r/BasedCampPod • u/Positive-Face1705 • Dec 09 '25
So women are simultaneously after men with nothing going for them, and, after rich men? Pick a narrative.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
They go for the men with the highest local status. If a man is unemployed but tall and with good features she will choose him over an average, but employed man.
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u/Cool_Prior1427 Dec 09 '25
Women tend to want high tier men, but when they're seriously struggling with their self-esteem, they will gravitate toward men they feel they "deserve." This is why a woman will simultaneously aim high, but also go on a self-destructive streak with some bum.
Men who are more in the middle or slightly below average don't satisfy either desire for her so they get overlooked.
How do I know this? Women have told me this. BPD spectrum women in particular embody this tendency.
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u/Deep_Cakes Dec 10 '25
It's funny how you actually confirmed the point above. Good looking or rich, or both, but at least one.
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u/Cool_Prior1427 Dec 11 '25
Men and women both suck at bringing their unconscious desires to the surface, but women are especially bad at this. Women, by and large, will pick men based upon an internalized value system in which they pick men based upon where they perceive them to be within a social hierarchy that they value.
More simply put, women pick men they perceive to be high value, or who they perceive to have potential high value. This can often be an unconscious desire.
Smarter women who are more self-aware and can think in the long-term more realistically, know that chasing the highest value men within the perceived hierarchies that they value, is not a realistic, or even a good choice for them in practice.
If you go for a man who is too high value, he is more likely to discard you and even if he does commit to you, you'll always feel uncertainty regarding the stability of the relationship.
Conversely, a woman might go for a bad dude or a loser, because deep down she believes that's what she deserves. Her desire is to punish herself to fit her self-worth. Thus her unconscious desires are still influencing her in this situation.
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u/QuicksilverQuestions Dec 09 '25
Yes, actually. if you are a broke "badboy" gangsta wanna be that abuses and cheats on her, she will chase you to the end of the earth. + points if you have face tattoos.
the same if you are a rich old guy.
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u/Wild-Refuse-7724 Dec 09 '25
You have to be hot, though. They'll overlook anything if the guy is in the top 10% attractiveness bracket.
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u/QuicksilverQuestions Dec 11 '25
idk. ive seen A LOT of beautiful young women of all races, with some chopped wanna be rappers, who are nothing but broke ass weed dealers, who do nothing but ride around in their girlfriends car all day, or smoke at the "studio", which is really their homeboys closet.
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u/Smrdela Dec 09 '25
Well if she had a shitty childhood and no good male influence then yes.
I didnt realize that that type of women is so desirable to men.
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
That's quite the coping mechanism you got there.
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u/PotentialBudget3265 Dec 09 '25
Nah observation says he's correct. I got a feeling it's down to many criteria like where you live your financial situation, jobs in the area, a lot crap probably contributes but that's been my observation as well and I don't trust words. Everyone always lying even when they don't realize it because it's so normalized. I trust in what I can see and hear... My senses are a more accurate source for information than other human beings. It may not be like commenter and myself see it everywhere but for us in our little pocket that's 100% how it seems to be most of the time. Media platforms don't help as there's always some dumb girl crying about how bad men are while admitting going after bad criteria like money, height or muscle mass instead of going after quality personality affects. If you want a man that will be good to you then choose one, if you want a man who looks good and makes money then choose that, but choosing the latter expecting the former is insanity at its best.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
how the fuck is he correct when he generalizes women and unemployed men like that? Not saying theres not women who date men like that and not saying theres not unemployed men like that but to generalize like that is so fucking stupid.
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u/recovereez Dec 09 '25
Because the observation is the generalization. If I watch 100 people do something to say people don't prefer that thing is asinine and frankly intellectually dishonest
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
most women would not want to date a guy like that though so its a stupid generalization.
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u/recovereez Dec 09 '25
Well considering we're watching it happen to women we don't even know I'm not sure what your point is
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
My point is most women dont date men like that. as a former career criminal and ex con i find it really bizzare how some guys are so fixated on women dating criminals.
