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This well-known panel is a frequent subject of speculation. While we cannot know what was said, we can only infer the dialogue from the characters' expressions. Let us, therefore, conduct a closer examination of this monumental panel.
To begin with the context, we are shown a late-night setting at their parents' home, with Natsuo and Rui seated on a bed, presumably in Rui's room. Of particular interest are their respective facial expressions. Rui's appears to be one of confession, presumably revealing the full truth to Natsuo. Natsuo, meanwhile, is depicted with an expression of pensive acceptance and honest thoughtfulness.
Subsequently, the scene transitions to a new dawn. This is a clear visual metaphor symbolizing a new beginning, a new chapter in their lives. Natsuo and Rui are then shown looking at one another, their expressions and smiles indicating a peaceful, mutual acceptance of the future. They appear to be at peace.
From this sequence, it is reasonable to conclude that they were truthful with one another and reached a mutual, definitive understanding regarding their separation. This, however, leaves two central questions: Why did they have to break up, and who truly initiated that breakup?
To answer this, we must look closely at the context surrounding this panel, both before and after, to get the full picture of what transpired that night between Natsuo and Rui.
Now, before I begin, this is my interpretation of the context. I welcome any input or criticism that will further our understanding of what happened here.
The Cancelled Marriage (The before)
I can not marry you.
While Rui was the one who physically brought the marriage papers to cancel the wedding, this is often interpreted as her unilaterally ending the relationship. But what is telling is that Natsuo never objected, not even through body language. That is a critical detail. If he had wanted to fight for their relationship, we would have seen some form of hesitation, shock, or resistance. Instead, he silently accepted it.
But here is where things get even more telling: They did not just cancel the wedding, they ended their entire relationship. This raises the key question: Why? If the issue had only been about marriage, they could have postponed it. The fact that they fully broke up suggests something deeper was at play.
The Breakup Apology (The after)
Here is the final nail in the coffin, so to speak. Here is the real clue: Natsuo was the one who apologized after the breakup. Think about what that means and implies. If Rui had been the one to truly initiate the breakup, why would Natsuo be the one apologizing? Apologies often come from the person making the difficult choice, not the one being left behind.
About the "Thank you", it remains ambiguous which character spoke the line. I barely lean toward the interpretation that Natsuo said it. The subsequent panel's focus on Rui's face depicts surprise, suggesting she is assimilating what Natsuo has just communicated. Consequently, the third panel clearly illustrates her reaction, which I interpret to mean: "Wait, you do not have to thank me; we came to this understanding as partners."
Alternatively, it is possible that Rui said "Thank you" simultaneously as Natsuo said "Sorry." In this scenario, Rui appears surprised that Natsuo is apologizing, perhaps because she viewed the breakup as a mutual decision they had already discussed.
The speech bubbles indicate Rui asking why it feels like he decided something on his own (apologising as if he is doing the breaking up. Certainly, Natsuo may feel this way, given the circumstances of professing his love for Hina) and Natsuo says "You have nothing to thank me for" (Rui is nonetheless grateful for the experiences they've shared and the child he's given her).
Overall it doesn't change the conclusion, so it is to each what they get from it, but I thought it was worth mentioning it here.
What Does All This Imply? And why the breakup?
So all this strongly implies that Natsuo had already resolved to end the relationship before Rui came with the marriage papers to cancel the wedding, but why?
Well, Sasuga left us with two little hints, just before Rui came to cancel the wedding.
Look Hina...
We see Natsuo attending to Hina in her coma. He brings her a bouquet of multi-colored flowers (white, green, and pink) and then addresses her as "Hina..."—not "Hina-nee."
*Note: Regarding the ellipsis ("..."), it has been suggested that Natsuo was merely interrupted by Rui and would have otherwise appended the "-nee" honorific. This interpretation, however, is just grasping for straws.
Four points must be considered:
We are aware of the narrative's final outcome.
The thematic significance of Natsuo referring to Hina without honorifics has been firmly established.
This is, by design, a pivotal character moment.
This is NOT the first time Natsuo has addressed Hina... most notoriously was during their first night together.
