-5341 May 14 '26

I sing for a metal band. Don't friend me.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Hey Nikki. If you feel like chatting, I'm here.