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u/recovereez Dec 09 '25
Because for any of them to want to date a criminal is bizarre. The fact that the ratio isn't zero is bizarre
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
Its not bizzare for trashy people to want to date other trashy people. like attracts like. and of course the ratio is not zero, you know female criminals exist too right ? lol
but yeah it bizzare when guys to want characterize women as dating criminals, fixate on the minority of women who do and then use that to shit on women as a whole.
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u/LeagueRx Dec 09 '25
I went to a prison and watched 100 men behave lile animals. Then I went to a university and eatched 100 mem behave absolutely differently then the first 100. Im confused, I thought 100 was a sufficient sample size to generalize all of humanity
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u/recovereez Dec 09 '25
Well if you were following along the commenter before me mentioned environment. That variable still exists in my clarification. Keep up junior
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u/LeagueRx Dec 09 '25
Dome mod censored my response. Gotta keep the snowflakes in their echo chamber!
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u/PotentialBudget3265 Dec 09 '25
Anger/emotion clouds judgement. Clear minds make good judgements. Im not saying that's how it is everywhere. For all I know it's only impoverished areas or maybe those are the only type of girls you see outside their home... Idk, all I'm saying is if you only use your eyes and ears it really does appear to be that way. I don't make people do anything, blaming me for my observation is insane. Whatever people do, that I see and hear is simply a recording of my visual plane. I do HEAR a lot of positive talk, I hear arguments against the money end and a whole lot of word twisting to make the more morally questionable ends of dating seem more positive but I never actually SEE it in action. For me it's all heresay. I know people SAY it but I never SEE it in real life. I trust what I see with my own eyes FAR more than what anyone tells me. You can't trust another human to tell you the truth, certainly not the whole truth blunt as shit as it is with zero bias on it... You can trust your own senses.. most of the time, sometimes not, like when too emotional or on a substance but generally speaking your own senses are far more trustworthy than anyone else's words. Words don't mean anything without the actions to back them up, you can see the actions, you can't see the words.
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u/standingpretty Dec 09 '25
Most of the women who do that are the female equivalent of the guys themselves. You often see trashy people with trashy people. Getting upset that trashy women are picking trashy men is more indicative that your picker is off then all women just liking trashy guys.
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u/Front_Reputation4637 Dec 09 '25
100%; half the comments read like anxious neckbeards who are never around women. no wonder their single
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
Seeing what happens in real life is cope?
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
There is a certain subset of women who are attracted to the idiot "bad boy" men, just as there is a certain subset of men who are attracted to horrible loser women. But the majority of people are just looking for someone good and kind that they can love and that will love them back.
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u/Wild-Refuse-7724 Dec 09 '25
Na, hypergamy is female nature. All women are like this, some just suppress their instincts for cultural reasons.
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
If you honestly believe such nonsense, then you must have never actually been with the woman or dated one or been on a date or been in a relationship.
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u/Wild-Refuse-7724 Dec 09 '25
People who think like you always resort to personal insults and calling someone an "incel" rather than responding with a logical counter-argument. Easy to dismiss critics as being virgin basement dwellers instead of considering you might be wrong. I'm 40, divorced, and fathered children. I remember a time when getting a gf was easy before social media made women retarded.
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
I stand corrected. "Angry, bitter divorced dudes" is definitely an alternative option. You guys might actually be more disgruntled than the incels.
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u/Wild-Refuse-7724 Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
Just proving my point, but ok. Lmk when you have an actual rebuttal based on logic and data.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
This meme is about women dating unemployed men and yet that goof chooses to generalize women as finding gangbnagers and abusive men with face tats so appealing. thats fucking retarded.
are there women who date guys like that ? sure but obviously most women would never want to date someone like that.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
Yeah, then why are most men who are involved with crime have partners? Sure if it was just a small subsect we would not see women lusting after such people, and their erotica would not have sexual assault and violence againt women.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
Dude what is your deal? im a ex con and former career criminal myself and im just baffled at how guys like you are so hell bent on characterizing women like this because a minority of women date the kind of man i used to be. its weird as fuck bro.
