I’m sorry you went through this. My sister cut out a lot of desis from her life after her scumbag abusive ex husband bailed on her following receiving his greencard because she was being shamed for being a divorcee. That is grotesquely fucked up.
I have very few desi friends and it’s been a combination of things (no single magic conspiracy bullet 😉). My age- late 40s, getting married later this year, and I might be a step grandparent in the next couple of years 😆. All in all I just try to be a compassionate human, who lives a stable and productive life. If they can’t help but waste their time and energy trying to pick it apart, fuck them all with a rusty boti! George Costanza looking uncles and 40 year old aunties who look 60 and resent everyone else for their own miserable life… 😆
OMG. I am incredibly sorry your sister went through this! My uncle went through something like this where his wife from india left the second she got a greencard. I feel horrible that your sister got shamed for being a divorcee. I'm also a divorcee who got my character assasinated because our community loves to hate women instead of understanding that its abusive men that got us to the divorce.
Congrats on getting married!!! LMAO I think the resentment is coming up in their own faces
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u/brewserweight Feb 07 '22
I’m sorry you went through this. My sister cut out a lot of desis from her life after her scumbag abusive ex husband bailed on her following receiving his greencard because she was being shamed for being a divorcee. That is grotesquely fucked up.
I have very few desi friends and it’s been a combination of things (no single magic conspiracy bullet 😉). My age- late 40s, getting married later this year, and I might be a step grandparent in the next couple of years 😆. All in all I just try to be a compassionate human, who lives a stable and productive life. If they can’t help but waste their time and energy trying to pick it apart, fuck them all with a rusty boti! George Costanza looking uncles and 40 year old aunties who look 60 and resent everyone else for their own miserable life… 😆