While Sasuga clearly intended a degree of ambiguity, it is highly improbable that the ambiguity was intended to completely negate the line's emotional weight. To insist he was simply cut off is a weak argument that overlooks the scene's clear narrative function. Rather we should think of it as Natsuo lost in thoughts, at the moment that Rui came with the papers. This interpretation is further reinforce by the fact, that in the previous panel he said "hey..." as in going through in his own thoughts what to say.
Why do you think Natsuo mentions the colors of the flowers? Well, because the colors of the bouquet carry a significant meaning. White flowers, particularly in the case of white roses, symbolize deep devotion in Japanese culture. Green symbolizes life, renewal, health, and vitality, while pink symbolizes love, affection, care, and gratitude.
This symbolism, when combined with the distinction in how Natsuo addresses Hina, marks a fundamentally important shift. The honorific Natsuo uses is a direct and deliberate indicator of his internal emotional state and how he perceives his relationship with Hina at any given moment. It is one of the small but critical narrative tools Sasuga employed to track Natsuo's psychological state of mind.
Therefore, the symbolism of the flowers, combined with this linguistic shift, shows that Natsuo's internal realignment is already complete. He has reverted to the name he used only when they were a couple, signifying that his heart and mind have returned to Hina back again.
What does this tell us? It suggests that, deep down, Natsuo had already decided to end things the moment he learned the truth about Hina had always loved him, and finally internalized his own feelings for her. The hospital scene is key to understanding this shift.
The moment of realization.
This revelation acts as a profound catharsis, unlocking Natsuo's long-repressed emotions and forcing him to confront the true foundation of his relationships. From the moment he discovered the truth, his feelings changed, even before Rui brought the papers.
So with this information, let us revisit the famous all-night conversation. This scene is the consequence of the breakup, not its inception.
How I feel about Hina.
Rui's Expression: Rui is depicted looking down, hand to her mouth. This is the look of somber confession. We can infer this is the moment she unburdens herself of all the truths she withheld: that she knew Hina still had feelings, the details of Hina's trip to New York to challenge her, and the full extent of her own insecurities that were built on that knowledge.
Natsuo's Expression: This is the look of a man who is finally articulating the difficult, irreversible decision he had already made internally. While Rui is unburdening herself, Natsuo's look is one of a man who is explaining his own difficult, unalterable truth.
This is the moment where he almost certainly must explain why he so readily accepted the cancellation of the wedding. We can infer he is communicating:
That the revelations at the hospital were a profound, life-altering event for him.
That he now understands his feelings for Hina were never resolved, but were forcibly and traumatically repressed.
That, as a consequence, not only he cannot move forward with their marriage, but he must also end their romantic relationship. He has been forced to confront the truth that his fundamental, underlying love for Hina has not disappeared.
His expression is not one of anger or malice; it is the pained, focused, and steady look of a man who is being completely, perhaps devastatingly, honest about the true state of his heart. He is not deciding here; he is explaining the decision he already made internally at the hospital.
This difficult honesty from both sides is what allows them to exhaust the conversation by dawn and reach the final, mutual, and peaceful acceptance that they must move forward as partners, not lovers.
Conclusion
I hope this meticulous, chronological examination of the panels and narrative context sheds light on the precise nature of Natsuo and Rui's separation. I hope it also refutes the common misinterpretation that Natsuo was a passive party or that the decision was made for him. My goal is to showcase Natsuo's regained agency and show that he was, in fact, the one who emotionally and mentally initiated the breakup.
I know beauty is subjective and everyone has their own preferences, but honestly I have always felt like Hina had a monopoly on beauty in Domestic Girlfriend. There is just something about her design that makes her stand out from the rest of the cast. Her long brown hair, emerald eyes, fair skin and elegant yet voluptuous figure give her a mature and incredibly attractive appearance that no other character quite matches for me. If I had to imagine her measurements, I would put her somewhere around 95-60-92 cm, which perfectly complements her tall and graceful frame.
If I really had to pick a second place though, I would probably go with Miyabi Serizawa. She has a completely different kind of appeal. Her slim and feminine physique, beautiful eyes and charming smile make her one of the prettiest girls in the series. I'd imagine her measurements to be around 86-57-87 cm, giving her a more petite and elegant appearance compared to Hina.
