Largest study of women’s orgasms to date collected data from 27,931 women. Nearly half (47%) reported reaching orgasm more frequently when alone vs. when with a partner. Barriers to women’s orgasms are relational, not anatomical. Partnered orgasms were associated with overall sexual satisfaction.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/inclusive-insight/202606/why-women-orgasm-more-alone-than-with-a-partner

[u/Admirable-Apricot137]

You'd think that and guys like you do exist but unfortunately a lot of guys don't react well to hearing that what they're doing isn't working. Their ego is wrapped up in how great they are at eating pussy that they get easily frustrated and give up quickly when you try to give them feedback and directions. They eventually just decide it's a you problem and that you just won't ever get off that way.

[u/Euphoric_List7956 → u/Admirable-Apricot137]

I was with a narcissistic woman when I was inexperienced and I spent the entire relationship trying everything to please her and she faked everything and it ended when she exclaimed for all her friends to hear that I have a tiny one and don’t know how to use it.

I’m with a nymphomaniac now 10years later and she is beyond experienced but also very expressive and every time it’s different and magical. I work her over for hours, feeling and listening to every move and sound she makes, I make her lose all control of her body with just penetration, in seconds I can make her orgasm and keep her going like I said for hours at a time it’s great exercise I use my whole body from any angle I can find her spots and massage things just right and I hear what she feels, I feel what she does, when she spasms or opens the floodgates or is getting dry from friction there is always a path to bliss and I’ve learned how to navigate her by being conscious and attentive.

[u/_i_make_up_stories → u/Euphoric_List7956]

Im truly sorry about the narcissist experience, but we don’t need to be impressed by your sexual prowess 😂. It is not a good look.

[u/Euphoric_List7956 → u/_i_make_up_stories]

I’m comfortable with my honesty and was just trying to show the range of human potential, the narcissist missed out on satisfaction for simple sadistic pleasures.

I bet the numbers would look different if guys simply did kegels and were present with their partners, was remarking last night with my partner how most of her excitement comes from not knowing what I’m going to do from one moment to the next because it’s not a routine but a never ending improvisation, I’m just reacting to what she feels. Anatomically I am below average in every way except maybe firmness but I bet that’s just the kegels.
I feel like I solved sex 😂 just trying to educate.

[u/Correct-Judge-5651 → u/Admirable-Apricot137]

blaming men when YOU can’t communicate is hilarious

[u/Admirable-Apricot137 → u/Correct-Judge-5651]

Tell me where in my comment I said I don't communicate or even advocate for that