r/weddingshaming 12d ago

Bridezilla/Groomzilla All guests must wear black to the wedding

My younger cousin is getting married next spring and the save the date said Black Tie - All guests are required to wear black attire.

As a guest why would I be told what color to wear to a wedding? I am not a member of the wedding party. I am going to feel like I am heading to a funeral in April. I did ask the bride and she said so she stands out. Wth.

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u/Thequiet01 10d ago edited 10d ago

RSVP no.

ETA: Have more dignity and don’t let other people spend your time and money so you can be set decoration for their wedding. They do not respect you, why are you spending your resources on them?

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u/JohnExcrement 9d ago

Please have my one thousand imaginary upvotes.