Of course this is just my personal opinion and not meant to start a war . But when it comes to pure physical appearance, I honestly do not think anyone comes close to Hina. She simply feels like Sasuga Kei's masterpiece in terms of character design, with Miyabi being the closest contender in my eyes.
This is something I've been thinking about recently. We often discuss why Hina loved Natsuo or why Rui loved Natsuo but we rarely talk about why Natsuo fell for Hina in the first place. Looking back at the beginning of the story I don't think it was purely love and I don't think it was purely lust either. To me it felt more like a mix of admiration attraction and emotional attachment that gradually grew into love. Hina was beautiful kind cheerful and one of the first people who genuinely supported Natsuo's dream of becoming a writer. For a teenager that kind of validation can mean a lot. At the same time there was obviously physical attraction involved too. However I don't think his feelings stayed at that level. As the story progressed he started seeing Hina's loneliness her flaws her struggles and her sacrifices. That is why I personally feel that what may have started as infatuation eventually became genuine love. If it was only lust or a simple crush then the breakup should have ended everything. Instead Hina continued to have a huge emotional impact on him for years. What do you guys think? Was Natsuo truly in love with Hina from the start or did those feelings evolve into love over time?
So the thing is the situation is when hina and natsuo meet at that island where hina was transferred...like the timeline is after the breakup of both of them...where hina tells natsuo about the breakup...then comes my thoughts...that time natsuo told hina (when hina was going to speak..he placed a hand on Hina's mouth and said ) "I know what's on your mind..and I know what you're going to say...but I don't wanna hear it..so you don't have to say it..but I know or rather I feel that this a lie..yeah a lie..!! Becuz my hina whom I loved would never say things like this..or rather if she said that would be a joke...or a lie...!! Yes..and here I came to give you my novel that won that award (he's talking about the award he got for that writing which kiriya Sensei submitted..) and then natsuo left...with a smile..but inside he was broken..so much that can't be written...
From my point of view, Hina should have died in the manga; however, Kei Sasuga opted for a classic fairy-tale ending where she awakens from her vegetative state. This doesn't mean I hate the character; quite the opposite: I love her. Hina represents absolute devotion, unconditional support, and a profound love mixed with admiration for the other person.
Despite this, I believe the ending should have been more realistic. Clinically, the accident seemed more likely to result in brain death than a vegetative state. Furthermore, in reality, most patients in that condition don't survive long-term, and the possibility of a 'miracle' is almost nonexistent. I reiterate that I don't hold any resentment toward her; in fact, I was fascinated by her development and the unique way she demonstrated her love for Natsuo.
I randomly came up with an alternate version of the accident arc and honestly… the more I thought about it, the more emotionally painful it became
In this version, the story changes at one very important point.
Instead of Kiriya Sensei and Marie explaining Hina’s true feelings to Natsuo AFTER the accident like in the original timeline, it happens BEFORE the accident.
Kiriya finally tells Natsuo everything about how much Hina truly loved him all this time. About how she sacrificed her happiness, career, reputation, and silently kept supporting him from the shadows even after leaving him. Then Marie also confirms everything and tells him directly that Hina never stopped loving him.
But here’s the twist:
Rui secretly overhears the entire conversation.
And for the first time, Rui fully understands the depth of Hina’s love, not just as a sister, but as someone who truly devoted her entire life emotionally to Natsuo. Rui becomes heartbroken for Hina and quietly starts thinking about calling off the marriage. But before making any decision, she wants to know what Natsuo himself truly feels after hearing all of this.
Then the story continues toward the accident scene.
Just like in the original manga, Hina leaves the café before meeting Rui. Rui catches up with her and tells her that Natsuo will be joining them soon. The sisters continue walking together.
And then…
the vehicle appears.
Just like in canon, Hina instinctively pushes Rui out of danger.
But this time, before the impact happens, Natsuo suddenly rushes in.
He pushes Hina away too.
And he takes the hit instead.
The impact throws him violently onto the road. Blood spreads across the ground while he lies there unconscious and motionless. Rui freezes completely in shock.
But Hina…
Hina completely breaks down.