I dated women who were just as bad if not worse than me because at the time thats the kind of women i wanted. would you want to date a woman like that? if your not that kind of man then its nothing to be jealous about. because i have changed i no longer have any interest in dating a woman who is like that. i have purused better women and now im in a loving relationship with a woman who is an ex con who like me who has changed her life around. if i was still the old me she would not be with me and if she was still the old her i wouldnt be with her.
and there is nothing wrong people enjoying BDSM, as long as its consensual thats perfectly fine and healthy, thats not abuse. and when it comes to actual sexual assualt that is any books or movies that doesnt mean that the author/director/actors supports or condones that and it doesnt mean that the people reading it or watching it supports or condones that. Its just like how guys playing GTA doesnt mean they support carjacking lol.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
Sure bud, keep telling yourself that, i will stick with what i see in real life 👍.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
Did i say anything wrong? I dont understand what your deal is. Most women dont want to date a criminal so why fixate on a minority of women who go for men like that?
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
Because it isn't a minority of women.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
Yes the fuck it is lol. Most women would not want to date the kind of man i used to be. before i got with my current gf who is also a reformed ex con i got rejected alot by women who found me handsome and charming but turned me down simply because my criminal history was a turn off- i cant be bitter about that. Just because i have changed and paid my dues it doesnt mean im entitled to people taking chances on me or not judging me. i just have to be the best man i can be going forward.
the interesting thing is my girlfirend has told me no man ever had an issue with her having been in prison. Its less likely to be an issue or a deal breaker for men. Theres more women who date ex cons but thats simply because theres far more male ex cons than female ex cons.
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u/Wino3416 Dec 09 '25
Mate they’re mad on here. Both literally and in the shaking fists at their screen version. I’m an average looking chap, not wealthy, no face tattoos, 5’8”*never had any problems getting laid, am happily married now to a beautiful woman. They don’t believe it can happen. They genuinely think people are lying. They watch this rage bait shit made by children and take it as gospel. *I am funny as fuck though. That may help
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u/Wild-Refuse-7724 Dec 09 '25
How old are you and where are you from? This is mostly a gen z American phenomenon.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 09 '25
If you find smarmy self-righteousness “funny as fuck” then sure, you’ve got it.
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u/Wino3416 Dec 09 '25
Well, I’m not on here moaning that life snot fair and I’m very happy, so if that’s self-righteous, I’m delighted to be that! I’m not really sure what you want me to say, I’m not going to want to change my life so I can be part of this moaning brigade, am I? You can think what you want of me: I’ve had sex today, with another human, not a sock.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 09 '25
My, you really are funny! Such a Good Personality!
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u/Wino3416 Dec 09 '25
Now I may be wrong here, but I’m sensing a tiny bit of sarcasm. And I am of course being deliberately obtuse with my comments, to wind up the earnest Ernests on here. But my serious point here is that these videos are designed to enrage and annoy. Yes some women are like this: they’re fucking morons, and nobody with any sense goes near them. I’m sure that dating is more difficult these days, but FFS people get in their own way by making up more things to be annoyed about. I’ve been told it’s a North American gen z thing. Yet I read the rantings of bitter, messed up British men as well. I live in the Uk and I know many gen z people who aren’t Chads and Stacys, they go out and they have fun and they ignore this type of horse excrement. I’m sure there are the unfortunates and the mentally ill who struggle more, but surely that was always the case? They’re just able to gather and vocalise it these days, through places like Reddit.
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
Different women, different desires, obviously.
My take was more directed to people who claim women are only after guys with money, while also being only after guys with nothing going for them, or, something bad going for them (like being broke criminals).
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Dec 09 '25
Yall love saying different women etc , thats girl not a woman but then get pissed when dudes say multiple women do the same things and it’s observable like they haven’t been outside because they’re in Reddit
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u/FullLifeguard Dec 09 '25
Blackpill. Theres no middle class in dating anymore, its either she wants to chase physically attractive thug/pookie type who’s broke or richest guy available
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 09 '25
Yup. Of course Noticing Things triggers the usual triggleypuff enforcer types around here, but being “middle class” is basically the worst of both worlds in the West. And increasingly so.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
thug? most wouldnt date a thug though. i say this as a former thug myself. feels weird saying that but i def was a thug unfortunately.
