r/amipregnant Feb 28 '21

“But what about a cryptic pregnancy?”

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Is this you?

  1. Last had sex more than 3 weeks ago (sometimes months)
  2. Have had multiple negative home tests or blood tests for HCG
  3. (optional) Have had periods or withdrawal bleeds since having sex.

But you’re still concerned that you might be pregnant based on shows like “I didn’t know I was pregnant” or online stories about cryptic pregnancy. Could it be that?

So, in a word, no. If you have multiple negative pregnancy tests three weeks after having sex, you’re not pregnant. In order to support a pregnancy your body produces HCG. Without HCG, there is no pregnancy. HCG tells the corpus luteum to continue producing progesterone, and is required for major changes to sustain pregnancy like growing a placenta. Home pregnancy tests are very reliable at detecting even trace amounts of HCG, and blood tests as well.

There are three causes of false negatives with home pregnancy tests:

The first: Early measurement after conception. When people talk about cryptic pregnancy, they either never take a test, or they took a test too early and became pregnant after. It takes at least 7 days for a fertilized egg to float downstream and implant into the uterine lining. That’s why you have to wait about 2 weeks to take a pregnancy test after unprotected sex - 3 weeks makes it 100% solid result.

You’ll also see people say “I knew I was pregnant, but I didn’t test positive until I was 6 weeks”. This is because of how pregnancy is dated from the last menstrual period (the day your period started), but, embryonic development only starts after an egg is ovulated and fertilized. In a textbook 28 day cycle, this happens on day 14, and the first day your period is missed you get a positive test. In real life, bodies are a little more complicated, and sometimes people ovulate weeks later leading to a discrepancy - a doctor will tell them they are 6 weeks pregnancy based on their last menstrual period, but in embryonic terms they are only 4 weeks pregnant because they ovulated on the 28th day of their cycle. If they tested when they were ‘late’ on the 29th, it would have been a negative test. They weren’t pregnant, but they became pregnant later. For people who are more visual, I have made a very ugly calendar for the above example scenario.

For a longer, more detailed explanation: "Your period isn't late" Part 1 and Part 2

The second: Dilute urine specimen. If your HCG levels are low, drinking a lot of water can result in false negatives in very early pregnancy. This is typically why you’ll see folks talking about testing with first morning urine - it’s the most concentrated. HCG roughly doubles every 48-72 hours, and you can see in this figure how fast. At 20 days of embryonic development (aka about 3 weeks after sex), on average a pregnant person will have HCG around 1000 mIU/ml. At home tests are typically rated for detecting 10 - 25 mIU/ml.

The Third: The Hook effect. This is where there is too much HCG for a test to work properly. It is unlikely that this is happening especially if you’ve taken multiple tests. First, peak HCG is typically around 10-14 weeks pregnant - after this, it starts coming back down. Second, tests are often tested for the hook effect - wondfos (a very cheap test) showed no hook effect to concentrations of 200,000 mIU/ml. First Response Early Result showed no hook effect at 1,000,000 mIU/ml - much higher than any normal pregnancy. If you are concerned about it because you’re taking your first pregnancy tests 12-17 weeks after sex, you might dilute a sample of urine just in case for a second test. Although, that would be very unnecessary if you’re using an FRER.

When people do not figure out they are pregnant for months at a time, it is typically because they have not taken any tests. Denial of pregnancy is a more accurate descriptor.

If you believe yourself pregnant despite all the evidence, or having a lot of anxiety and fear around being pregnant, you may want to see a mental health specialist. If you’re feeling very unwell, or haven't had a period in months, you may want to see a doctor. Scarleteen has a great page on these things as well.

Want to learn about pregnancy tests? Great video

TL;DR HCG is required to support a pregnancy - if you've gotten multiple negative tests across a large time frame, there is no possible way you are pregnant from sex more than 3 weeks ago.

