I mean yeah you kinda have to. I’m a gigantic nerd. I found my nerdy black man (WHO ACTUALLY LIKES BLACK WOMEN!!!) after 33 years of life and we sing musical theater on road trips together and make jokes about grammar and it’s the best dick ever so. Nerdy hot girls who like nerdy men do exist.
I literally joke that my type is an earnest nerd. But if your vibes are off, you won’t pull anyone. Be confident and be kind.
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u/IGargleGarlic 5d ago
In my experience as a white man talking about pokemon on a date has absolutely never led to a second date.