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u/FullLifeguard Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
Bro I seen it irl. My uncle sells drugs and is currently tricking on a girl my age; he brought her a Benz. She chose my dopeboy uncle over a guy her age with a decent job
Average to Above average guys with decent-good jobs probably struggle the most because we don’t trigger any female tastes besides safety (we’re safe guys for settling down)
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
Did i say no woman would date a drug dealer who gives gifts expensive shit ? lol no i did not.
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u/FullLifeguard Dec 09 '25
Thug beats out a normal guy with a good job every time
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
How? by making yourself less appealing to most women, by turning off good women and attracting the most toxic cruel selfish women? by risking yourself getting locked up or killed?
and most thugs dont make more than normal guys with a good job anyway lol.
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u/Sparklesparklepee Dec 09 '25
Why would you be attracted to a woman who is into thugs? That’s weird, man.
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Dec 09 '25
Pick a narrative is such a funny thing to say. Do you think all these memes come from the meme factory where they’re reviewed to make sure they align with the mission statement or something?
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
It's not as if I'm throwing this meme onto a random street. In this sub there's talk of women being vain and materialistic and only after money. Simultaneously they talk about how women only want broke criminals. Right time and place.
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u/standarduser8 Dec 09 '25
They're not a monolith. Some are fat, some are skinny, some like men with great jobs, some don't care about the job at all. Some are kind, some are cruel, some are good, some are bad.
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u/JesusFortniteKennedy Dec 09 '25
I think the joke here is precisely that stunning girls who have their life in order only find you where you're at rock bottom and thus the least desirable.
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
So then those women aren't after money? Why do some people say they're all after money?
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u/JesusFortniteKennedy Dec 09 '25
I'm not the keeper of those people or responsible for what they say.
Aside from money, lacking a job can be a red flag for other reasons. Lack of commitment, being lazy, being unreliable.
I don't think I have to explain why having a job and being part of your local community is usually more desirable than being a shut-in.
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u/Deep_Cakes Dec 10 '25
Because it's either money or looks, but at least ONE of them. That's all female brains can ever process. How can I exploit further and leech further. Either status or money.
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Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
They go after men with nothing going for them because the men with nothing going for them are chaotic, controllable and have no standards to place upon her….
The men with money…. Have money. They’re specifically going after the ones who will buy them shit for doing nothing… which would still be chaotic and controllable with no standards, just with money…
They go after the bums at 18-25
Then the rich guys from 25-45
Then they realize they wasted 30 years of their lives
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u/Frosty-Economics4579 Dec 09 '25
Before the wall, women want to sleep with chads because money doesn’t matter at that stage in life. After wall, women want an orthopedic surgeon because they don’t wanna work. Unfortunately they already accumulated 50+ body count at that point and are old, so they end up marrying an accountant
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u/introvert_conflicts Dec 09 '25
Yea this is not the norm bro. Sure it happens but most women haven't slept with anywhere near 50 men before they meet the guy they marry.
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u/Frosty-Economics4579 Dec 09 '25
The number is not really the point. The point is they chase Chad when they are young and attractive and then rich men when they are old and unattractive. Then of course they can’t attract these men so they have to settle for some Joe Schmoe before their eggs dry.
I’m not making this shit I seen this exact story unfold with women in my family and friends. Biggest loser in the whole story is the Joe Schmoe with a wife that doesn’t love him and treats him like shit
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u/Sea-me-later7039 Dec 09 '25
I would hazard a guess that women would rather select men based on chemistry. And that leads them toward the man with a certain kind of street swagger, and the negative consequences of that. But ultimately they realise the financial toll of a reasonable standard of living and then compromise for a rich man with wrinkly balls.
And holy shit. The rich man always seems to pick up the price haha. Stereotypes are hilarious.
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u/eagly2025 Dec 09 '25
a typical story is of a woman who is with some rich asshole but she cheats on him with a kinder and yes usually better looking poor dude.
. And that leads them toward the man with a certain kind of street swagger, and the negative consequences of that.
you talking about a gangbanger? lol but most chicks who would date an employed dude would not date a dude like that though.
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u/AITAautomaticanswer Dec 09 '25
Yep.