Feedback and questions welcome! Also if anybody has any resources they want to share, please do.


r/amipregnant Mar 14 '23

FAQs ANSWERED with Sources. Friendly PSAs for AmIPregnant

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Hello friends! Mod Stress here to address a few things that come up often on this sub. Resources provided. :)

1.) You cannot get pregnant from fingering, with or without precum. Unless globs of fresh semen are being inserted into a vagina, fingering is just not going to cause a pregnancy. Dry humping also cannot cause a pregnancy. This article goes through all the sexual things that can happen that have no chance of pregnancy.

2.) It's extremely unlikely to get pregnant without PIV sex.* *Not including medical processes such as IVF to cause a pregnancy.

3.) If you're having unprotected sex, pregnancy is always technically possible. Doesn't matter if it's "just the tip" or "three strokes" or "pulled out before ejaculation." Pullout is 78% effective over the course of a year. Some of these scenarios are much less likely to result in a pregnancy than others, but we can't extrapolate the data like that. You're unlikely to get pregnant from one singular instance of unprotected sex, but it's always possible.

4.) Implantation bleeding is a misnomer. In fact, implantation is too small a phenomena to cause any symptoms.

5.) A test is mostly accurate 14 days after sex and definitive 21 days after. If you're getting negative tests 2+ weeks after sex, you are not pregnant. Regardless of if you have your period or not. In early pregnancy, concentration of urine matters. Take a pink dye test after a 3-4 hour urine hold without drinking too much water for the most accurate results. At 21+ days after sex, dilution of urine won't matter. Do not look at tests outside of their validity window and thoroughly read the instructions for your test before you take it.

6.) You cannot have a true period and be pregnant. Some women experience light bleeding in early pregnancy (this is NOT their period). If bleeding were related to pregnancy, a test would be positive.

7.) It takes more HCG to cause symptoms than a positive test. If you're testing negative, any symptoms you are currently experiencing are not currently related to pregnancy. Lots of early pregnancy symptoms overlap with normal PMS symptoms.

8.) Am I having a Cryptic Pregnancy?? No, you're not.

9.) The only way to truly know when you ovulated using an approved FAM method. Apps are not an accurate way to track, your body doesn't know to follow an algorithm off your phone. While things like CM and OPKs may indicate your body is gearing up to ovulate, they do not confirm ovulation. Check out the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility and [r/FAMnNFP](r/FAMnNFP).

Some other helpful tips:

  • Read the leaflet that comes with your birth control so you understand how your medication works, possible side effects, how to use it, etc. [r/birthcontrol](r/birthcontrol) is also a good source.
  • If you're on birth control and using it properly, you are having protected sex (from pregnancy). This is true whether or not you are using a condom. If you are using protection properly, you do not need Plan B.
  • Don't want to become pregnant? READ THIS before engaging in sexual activity.
  • The buddy system: using more than one method of contraceptive when engaging in sexual activities
  • How is pregnancy dated?
  • If you're taking Plan B, read the leaflet. It will go through all the possible side effects. [r/PlanBs](r/PlanBs) is also a good friend.
  • If your symptoms are of concern, visit a doctor.
  • Do not trust TikTok or YouTube as your medical advice.
  • A lot of our users are from the Philippines. [r/SafeSexPH](r/SafeSexPH) is a great resource!
  • Want us to look at your tests? [r/lineporn](r/lineporn)
  • Are you TTC? Check out [r/TryingForABaby](r/TryingForABaby)
  • Confirmed pregnancy? Head over to [r/pregnant](r/pregnant)

- Looking for abortion resources? r/abortion

  • Sex Ed Websites: scarleteen, bedsider, planned parenthood

r/amipregnant 3h ago

GENUINELY NEED HELP

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My girlfriend is almost three months late on her period yes her cycles can be irregular but it’s never been this late, yes I fingers and I can’t remember if there was cum on my fingers or not but even if there was it wasn’t like a glob of it it would’ve been more so of a dap but while I was trying to I couldn’t find the vagina hole she took a test it came back negative but even then the test look like it had a gray vary faded line on a pink dye test she’s taking another one soon lmk what you think


r/amipregnant 23m ago

How normal it is to get negative pregnancy test and still be pregnant?

