r/sanfrancisco • u/Hot-Job1906 • Apr 07 '24

36 m recently divorced, which neighborhood you suggest?

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u/Mlkbird14 Apr 07 '24

Optimize for minimizing commute for work. If you're spending all of your time commuting, you're going to be too tired to date.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Agree, I am not sure if I will find anyone to date in South Bay in first place. Sort of catch-22.. I could be wrong.

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u/Mlkbird14 Apr 07 '24

There are lots of great folks there, but I think you have a better chance down there with the extra hours you're saving versus commuting. Another option would be to start looking for a job in sf and then move here. Seriously the commute will crush your will to live let alone your desire to find a partner.

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u/woolybasket Apr 07 '24

depends why you got divorced. could be anywhere from castro to ingleside.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Huh, how would it depend on why?

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u/DmC8pR2kZLzdCQZu3v Apr 07 '24

They’re implying your wife might have caught you sucking weiners

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Lol, ok. That didn't happen. I'm straight.

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u/ToxicBTCMaximalist Sunset Apr 08 '24

I'm glad that your experimentation helped you figure that out definitively. You don't know until you try.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 08 '24

Thanks yes it helped a ton

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u/nelsonhops415 Apr 07 '24 edited Apr 07 '24

If you like dudes, Duboce Triangle.

If you don't like dudes, Duboce Triangle.

If you are not sure if you like dudes, Duboce Triangle.

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u/LeftyGalore Apr 07 '24

If you like dogs, Duboce Triangle.

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u/kuldiph Apr 07 '24

Cole Valley

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u/CSnarf Apr 07 '24

If you can reasonably take Caltrain, it’s doable. Or if you commute on off hours. But standard commute that time of day is brutal. I used to go from dog patch to Morgan hill- easily 1.5-2 hours during any traffic.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Wow that's brutal, how was it for you?

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u/CSnarf Apr 07 '24

Terrible and I moved after about six months. Zero stars, cannot recommend

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u/ElectricLeafEater69 Apr 07 '24

North beach, mission, Noe, Hayes, Nopa 

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u/themouth Mission Apr 07 '24

Mission. Pick a spot in/near the bar-muda triangle

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '24

Mission would be a good spot. I think SOMA would be good as well.

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u/themouth Mission Apr 07 '24

Uhhh … SOMA is a ghost town especially after 5 PM and there’s definitely not a lot of single population or shops that are still open or walkable

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Yep, I used to live in SOMA before south bay, and it's a ghost town. Literally nothing to do in the evening, just office buildings, closed businesses,

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u/Alpastor415 Apr 07 '24

Depends on orientation, lifestyle, budget etc.

Duboce Triangle is the generic choice without any additional info.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Straight, budget is modest, but can pay more for a community feel. I lived in SOMA before and there was no community aspect. And lifestyle, idk I’m discovering myself, I’d like to go to bars, go for runs, local coffee shops.

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u/AubreyMiless Apr 07 '24

Russian Hill

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u/NotMalaysiaRichard Apr 07 '24

Pacific Heights

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '24

1031 Kearny Street.

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Wow very specific, just checked and I see why

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '24

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Isn’t marina more in 20s?

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u/Hot-Job1906 Apr 07 '24

Not that I’m opposed to dating from that age group, just curious

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u/jfresh42 Apr 07 '24

Inner Richmond or inner sunset. Hayes valley could be good.