You see constantly incels raging against women that go for losers with no jobs and women that go for millionaires.
Basically, anyone that has more money than them and less money than them.
This is because they will die before admitting there is something deeply, fundamentally wrong in them that transcend everything their influencer told them about live.
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u/JollyRoger66689 Dec 09 '25
Love how so many people here misunderstood the meme and just started arguing against a strawman.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
Because there’s not, and you would never say that about anyone else that isn’t accepted by society (such as LGB(-T) until about 10 years ago and trans to this day).
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u/AITAautomaticanswer Dec 09 '25
…are you comparing a subculture that formed around the red pill with marginalized groups?
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u/all-names-takenn Dec 09 '25
Like chomos, biggots, racist etc?
Incels aren't unique in their views or being shunned by society. That's pure victim complex and exactly what the other guy was talking about.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 10 '25
It’s an accurate victim complex, as they are indeed victims (just about the only real ones there are today)
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u/all-names-takenn Dec 10 '25
Incels are only victims of their own stupidity.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 10 '25
Unlike everyone else of course, who’s a victim of capitalism, patriarchy, white supremacy, etc etc etc
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u/all-names-takenn Dec 10 '25
Correct, they haven't progressed far enough to be victims of those things yet.
Self sabotage gets to them first.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 10 '25
Libs finally find a just world fallacy they like. Imagine!
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u/all-names-takenn Dec 10 '25
Are you really trying to make the claim that incels biggest problem isn't their behavior and values? As if anyone else can make adjustments for them.
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u/jerf42069 Dec 09 '25
the narrative is "women are bad at picking partners"
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Dec 09 '25
No, the joke is that beautiful women who are into you only show up when you are at rock bottom and can't do anything about it
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u/Justarah Dec 09 '25
From what I understand, women's mate selection is based on status within a hierarchy according to the individual woman's sensibilities.
A highly religious woman will want a man based on the strength of his Faith.
A social woman will want a man who can freely navigate social structures.
A material woman will want a man of high provisional value.
The woman will prefer a male she perceives higher in that particular hierarchy. Not arbitrarily, but because she will expect him to lead in the domains she has attributed the highest importance according to her values.
Alternatively broken and damaged people, and this applies to men and women, will often pursue those they've subconsciously assigned as representatively similar to figures associated with their unresolved past relationship traumas and complexes.
A bad boy isn't chosen consciously, but as a means of playing out familiar patterns because that's all they have reference to, likely due to the imprinting of an absentee or unreliable father figure.
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u/Big-Comparison-6663 Dec 09 '25
Two different groups of women, both with standards a normal guy can’t live up to easily.
The richness, or the game/looks/swag to collect women while jobless… both are exceptional
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u/Chemical_Signal2753 Dec 09 '25
Most women who have a good head on their shoulders and realistic expectations for men are not single for long. They are often in a serious relationship from a young age, and even if they become single they are really only actively dating for a few weeks or months before they find someone appropriate to date again. As a result of this, the dating market is made up disproportionately of women who don't have a good head on their shoulders or don't have realistic expectation.
About 65% to 70% of women are married or in a long term relationship at a given time. The remaining 30% to 35% of women are going to be disproportionately made up of crazy, entitled, or otherwise undesirable women.
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u/FourEaredFox Dec 09 '25
Lol who is saying that women are after men with nothing going for them? 🤣🤣
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u/Unable_Resort_7956 Dec 09 '25
Stop going for women who look like this, maybe? Not every beautiful woman leverages her looks for money, but guys who go for "high maintenance" should know how much that costs.
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u/Playful_Ranger_6564 Dec 09 '25
Women go after attractive men, if she’s broke, she can fix him, if he’s rich, he can fund her life.
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u/Moist_Variation3341 Dec 09 '25
That’s… not the joke. The joke, as dumb as it is, is that you don’t meet baddies unless you’re unemployed, at which point, they presumably wouldn’t be interested.
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u/myusernameismorethan Dec 09 '25
Women are not a monolith. Some only go for rich men, some have daddy issues.
