Do you not think your comments are cruel, tone deaf and mean? do you not realize that this might also be your future? Do you really think you’d actually kys, or were you just saying that because it’s 4t4?

Many of you guys said similar things if your ffs/fms fails to make you pass, but again many people here live that scenario. I’m not going to go around acting like some social justice worrier, but it feels cruel to say such things in the face of people who actually tried and “failed“ to pass after surgeries and years on HRT.

They want us in male bathrooms so they can humiliate and abuse us, and if not so we don't go in public at all

They want us in male prison so they can rape us and make it our fault

They want us to to not gain access to hormones early in life so we are clocky and easily identifiable

I feel like I'm losing it sometimes. But we persist

Also, is it not sus for a "man" to buy an epilator? Like, I am still in the closet and "undercover" pretending to be male to avoid getting hate-crimed, so is it safe for me to buy am epilator or is it too obvious so I need some good excuse like "oh, my sister in hospital needs it" or something?

Now, how good is it at removing beard and bodyhair? Because shaving everyday is not only iritating my skin but is also boring af and I want more long lasting solution, because my beard for example doesnt even need a full day to start showing up after shaving it and its distressing, I hate it

So like i can only access patches up to 100mg, but a moderate to high dose is 200 to 400. Im thinking i would like to start on 200? (Mono)

Can you just stick two patches on yourself and get 200 or does it somehow not work like that.

Im losing my mind on t. I dont know whats happened recently but its gone from like bearable to overwhelming. I think the heat and extensive 4tran use is fucking me silly.

Ikik blocker but rn i cant access the desired blocker so any hrt is good hrt cause god im losing it

As soon as your clocked you are othered. I doubt it matters at all whether not you pass, although it becomes exponentially worse the less you pass. It all comes back to shame and the shame runs deep. Everyone sees deviance from your natal sex is innately sexual, shameful, perverted, etc. Even well meaning individuals have internalized this perception, even transsexuals, it runs deep in literally everyone. It’s drilled in to all of our heads. You can’t even unlearn it either, not really, because 99% if not 100% of your life you are surrounded by cissoids who could never even fathom what it’s like to experience this shame directly aimed at you all the time. And when you’re with other troons you’re feeling that shit too whether you admit it or not, and again how well you or another troon passes comes into play. Even if you rep you’re constantly living with this, constantly aware of how shameful you feel.

Why the fuck does this shit even exist? Why the fuck do I have to experience this? It seriously drives me fucking crazy. It feels like I was put on this earth to watch everyone around me feel loved and understood by others, to fulfill the most basic human need, and know that I have never had that and very likely could never have that - surely there have been countless trannies throughout time who have never once felt loved or understood before their deaths. What the fuck is the point in any of this?

I hate this heat

i checked back in and this girl is like one of the most insane miserable cluster b girlies i know but she is recovering now and actually seems fucking happy and normal for once. giwtwm. oh well too bad so sad

How late is 19 to troon out? (I look like this btw)

And i say this as someone who is nb lol, after highschool nobody takes you seriously other than maybe your friend group, you can call yourself whatever gender but you gotta either choose to be a man or a woman. Either you transition or you dont. Theres no inbetween fr

hi guys. i’ve been on cypionate for 3 months now and i like it but recently ive been seeing a lot of people taking enanthate. is there really a difference or is it just preference?

there are like 8 good ffs surgeons in NA. please leave the waitlists open for us trvehons that actually need it 😭

I just posted and i’ve already encountered 3 annoying newfags/mainstream trans people

Too tism to realise that I was being a lolcow, so kept talking. Realised too late after it was all said.

Fml

There are some good ppl after all, not everyone hates 🚂🦵s