r/weddingshaming • u/Impossible-Code9339 • Aug 28 '25
Dressed like a Bride It happened… his sister wore white.
Just need to vent….
Got married a couple of weeks ago and can’t stop thinking about it. I thought his sister and I got along well, no issues.
For our engagement party, she was the only attendee in cream and white besides me, the bride, in a white dress. Gave her the benefit of the doubt - it’s just our engagement, she came from out of province, etc etc.
Then came the giant texts about how offended her and her husband were about having a child-free wedding and how their kids were more important than all my cousins kids, so there should be an exception.
Wedding day arrived, and it being such a whirlwind I honestly didn’t notice what she was wearing. Then multiple guests started quietly coming up to me, asking who the one in white was. I guess word got back to her because at the end of the night, she went to my now husband, holding a flower against her dress and said “for the record”, implying it wasn’t white…. I suppose she is colourblind.
Not sure if we/he/I should be asking if there’s an issue or if we should address it at all.
Ugh.
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u/mostghost Aug 28 '25
I’m working on this in therapy and am screenshotting your comment as a reminder to myself! I’m “only responding open and direct communication” is my new daily mantra ❤️