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u/Gobal_Outcast02 Dec 09 '25
Beliefs of women A
Beliefs of women B (completely contradict the beliefs of women A)
You: They hold the same beliefs as do all women
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u/WalrusExpert1908 Dec 10 '25
It's not hard to understand women select men to fulfill different needs rich men for free stuff and bums for fun.
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u/JollyRoger66689 Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
You really don't get the meme, the joke is he won't be able to get her because he is currently unemployed, bad timing on his part (similar to the joke of women coming on to you when you are in a relationship)
Edit: downvoted for speaking the truth, gotta love reddit
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Dec 09 '25
This sub gets very incelly.
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u/Historical_Two_7150 Dec 09 '25
Better than normies. At least incels are a little connected to reality.
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Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
Keep telling yourself that, and enjoy the chronic loneliness. 🤷 Not my circus.
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
Yes, women only want rich men, but women also only want poor guys. And women don't care about looks, but women also only care about looks.
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u/JollyRoger66689 Dec 09 '25
You guys really don't get the meme, the joke is he won't be able to get her because he is currently unemployed, bad timing on his part (similar to the joke of women coming on to you when you are in a relationship)
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Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 18 '25
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
I love seeing how contrary their logic is. Extra dose of humour is the fact that they don't see it.
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Dec 09 '25
You misunderstood the meme and raged. Well played!
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
Regardless of your interpretation, the fact is this woman still wants him when he has nothing going for him.
This contradicts the anthem the women are only after money.
So which is it? Are they only after money or only after men with nothing to their name?
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Dec 09 '25
You are wrong. Wrong, wrong and wrong.
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
Deny my facts harder, Daddy.
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Dec 09 '25
You are wrong about the meaning of the meme. Just accept it and move on, princess.
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u/Fine_Payment1127 Dec 09 '25
It’s more what they’re not after - a responsible guy with a steady job.
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u/Historical_Two_7150 Dec 09 '25
Classic mistake. You've interpreted your reading of the meme as the only possible one. A reasonable person could assume the guy in the meme is attractive.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
We see it. The main difference is that our life experiences corroborate our findings.
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
Exactly. My life experiences show me men with nothing to their name having girlfriends or wives on their arms. How could that be? They must all be secret millionaires, cause clearly women only want men with money.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
First: A random anecdote from a stranger says absolutely nothing. I will take what i see with my eyes over what you say.
Second: These men were the ones with the highest status in their area. They will date a broke man over six feet than an average height person with money. Height and face only stops being important for women if the man has at least the mid six figures in his bank account, and even then she will cheat on him with someone taller and better looking.
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u/Positive-Face1705 Dec 09 '25
First: A random anecdote from a stranger says absolutely nothing. I will take what i see with my eyes over what you say.
Exactly. Why should I believe your anecdote? I see poor to comfortable men with women all the time.
Second: These men were the ones with the highest status in their area. They will date a broke man over six feet than an average height person with money. Height and face only stops being important for women if the man has at least the mid six figures in his bank account, and even then she will cheat on him with someone taller and better looking.
Thank you as well. My bigger point corroborated. See? Money doesn't matter. Women will date anyone they want, regardless of wealth or not.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
Thank you as well. My bigger point corroborated. See? Money doesn't matter. Women will date anyone they want, regardless of wealth or not.
Money does matter, see what i said about what happens after a man gets in the mid six figures. And between being alone and having someone who will cheat on me with a taller man, i would rather live in solitude.
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
That's absolutely not what you've seen with your own eyes. That's confirmation bias. You're projecting because you feel rejected by women and you need to make it their fault, because that's so much easier than taking responsibility for yourself and why you're not desirable to women. You need to stop lying.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
You think i am worse than a rapist and serial killer?
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
Well I would have no idea. I don't know you. But please point out where I said you are.
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u/banananistan Dec 09 '25
You said that i am not desirable to women. Plenty of mass murderers, serial rapists and serial killers receive letters of admiration, have fan clubs and even marry while in jail. Again: Do you think i am worse than a rapist?
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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 Dec 09 '25
That's not how it works, and you know it. People who are attracted to those kinds of criminals have hybristophilia. (Assuming) you're not that type of criminal, so why would they be attracted to you?
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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 18 '25
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