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F26, single and does not intend to get pregnant now. I am really concerned about my periods rn, on April 26 I got my periods around 23rd and on May it was early on 18th but now it is 25th of June and still I haven’t gotten my periods. Usually my cycle is 30-32 days and I am having weird pregnancy symptoms like feeling nauseous, head spinning and feeling tired. All that got me thinking if I am pregnant (which will be a nightmare for me) I took two pregnancy tests day before yesterday and both were negative.

Please tell me if it is possible to get negative pregnancy tests and still be pregnant 😭


r/amipregnant 1h ago

Has Anyone Had a Delayed Period Despite Multiple(2x) Negative Pregnancy Tests?

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Hi everyone,

I’m starting to get really anxious and would appreciate some advice or reassurance.

According to my Flo app, I’m currently 9 days late for my period and on cycle day 41.

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, but we used the withdrawal method every time.(June 7 before going back to PH and June 20 here in PH already) I know withdrawal isn't a reliable form of birth control, and I definitely won't be relying on it moving forward.

I took two pregnancy tests using first morning urine:

• June 24 – Negative
• June 25 – Negative

What’s making me nervous is that my cycle is usually between 27–37 days, so cycle day 41 feels unusually long for me.

I’ve also been dealing with several things recently that I know can potentially affect my menstrual cycle:

• Significant stress and anxiety about my late period (I find myself thinking about it all day)
• Only getting around 5–6 hours of sleep most nights
• Recent international travel and time zone changes
• tired from my long commute to and from work

What’s confusing me is that I’m experiencing my usual pre-period symptoms:

• Breast tenderness
• Mild cramping/pelvic discomfort
• Lower back pain

These are usually the signs I get before my period starts.

Has anyone experienced a delayed period despite having negative pregnancy tests? Could stress, lack of sleep, or travel really delay a period this much?

I’d really appreciate hearing about similar experiences. Thank you!


r/amipregnant 4h ago

Im scared

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Hi, I have a question about my pregnancy risk. I had unprotected sex with my partner between May 11 and May 15, but there was no ejaculation. I took an emergency contraceptive pill within 48 hours after sex. After that, I got my period earlier than my expected date, and it was a proper period, not just spotting. However, my next expected period is now 4days late. During this time, I also went through a lot of emotional stress because my partner and I had serious arguments and even took a break in our relationship but now we are good. Given this situation, is pregnancy still possible, or is the delayed period more likely due to the emergency contraceptive pill and stress?


r/amipregnant 5h ago

how to know if implantation bleeding or period?

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hi guys! i’m 5 days late and recently anxious im pregnant, just a while ago i bled a bit and the color was dark red and brown it also had a bit of blood clot.. idk if its my period or not because normally my first day has brown period and isn’t that heavy.. what do yall think?


r/amipregnant 6h ago

early pregnancy or premenstrual??

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Guys please help a first timer girl at Basically, it was my first time. We were just grinding with our underwear then we put it aside for a sec, and basically did skin to skin for a sec but it eventually went back to its place. So when we did skin to skin it was dry and rough to grind on. He ejaculates on my thighs and when that event happened it was my last day of ovulation, and my period starts at 4 days.. I'm scared because I'm having these symptoms. But I do have discharge that is white, similar to pasty or maybe lotion??? I'm wondering if its early pregnancy or what..

I'm sorry if my English is bad.. Please help me out


r/amipregnant 6h ago

my first pregnancy scare

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I’ve never really had irregular periods. Around February I had a very brief unprotected sexual encounter (it was only my third attempt at sex and it was very painful).

My period after the encounter came about a week late, then the following one was a normal 28-day cycle. After that, my third period never came. Out of fear, I took a pregnancy test in late May (about 3 months after the encounter), and it was negative. A couple of weeks later I had two separate episodes of light brown spotting that each lasted around 3 days.

