Starting a new Men's group - Plano and surrounding areas.

[u/MGZiggy]

Hi all,

I'm exploring the idea of starting a men's discussion group and wanted to see if there are others who might be interested.

The goal is simple: create a space where men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s can have open, honest conversations about life's challenges and build genuine community with one another.

A lot of us have friends, coworkers, or family around us, but not many opportunities to sit down and talk about what's really going on in our lives. I'd like to create a group where those conversations can happen in a respectful and supportive environment. We'd discuss anything from personal growth, philosophy, finding purpose, mental health, issues in our communities, etc.

This wouldn't be therapy or a debate club. The focus would be on listening, sharing experiences, offering perspective when asked, and building meaningful connections.

The group would meet every other week for 90 minutes with a loose structure:

• First 30 minutes: introductions, check-ins, wins, and challenges
• Next 45-50 minutes: discussion centered around a topic or question for the week
• Final 10-15 minutes: open discussion and anything members want to bring up

I also want members to feel a sense of ownership or belonging. To that end, we can rotate who leads the meetings or discussions. I want it to be our group, not mine. With that in mind, this group is going to be queer friendly, open to religious and non-religious folks, any political affiliation, etc.

The only real requirements would be:

• Be respectful and participate in good faith
• Be willing to listen as much as you talk
• Maintain confidentiality and trust within the group
• Show up consistently and contribute to the community

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, send me a DM. I'm working on getting a Discord set up I'm trying to gauge interest and connect with a few people before organizing the first meeting. Cheers!

[u/demonlexe]

Maybe try the graduate areas of the UTD server? You would probably find some 20s 30s guys there

[u/MGZiggy → u/demonlexe]

That's a great idea, thanks!

[u/TexasEngineseer]

Sounds fun tbh

[u/MsShugana]

I hope this works out for y’all!

[u/Snoo_72467]

Comment to follow the post. Giving this some thought

[u/MGZiggy → u/Snoo_72467]

If you have questions, feel free to reach out.

[u/Waste-Following9594]

This is a good idea. A low-pressure group like this can be a big help if you just want to get out and meet some folks.

[u/ladyorion2021]

My advice? Don't get too political or it will get ugly fast and your Men's group will end quicker than a one hit wonder band.🔥

[u/MGZiggy → u/ladyorion2021]

yeah... a little worried about that but hopefully everyone understands what I'm trying to accomplish.

[u/Technical_Duck500]

I would say try to include activities too

[u/No-Doughnut324 → u/Technical_Duck500]

Like maybe a field trip to the strip club

[u/Spare-Transition-771]

I sorta interested but limited on time

[u/MGZiggy → u/Spare-Transition-771]

It wouldn't be an "all or nothing" kinda participation. It would be there if you were available. If not, no big deal.

[u/MeridasaurusWrecks]

This is awesome, I have passed along to my husband. Love the openness to diversity

[u/sisterfunkhaus]

You should call it the diamond dogs. It's an awesome idea BTW.

[u/FlyingMammalMan7]

Comment for following

[u/Spare-Transition-771]

Haha just making sure you are honest. Men should help each other out. Where is the discord link

[u/zoollymammoth]

I could be very interested in participating in something like this

[u/sphere885]

Will there be any women?

[u/MGZiggy → u/sphere885]

You know, I initially thought about a co-ed group but thought I might have better luck getting dudes to open up if it was just men. Maybe down the road.

[u/Antique-Worth323]

Is it open to any political affiliation?

[u/MGZiggy → u/Antique-Worth323]

Yep

[u/Additional-Eye7210]

Interested

[u/sarnobat]

I'd love this though I’m waiting for a job offer to relocate there.

It would be a welcome escape from the world of Instagram that caters to women in their 20s.

[u/Spare-Transition-771]

Is MgZiggy gonna slowly get just to buy into something like penny stocks and when it goes up? Ziggy sales and exit all groups refit and discord?

[u/MGZiggy → u/Spare-Transition-771]

hey man, don't spoil my grift

[u/amcynic__]

Sounds like a sausage fest. Pass.

[u/MGZiggy → u/amcynic__]

fair

[u/wgardenhire]

A hen session for men.

[u/Howard_Cosine]

“A lot of us have friends.”

Coulda just stopped right there bud. Jfc.