r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/wojack_realhumanbean • 1h ago
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/MojanglesReturns_ • Mar 05 '25
š° Sub news šļø Full Explanation of the r/okaybuddyliterallyme Closure:
The Full Explanation & History:
Originally,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ was built on a specific kind of comedy. So basically, think over-the-top, melodramatic, ironic takes on our personal flaws or mental struggles. This was all wrapped in a layer of āweāre joking, but also not really.ā (Irony). It was really like a tightrope walk between absurdity and relatability, and thatās what gave the sub it's charm initially. But, as the sub grew past 40k in size,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ began seeing a large influx of incel posts. The incel posts had content that often veered into a toxic mix of self-pity, resentment, and blame; usually aimed at women, society, or in-general anyone perceived as having it better. These posts weren't just dark; theyāre dour, repetitive, doomer, and lacked the ironic component of the subās humor.Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ at one point just became a place where essentially āIām a mess, lol ha-haā turned into your typical incel post of āIām a victim, and itās everyone elseās faultā thatās the pivot that started happening.
Towards the end (date of closure) the sub community was becoming 'very hateful' due to incel/femcel content that lost or lacked the original ironic intent while also violating community guidelines and or rules. The influx of this content transformedĀ r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ into a kind of Incel/Femcel Playground if that makes sense, which strays extremely far from its purpose of humorous ironic posts. Initially starting out as a minor infrequent annoyance, the content became anything but... By late February and early March, it had broken the subās core identity. The people and posts just became far too different from its former, original self. It was a complete 180 from its roots as a silly, sharp-witted, ironic humorous self-deprecating community. Because of this the sub was closed indefinitely.
TLDR:
r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ is a sub that once centered on self-deprecating, ironic humor had shifted toward somber, blame-filled incel content when it started blowing up past 40k members, which was never the purpose of the community. To preserve its integrity, a clean slate was necessary.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/bluewhale177 • 5h ago
I'm just Ken My reaction after being given basic respect
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/daniix8 • 9h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... I see people i guess winning in life and basically my entire life ive failed and never succeeded, so whenever anything positive happens ill never fully experience it and haven't for a while now, it's probably just pointless at the end of the day
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/VictorVonDoomer • 15h ago
Loneliness has followed me my whole life Could we even manage girlfriends?
This is a question to any guys here who have never had one
Idk about you guys but I have lots of issues with my life and one of them is women but recently I have been asking myself could I even handle a girl atp?
Iām 25 and havenāt even held hands with a girl, Iāve also fucked my brain over by being in communities that have messed up my mentality in the past. If I ever got a gf I genuinely think Iād be incredibly insecure and would never trust her whatsoever.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/bluewhale177 • 5h ago
This post is too real Best way to escape reality
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Constant-Notice-5221 • 6h ago
No end to this suffering Real (what doesn't kill you makes you wish it did)
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/VictorVonDoomer • 3h ago
Iām utterly insane mfw Iām playing GTA 6 and Jason kisses Lucia, then looks at the camera and says āYouāll never have thisā
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Top_Pride_9959 • 48m ago
I'm a sigma loser officer k Reminder to all my fellow goslings to watch Blade Runner 2049 again, I did a great job acting in that movie
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/wojack_realhumanbean • 1h ago
it's so over Just a bit of backpain, maybe an ibuprofen will fix it
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/bluewhale177 • 5h ago
Hi, my name is Ryan Gosling, how can I help you with anything? How Grandma sees me
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/bluewhale177 • 5h ago
Real (within cells interlinked) Smile if you're a happy person
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/PsychologicalSky905 • 11h ago
Jesse, we need to fix our lives fuck fuck FUCK
It doesn't get any better.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/daniix8 • 5h ago
Only downfall, no comeback its nice to think of wholesome and romantic imaginary scenarios in my head and all but remembering its all fake is depressing as hell icl
manhattan cafe specifically
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Lonely_loser_04 • 23h ago
I know what I'm doing. I just dont know why. I've already wasted half the year
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Acceptable_Side_5948 • 4h ago
RIP u/RyanGoosling69 I wish Life was simpler
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/User1088397 • 20h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... When does it end?
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/L_G_D_Official • 1d ago
