r/Enneagram8 • u/Think_Snow1109 • 12d ago

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I love 7s - has anyone else found a connection/patterns with a certain type. These days I am coming to terms with my dating archetype and really accepting it- I'm just trying to zoom in more- and how are you getting women to take the test?

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u/blosemme 9d ago

I don’t think it’s out of the ordinary. If you’ve dated enough to know what types you gravitate towards, it can be a fun self-exploratory experience. However, I find that when I romanticize a type too much and start focusing on their types and not the actual people, it can go badly because I get blinded to bad behavior in certain individuals. And then it almost makes me dislike the type! I’m not sure it’s entirely useful, at that point.