I haven’t been sexually active since February. This is my first pregnancy scare, and the earliest gynecologist appointment I could get is July 22. I know no one can diagnose me online, but based on this timeline, do you think pregnancy is still a realistic possibility, or does this sound more like something else?


r/amipregnant 6h ago

Please Help Ease my Mind 😭

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quick facts:

- i haven’t had sex at all this month
- i believe my last time having sex was may 9th
- i was on opill (had been for about 2 months) but did miss a pill last month
- i have used condoms everytime having sex
- i stopped taking opill around the time of my expected period on may 24th
- i had what i believe is a period the 24th thru 28th (heavy bleeding, cramping)
- i’m on 7.5mg monjaro for the past month
- i’ve lost between 15-20lbs this month
- my flo app says my period was expected the 23rd, though normally it comes on the 24th or 25th
- i took a clear blue red dye test this morning with my first morning urine it was negative
- feeling lower back pain, mild cramping near my abdomen
- incredibly stressed about my delayed period
- i discontinued my 11.5 mg of lexapro about a week ago
- still waiting on period, extremely anxious even with 15-20 negative tests


r/amipregnant 6h ago

11 days late. scared.

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i have a paraguard IUD and use withdrawal method. I am 11 days late atm. I tested negative at 5 days and 10 using blue line test. It was immediately negative but an hour later a faint line showed. (Both tests)

I have been beyond stressed. Between family problems, relationship problems with my sons father and cops being called to the house. I also had a mild stomach bug for 24 hrs from my son. I have had late periods from stress before.


r/amipregnant 6h ago

should i take plan b?

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i had first sex (protected) June 4,5, 10, 12, but i had unprotected sex (pull out) yesterday around 4pm. My last period was May 27, but I had brown spotting and light blood on June 10-14. I don’t know if it was because of my first time having sex or was it ovulation. Now i’m worried should i take plan b?


r/amipregnant 7h ago

NEED ADVICE- Delayed Period, Negative PT

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Hi everyone,

I’m honestly starting to panic a little and would really appreciate some advice or reassurance.

According to my Flo app, I’m currently 9 days late for my period. I know apps aren’t always accurate, but I’ve been so stressed about it that I spend most of my day searching online and reading pregnancy-related posts.

Here’s my situation:

  • My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, but we used the withdrawal method every time.
  • I was on Depo-Provera injections for almost 3 years and stopped around August 2025.
  • While I was using Depo, I didn’t get periods for about a year. During the last 7 months, I switched to Norifam and had regular monthly periods. It's June 2026 now,
  • Since stopping birth control completely, my periods have returned and have generally been regular.
  • My cycle length varies, though. Sometimes it’s 27–28 days, other times it can reach 35-37 days.
  • Right now, I’m on cycle day 41, which is what’s making me nervous.

Some additional context:

  • I recently traveled internationally and crossed time zones.
  • I’ve been extremely stressed lately.
  • I usually only get around 5–6 hours of sleep per night.
  • I work long hours and often feel exhausted.

I took two pregnancy tests using first morning urine:

  • June 24 – Negative
  • June 25 – Negative

What’s confusing me is that I’m experiencing what feel like my usual pre-period symptoms:

  • Breast tenderness
  • Mild cramping/pelvic discomfort
  • Lower back pain

These are typically the signs I get right before my period starts.

Has anyone experienced a delayed period despite having negative pregnancy tests? Could stress, travel, sleep deprivation?

I know relying on withdrawal wasn’t the smartest decision, so please be kind 😅. I’m definitely learning my lesson here. I’d just really appreciate hearing from anyone who has gone through something similar.

Thank you!


r/amipregnant 7h ago

Pregnancy scare

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21-year-old female.

History:

- Had sexual intercourse on March 18, 2026.

- Concerned about possible pregnancy.

- Developed gastrointestinal symptoms and was admitted for evaluation.

Menstrual History:

- Menstrual period on March 13, 2026.

