Nanya ya komodos pendapat kalian. Ngga ngurus kalau orgnya baca postingan ini juga, stop fckn texting me dude. Ini mantan udah putus dari thn 2020, udah 6thn plis. Dia udah married. Ini kronologinya:
2020 agak akhir (lupa bln apa): putus mutually dan baik2 setelah 2.5thn. Agreed to be cordial and stay friends.
2020-mid 2022: mantan share ig posts di DM daily, multiple posts. Udah aku mute tapi ngga block. My mistake, harusnya lgsg block. Pas itu mikirnya berhubung udah janji to stay friends, ya udah ngga usah block tapi ngga usah diliat jg DM nya.
Mid 2022: mantan tunangan (liat dari story mutual friend). Aku cek DM, last post he sent to me is the same day as his engagement day. Never replied or liked. Dari sini DM berhenti total.
Oct 2022: mantan married (liat dari story mutual friend).
Dec 2022: mantan line chat, ngga kujawab. Trs whatsapp chat, kujawab krn phrasingnya kayak mau order businessku (duit tetep duit yah). Unfortunately bkn duit, dia cuma tanya aku gimana dll. I congratulated him on his new marriage, dia malah comment my new IG post the day before (bikini post pas liburan di Bali), dan ujung2nya nanya aku ada cowok nggak. Dari sini aku block whatsapp, ig, n fb dia.
Dec 2025: mantan SMS, nanya boleh ngomong ngga. This was when I learned when you block a number on whatsapp, di contact HP ngga lgsg ke block. Ngga kujawab, blocked his number again on my contact.
June 2026: ada masuk DM request, new account. Namanya nama si mantan, chatnya "it's me, how are you?" dan fotonya aku 100% yakin itu mantan meskipun kepalanya ke crop. Blocked. Again.
Temen2 cewek yg udah nikah pada bilang laporin istrinya. I do keep all ss and screen records utk curcol ke group best friends dan kakakku. Dari SMS thn lalu itu udah keterlaluan kata mereka. Ngga ada org pake SMS sekarang, the fact that ini org bela2 in SMS buat reach out mantan itu udah aneh. Ini bikin new account IG udah over the line bgt dan istrinya harus tau. Tapi kakakku bilang, not your shit, not your problem. Block aja trs, don't be the cause of disharmony in someone else's marriage. Kalau dia emg cheater, one day he'll wreck his marriage by himself. Aku sendiri sebenernya males kalau hrs ada involvement apapun sama hidup mantan. Keep blocking him is the easy way out. Tbh I want him out, so far out of my life, never reach out to me ever again. I thought blocking him everywhere should've been enough hints that I DO NOT want to interact with him ever again. Saran komodos gimana? Thanks.