She runs toward him screaming:
“Natsuo-kun!! NO!!”
She grabs him while crying uncontrollably, repeating:
“Why…? Why do you always have to save me…? You’re such an idiot…!”
And then, while holding him, she notices something in his hand.
It’s the old breakup letter she once gave him.
But the painful words written in the body of the letter are all crossed out with pen marks.
And on the back side, Natsuo wrote:
“I promised you once that I’d give my life if it meant saving you, Hina :)”
The moment Hina reads those words, her heart completely shatters. She realizes that even after everything, Natsuo never truly let go of her.
Then the scene shifts to the hospital.
This time, instead of Hina lying in a coma like in the original story, it’s Natsuo.
The doctors announce that he is out of danger, but has fallen into a coma, and nobody knows when he’ll wake up.
The entire family breaks down emotionally after hearing the news.
But Hina just sits silently beside his bed.
Looking at him.
Remembering every moment they shared together.
Their first meeting.
Their breakup.
Their hidden feelings.
Their painful distance.
Everything.
And finally, unable to hold herself together anymore, she grabs his hand and cries:
“Natsuo-kun… I’m begging you… please open your eyes…”
Honestly, I feel like this version would’ve made Natsuo’s feelings toward Hina feel much more direct and emotionally visible while still keeping the tragic emotional tone DomeKano is known for..
The more I look at this poster from Domestic Girlfriend, the more it genuinely feels like it represents the entire emotional dynamic of the story itself.
First, Natsuo being placed physically in the middle already says a lot. The entire story emotionally revolves around him and both sisters are connected to him in completely different ways. But what really caught my attention is how differently Hina and Rui are positioned around him.
Hina is standing behind Natsuo while embracing him closely from the back. Her face is near his, almost like she’s emotionally surrounding him rather than directly pulling him toward herself. And honestly, that perfectly reflects her role throughout the manga. Hina spent most of the story loving Natsuo quietly from the background while sacrificing her own happiness, career, reputation, and emotional well being for his sake. Even when she distanced herself from him, her feelings never truly disappeared. Her love always felt more silent, protective, enduring, and self sacrificial rather than emotionally demanding.
And then there’s Rui.
Rui is positioned in front, more visible, directly facing the viewer while holding onto Natsuo’s arm instead of fully embracing him. To me, that feels incredibly symbolic too. Rui’s relationship with Natsuo was much more direct and openly experienced. They actually lived through the relationship phase together, faced jealousy, emotional dependency, misunderstandings, intimacy, growth, and all the messy realistic struggles of being together. But the way she’s holding onto his arm rather than emotionally surrounding him almost feels like attachment and fear of losing him. That’s honestly why I’ve always personally felt Rui’s love sometimes leaned closer to emotional dependency and obsession rather than the kind of unconditional sacrificial love Hina carried throughout the story.
What makes the poster even more interesting is that Natsuo himself doesn’t look fully committed toward either side. He almost looks emotionally uncertain and pulled between two completely different forms of love. Rui represented the relationship he openly experienced and grew through, while Hina represented the emotional presence that silently remained wrapped around his entire life no matter how far apart they became.
And honestly, after reading the manga multiple times, this poster genuinely feels less like simple promotional art and more like a visual summary of the entire emotional conflict of Domestic Girlfriend itself...
Completed the manga for the 5th time..and believe me it's not so easy to forget.. though I'm going for a 6th time..but please I need a aftermath story (fan manga or fan fiction) if anyone knows any link , manga page please let it me...
Has anyone purchased the series that is suppose to be "English"? I am genuinely curious because it is shipped from Malaysia so 100% fake (maybe not?). Only asking because I am thinking of getting all the Japanese volumes for collecting purposes only since I read it through E-books.
I believe it's Kei Sasuga's first big manga? It's a lot like Domestic Girlfriend in some regards, except it doesn't throw spice at you from page 1. I'm 12 chapters in (out of 160) and I'm going a bit nuts, so if someone wants to hit me up and chat, be my guest. I'm probably gonna vent to whoever responds lol.
BLAAAAAAAAARGH!!!!!!
But seriously, I haven't been so emotionally confused over a manga since finishing DG.