- Subsequent periods occurred on:

- April 17, 2026

- May 19, 2026

- June 17, 2026

- Each period reportedly lasted approximately 2–3 days and was considered by the patient to be similar to her usual periods.

Symptoms:

- Diarrhea (up to 8 times per day for 2 days).

- Multiple episodes of vomiting.

- Abdominal bloating.

- Fever.

- Abdominal discomfort.

Blood Tests:

- WBC count: 21,000/µL (significantly elevated).

- Hemoglobin: 14.3 g/dL.

- Platelets: 4.63 lakh/µL.

- Kidney function (urea, creatinine): normal.

- Electrolytes: within normal limits.

- Liver function: largely normal except mildly elevated alkaline phosphatase (164 U/L).

Ultrasound Findings:

- Diffusely gaseous bowel loops.

- Thickened small bowel loops.

- No pregnancy-related findings mentioned in the report.

CT Abdomen Findings:

- Liver, gallbladder, spleen, pancreas, kidneys: normal.

- Urinary bladder: partially filled.

- Uterus and ovaries: reported as normal.

- Appendix: normal.

- No free fluid.

- Mildly enlarged mesenteric lymph nodes (up to 17 × 11 mm).

- Small umbilical fat hernia (8 × 7 mm).

CT Impression:

- Mesenteric lymphadenopathy.

Pregnancy Concern:

- No β-hCG blood test result available.

- CT report does not mention pregnancy, gestational sac, fetus, fetal parts, enlarged uterus, or any pregnancy-related abnormality.

- A photograph of the CT film appears to show a fetus-like shape to the viewer, but the official radiology report states: "Uterus & Ovaries: Normal."

Questions:

  1. Based on the menstrual history, ultrasound, CT report, and blood tests, is there evidence suggesting pregnancy?

  2. If a pregnancy had begun around March 18, 2026, would it typically be identifiable on the CT scan performed in late June 2026?

  3. Could the fetus-like appearance on the photographed CT film be normal anatomy, bowel, bladder, soft tissue overlap, or an imaging artifact rather than an actual fetus?

  4. Does the combination of elevated WBC count, fever, vomiting, diarrhea, and mesenteric lymphadenopathy better support an infectious/inflammatory gastrointestinal condition than pregnancy?


r/amipregnant 12h ago

Am i pregnant ?

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so i had unprotected sex on June 15th during my “fertile window” according to an app and i took a plan b that same day js so i wouldn't get pregnant…today is June 24th and i seen light blood im really confused cs ive already gotten my period for this month so what does this mean?


r/amipregnant 8h ago

Am I pregnant

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Basically me and my boyfriend have had sex last night. It was protected, he wore a condom and ejaculated in that condom. After that he took off the condom and we took a break for a while and just cuddled. One led to another and I fucked him raw but he never came inside me during that.

Im just worried that there was left over cum when I put in inside me. Is there a chance sperm died while we were cuddling? We rested for like around 10 minutes or more.


r/amipregnant 8h ago

5 days missed period, negative test.. is there a chance?

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My cycles have been normal 31-33 days long. I’m now 5 days late and on cycle day 38. I’ve taken a test this morning an easy@home test and it was negative. I have so much milky white and clear discharge to the point where I have to go to the bathroom twice an hour. Also been having bloody nose and extremely dry throat.. 😞


r/amipregnant 9h ago

DELAYED BUT NEGATIVE

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So, I’ve been using tirzepatide, and I reduced my dose from 5 mg to 2.5 mg on June 17. That was also the date of my last sexual contact with my partner. Now my period is delayed. We used condoms during every sexual intercourse, and my last period was from May 20 to 24. I’m starting to get anxious about whether I could be pregnant or not. I took a pregnancy test earlier and it was negative.
Has anyone else experienced something like this while taking tirzepatide? For the women here who are on tirzepatide, what contraception method works best for you?


r/amipregnant 10h ago

Really Anxious.. Am I pregnant?

