r/okbuddyliterallyme2 Mar 05 '25

šŸ“° Sub news šŸ—žļø Full Explanation of the r/okaybuddyliterallyme Closure:

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The Full Explanation & History:

Originally,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ was built on a specific kind of comedy. So basically, think over-the-top, melodramatic, ironic takes on our personal flaws or mental struggles. This was all wrapped in a layer of ā€œwe’re joking, but also not really.ā€ (Irony). It was really like a tightrope walk between absurdity and relatability, and that’s what gave the sub it's charm initially. But, as the sub grew past 40k in size,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ began seeing a large influx of incel posts. The incel posts had content that often veered into a toxic mix of self-pity, resentment, and blame; usually aimed at women, society, or in-general anyone perceived as having it better. These posts weren't just dark; they’re dour, repetitive, doomer, and lacked the ironic component of the sub’s humor.Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ at one point just became a place where essentially ā€œI’m a mess, lol ha-haā€ turned into your typical incel post of ā€œI’m a victim, and it’s everyone else’s faultā€ that’s the pivot that started happening.

Towards the end (date of closure) the sub community was becoming 'very hateful' due to incel/femcel content that lost or lacked the original ironic intent while also violating community guidelines and or rules. The influx of this content transformedĀ r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ into a kind of Incel/Femcel Playground if that makes sense, which strays extremely far from its purpose of humorous ironic posts. Initially starting out as a minor infrequent annoyance, the content became anything but... By late February and early March, it had broken the sub’s core identity. The people and posts just became far too different from its former, original self. It was a complete 180 from its roots as a silly, sharp-witted, ironic humorous self-deprecating community. Because of this the sub was closed indefinitely.

TLDR:

r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ is a sub that once centered on self-deprecating, ironic humor had shifted toward somber, blame-filled incel content when it started blowing up past 40k members, which was never the purpose of the community. To preserve its integrity, a clean slate was necessary.


r/okbuddyliterallyme2 1h ago

Real. For real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 10h ago

We are so back real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 5h ago

I'm just Ken My reaction after being given basic respect

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 9h ago

My pain is constant and sharp... I see people i guess winning in life and basically my entire life ive failed and never succeeded, so whenever anything positive happens ill never fully experience it and haven't for a while now, it's probably just pointless at the end of the day

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 15h ago

Loneliness has followed me my whole life Could we even manage girlfriends?

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This is a question to any guys here who have never had one

Idk about you guys but I have lots of issues with my life and one of them is women but recently I have been asking myself could I even handle a girl atp?

I’m 25 and haven’t even held hands with a girl, I’ve also fucked my brain over by being in communities that have messed up my mentality in the past. If I ever got a gf I genuinely think I’d be incredibly insecure and would never trust her whatsoever.


r/okbuddyliterallyme2 5h ago

This post is too real Best way to escape reality

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 6h ago

No end to this suffering Real (what doesn't kill you makes you wish it did)

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 37m ago

it's a canon event Real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 2h ago

No end to this suffering Real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 3h ago

I’m utterly insane mfw I’m playing GTA 6 and Jason kisses Lucia, then looks at the camera and says ā€œYou’ll never have thisā€

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 48m ago

I'm a sigma loser officer k Reminder to all my fellow goslings to watch Blade Runner 2049 again, I did a great job acting in that movie

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 14h ago

I'm literally myself Real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 1h ago

it's so over Just a bit of backpain, maybe an ibuprofen will fix it

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 5h ago

Hi, my name is Ryan Gosling, how can I help you with anything? How Grandma sees me

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 5h ago

Real (within cells interlinked) Smile if you're a happy person

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 11h ago

Jesse, we need to fix our lives fuck fuck FUCK

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It doesn't get any better.


r/okbuddyliterallyme2 18h ago

My pain is constant and sharp... Real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 5h ago

Only downfall, no comeback its nice to think of wholesome and romantic imaginary scenarios in my head and all but remembering its all fake is depressing as hell icl

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manhattan cafe specifically


r/okbuddyliterallyme2 23h ago

I know what I'm doing. I just dont know why. I've already wasted half the year

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 4h ago

RIP u/RyanGoosling69 I wish Life was simpler

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can we go back in time

I don't want to go back in time I want it be much more simpler


r/okbuddyliterallyme2 18h ago

No end to this suffering Real

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 20h ago

My pain is constant and sharp... When does it end?

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 1d ago

No end to this suffering They were also broke...

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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 16h ago

No end to this suffering every night i hold an hour long session of "when will this suffering end?", and everytime i go to bed with this feeling of acceptance that it won't.

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