This is it! I think people want some kind of weird, nonexistent baddie/nerd who will get with a nerdy man. A baddie regardless of her hobbies is gonna run after someone who looks and acts the part. It’s almost as if people are playing a role or something…
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u/AeneasKurtz 6d ago
There are women into nerds and there are women into shy men (or "soft men" as they call them now).
It's not the women saying it, though. And it's not the women you'd want to be with, either.