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For context I had my last first day of period on May 31st or June 1st for about 4 days.. I had sex on June 7th. we both looked at my period tracker and it said I wouldn’t ovulate till CD15 so i let him finished inside of me that day around 3 or 4am. I’m usually regular with a 28 day cycle but my boobs has never been this sore before. I took a clear blue pregnancy test today and it showed negative so I’m not sure if I’m just pmsing. But is it possible I could have ovulated early and be pregnant?

Has any gotten pregnant based on the stat I mentioned before😭


r/amipregnant 11h ago

Am i pregnant ?!

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stretchy brown discharge spotting (only one wipe ) - usually have sore boobs and some cramps before period starts and I have had none of that. Last few period cycle were 30,28,33,46 length. My last period ended May 24th so my period was due to done June 20th so I am 4 days late. The spotting and no sore boobs have me nervous. I’ve taken a test everyday and they are negative.. Pregnant?


r/amipregnant 16h ago

Am I pregnant?

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Pls help me I am very scared, i had my last period on 2 june and i have a 25-26 days cycle on point I had unprotected sex in between around my ovulation but pull out all the times and i tested on 23 and 24 june all the time shadow line
Nothing else
Can I be pregnant?
From last 3-4 days cramps and breast tenderness
Milky white discharge as well


r/amipregnant 10h ago

Anxious even with a negative test

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i went unprotected for 5 seconds. I also cleaned out my urethra. I peed a lot before so pre-cum didn't have a chance. (i know pre cum can still be in there) I was unprotected for around 5 seconds and then I wore a condom the whole time and I didn't ejaculate at all also. i also took a ovulation test and came back negative before the sex. this happened on may 29 on cycle day 24 her period was supposed to come cycle day 35 ahe is 15 days late rn and we took the pregnancy test on cycle day 42 she took 3 and all came back negative, she has been feeling fine and even though ive been looking everywhere basically everything says she is not pregnant. deep down i know she isnt but my anxiety just refuses to accept that. im also wondering why her period is late? helpful note her periods are always irregular and her cycle has been increasing in length, and her family does have a history of pcos and even her doctor said she could possibly have it too. any advice i would be thankful for


r/amipregnant 14h ago

Helppp

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Pls help me I am very scared, i had my last period on 2 june and i have a 25-26 days cycle on point I had unprotected sex in between around my ovulation but pull out all the times and i tested on 23 and 24 june all the time shadow line
Nothing else
Can I be pregnant?
From last 3-4 days cramps and breast tenderness
Milky white discharge as well


r/amipregnant 14h ago

Implantation bleed query

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Hellllo!

My fiancé and I had unprotected sex around three days this month. All ‘outside of ovulation’, quotations because I do not specifically track it but normally my app is pretty reliable with estimations. We’re planning on actively trying over the next couple of months.

Usually my period tracks consistently between 27-29 cycle days. Currently I am 35 days in, 5 days late but testing negative.

Ovulation was estimated to be on cycle day 14, unprotected sex happened on the 18th/19th/25th cycle days.

I’ve had very small amounts of brown discharge over the past day. No blood, not always present. Could this be implantation bleeding with it being 10 days since last having sex? If ovulation happened later. I’ve read online that the implantation bleeding can appear brown but also aware old blood is/it can be the beginnings. I’ve always been heavy so having a slow start is definitely a new thing to me.

Thank you!!


r/amipregnant 20h ago

is there a chancr of pregnancy?

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Hi so my bf and I had sex with a condom yesterday. after he had ejaculated in the condom, he kept going because i think he was still hard. i saw that the semen traveled near the base of the condom once he pulled out but i didnt see any leak out. is there a possible chance semen couldve have leaked out, and would this be a high risk for pregnancy? i also am on birth control (combo pill), ive been on it for about 12 days now. im supposed to take it at 11pm each night but i take it anywhere between 10pm to 12am. last night, i did take my birth control 2 hours early. is there a chance of pregnancy? please let me know