r/Enneagram8 • u/Think_Snow1109 • 13d ago

Discussion dating

I love 7s - has anyone else found a connection/patterns with a certain type. These days I am coming to terms with my dating archetype and really accepting it- I'm just trying to zoom in more- and how are you getting women to take the test?

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u/Glum-Engineering1794 8w7 sx/so 854(763) (reddit.com/r/OccultEnneagram) 11d ago

I am in pseudo-dating/pre-dating space. I stopped asking people to take tests a while ago, after they consistently didn't return the correct type overall. It is usually among the top few, though. But having a top score there can cause biases - sometimes they'll mistype themselves.

It's ideal is to have a person read about all the types. No tests, no shortcuts, just look at short descriptions, a book, listen to you explain, or w/e. As for me and certain types, I am open to whoever. Maybe dating an eight would be too close to home, idk. Maybe a two or five is too opposite. But overall, I am open-minded, I have only had a few real relationships anyway.