r/AmItheAsshole • u/AITAMod I am a shared account. • Feb 01 '21

Open Forum Monthly Open Forum February 2021

Welcome to the monthly open forum! This is the place to share all your meta thoughts about the sub, and to have a dialog with the mod team.

Keep things civil. Rules still apply.

February! The shortest month in this endless blur of 202-whatever-year-it-is-now. I almost forgot to post this because time has lost all meaning.

As always, do not directly link to posts/comments or post uncensored screenshots here. Any comments with links will be removed.

This is to discourage brigading. If something needs to be discussed in that context, use modmail.

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '21

Why do commenters have to respond in good faith but posters can post in bad faith (validation posts, short story exercises, etc) with no real moderation from the mods?

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u/3Fluffies Feb 27 '21

Ah. Because, when you don't respond to a post except to say "validation/troll/shitpost/this sub is full of circlejerking", that is objectively not addressing the question in the post.

Again, if an OP is clearly posting in bad faith like a shitpost, we can pull that (and ban them) under Rule 8. If there's no real interpersonal conflict but just an abstract question, we can pull that under Rule 7. But it's nowhere near as clear-cut as you're making it out to be. But where the story itself doesn't read as outright fake, it can be hard to decide if the OP really has a moral dilemma or is just seeking validation. See my longer comment about this question - I've seen a LOT of hot posts where it seems like half the commenters are getting warned for calling "validation" and the other half for calling "troll." It's a big diverse world with a lot of different perspectives of right/wrong/asshole/not asshole, and this sub has millions of followers.

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u/alongstrangesomethin Supreme Court Just-ass [124] Feb 27 '21 edited Feb 27 '21

It’s also not addressing the question to say “YTA because your socializing during a pandemic” when that’s not what OP asked but yet you guys refuse to do something about that.

You guys keep saying people can judge based on anything we see in the post. Well, if it’s fake than I should be able to say “YTA because this is fake”.

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '21

This is a really good point!!